When people get old, they are guarded by a sincere partner. From youth to old age, it is a wonderful and happy thing to honor the promise of life and death, hold hands with Zicheng and grow old with him!
However, dreams are just people's hopes for a better life. In life, few couples can really do this. Most couples have a dull life, and some even become an unhappy couple.
In old age, one of the husband and wife will leave first. If it is a loving couple, the remaining one will be sad for a long time because of missing. But for people who don't have a good relationship, they feel that their future life is easier.
I am 68 years old and have a son. My wife and I have lived together for more than 40 years. My wife died five years ago. It was my son who helped arrange the funeral. It's sad to say that my wife drinks alone and dies alone at home.
My wife and I are employees of the same unit, and we are both technical secondary school students. After graduation, I followed him to an enterprise far from home. To tell the truth, my parents didn't agree with me to marry far away. After we got married, in order to support my wife's career, I took on almost all the housework at home.
My wife goes to work every day, gets off work, and reads books in the cabin when she comes back, specializing in business. I tutor my children to study in another room. In order not to affect my wife's study, I always take my children out to play after they finish their homework.
In this way, in a few years, my wife became the leader of the unit, and I was still an ordinary staff member of the department. My wife is socializing more and more, and it's getting late to go home. I feel that there is something wrong with our relationship.
Once, when I was at work, a phone call came. This is a strange man. He told me to hurry home and said it was urgent. I came home puzzled, opened the door and found my wife and a woman doing something indescribable.
I was so angry that I threw one of the woman's high heels on the roof of the bungalow downstairs. This shoe stayed on the roof for several years until the bungalow was demolished. When I saw that shoe in those years, I was angry inside.
I was so angry that I asked my wife for a divorce. My wife won't get divorced anyway. He said that he was confused for a moment and hoped that I would forgive him and promise to break up with that woman.
I know that he is afraid that divorce will affect his career, and he is also afraid that I will share the property he has earned for more than ten years.
I calmed down and thought, I don't want to stay here after the divorce, but I can't go back to my parents' house. My brother and sister-in-law live with their parents and there is no place for me to live. I can only comfort myself that the child is not married yet. He is only temporarily happy and has some power, and others are willing to follow him. As long as he pays me on time and is good for the children, I will turn a blind eye, but I have been separated from him since then, and I don't want him to touch me. I think he is dirty. I know he has been in secret contact with that woman.
My son got married and had children. As soon as I retired, I went to my son's house to help with the children.
After he retired at the age of 60, he retired from his official position and lost his power. That woman left him, too
After retirement, his wife no longer has the right to be rich. He is just an ordinary retired man. When he wanted to enjoy retirement like other retired people in the residential area of the unit, other elderly people in the community saw that he wanted to join in and left without waiting for him. My wife just retired, the gap in my heart is unacceptable and my mood is low. She called me and wanted me to come back to be with him. I said that my grandson is still young and my son needs my help to refuse. Actually, my grandson has gone to kindergarten, and I just don't want to go home and face him.
My son was kind-hearted, and he couldn't bear to see him like this, so he called him over. He came to his son's house for a few days, and he went home because he was too young to do anything.
At that time, my son would also advise me and say, Mom, look, my dad is guarding an empty home now. How pitiful! Please forgive him. I want to forgive him, too, but the thought that he betrayed me all his life makes me uncomfortable. I don't want to see him.
When he got home, he didn't have a friend or a hobby in the community. When he is depressed, he often drinks alone. A few years later, he went to the hospital for a physical examination. The doctor said he had severe alcoholic hepatitis and told him to give up drinking, but he didn't listen to the doctor and still drank. Finally, one day he drank too much and died alone at home.
To tell the truth, I think God opened his eyes and punished the bad guys.
My wife has been gone for five years, and it is false to say that she is not sad at all. Although my wife has done something wrong to me and my family, on the whole, he is still a qualified father and is very kind to his son. He bought a house and a car for his son, and his salary and later pension were paid to me on time.
Who hasn't made a mistake yet? Now think about it. If I could come back and treat my wife gently after retirement, or if I wasn't so cruel, wouldn't he leave so early?
Perhaps, people will only remember what to do if they lose it. Anyway, I am very comfortable now. I don't think about what he did to me in the past. His death is a relief for me, because I will never be laughed at by others again. What about the leader's wife? She still lives alone.
I am in good health now. After dinner in the morning, I tidied up neatly, went to the park for square dance with my sisters, went out for a walk with my good sisters at night, or watched TV. I had a good time every day.
My son always wants me to live with them. I said I had helped them raise their children. I just want to live for my old age.
I still have a lot of money. When I can't move by myself, I go to a nursing home, and then I sell the house where I live. After a hundred years, I will leave all the remaining money to my son.
There is a man two years older than me in the community who wants to live with me. I turned him down in one bite. I have been heartbroken by men, and I will never trust men again in my life.
People should be kind to their partners from an early age. If you do something heartless first, don't wait for your wife's warmth when you are old. It's too late to regret. If my wife hadn't betrayed our marriage when she was young, I would be very happy with him and he wouldn't have left so early.
end