Elderly people still have love, but they also need love.
The remarriage of the elderly is very normal, and there are many examples around us. We can always hear or see examples of lonely elderly people who have found a suitable partner and are living a comfortable family life again. However, there are still many obstacles to the remarriage of the elderly in society. Traditional customs hold a negative attitude towards the remarriage of the elderly, that is to say, many young people in modern times are emotionally unable to turn the corner towards the remarriage of their own elderly fathers or mothers. Some of them think that celibate old people do not worry about food and clothing, why do they still need to get married? Is still so obsessed with sex? People often ignore that the remarriage of the elderly is not only a physical need, but also a psychological need. Here's what we have to say about the psychological characteristics of widows and orphans who want to find an old partner.
Elderly people do not have a job will lead to the loss of life center of gravity, if this time the old partner died, their own is also a person, is very lonely, such a reason will lead to the old man want to remarry the idea, because remarriage will have someone to accompany their own, not The reason why they want to remarry is because they will have someone to keep them company and not be lonely, and they will also have someone to take care of them when they are sick. Some old people want to remarry mainly because they don't want their children to worry too much, their children are usually working, no one to take care of the old man, but the old man's health is not very good when the family can't get there in time, in order to not let their children worry too much, a lot of old people will have the idea of remarriage. Regardless of the reason why the old man wants to remarry, it is the old man's own choice, the children should also sympathize with the old man's mood, can provide advice for the old man, but do not suggest that the old man to make a decision.
I think the elderly should be allowed to solve their own problems, we can not do the children's mind to consider their own, the elderly is an adult and not a child, they have their own ideas, the children should give is to support. Some elderly people are neglected or abused by their children and want to remarry. They can't bear the coldness, discrimination, or even hatred of their children, and they are eager to find a new partner and another family for the sake of spiritual solace. Of course, the elderly also need love, they need emotional comfort.