Why do people think the original couple is good?

First of all, when the couple got married, they were mostly in their twenties and thirties. Most people get married because of love. We know that marriage needs running-in. Without the initial love, people can hardly tolerate it.

Second, the original couple had children. They are fighting for their children and their families, with the same goal. Two marriages and three marriages are not bad, but we have also seen some bad cases, such as the case of a woman in Hangzhou, where the husband's son is not his wife's own, and the wife has her own daughter. Then there will be two hearts between husband and wife, and the goal will not be unified. In China, many people regard children as a kind of spiritual sustenance. If the objects of spiritual sustenance between husband and wife are not unified, it is easy to cause contradictions. Why is the distribution of wealth of the rich always a big problem? It is because of my selfishness that my goals and directions are not uniform.

Third, most of the original couples were together when they were young and knew each other very well. Couples who become monks halfway may spend more time getting to know each other. Personality, living habits, etc. , are unknown. It is good to meet good people, but if you meet non-people, you may pay a considerable price.