In fact, the real problem that should be solved is not how to deal with the relationship with the mother-in-law, but how to deal with the relationship between husband and wife.
1, as we all know, China's aunt is one of the happiest professions, aunt came to the mother-in-law's home, do not need to do anything, as long as you wait for the opening of the meal can be. But the daughter-in-law in the mother-in-law's home, big work small work have to rush to do, even so, may not become the mother-in-law's mouth "good daughter-in-law".
The first thing you need to do when dealing with your mother-in-law is to treat your wife well. It's not easy for parents to raise their own daughters. No one's parents want their daughters to be unhappy when they get married.
So good to their wives, no shame; good to their wives, is a good man's characteristics; good to their wives, is good to the mother-in-law. Mother in law demands more from you, it all boils down to one thing, and that is to make your own daughter happy.
More to appreciate the mother-in-law's heartache and not easy, a lot of problems will be solved.
2, in front of the mother-in-law, do not argue with his wife.
Every child is perfect in the eyes of his or her parents, and some of the child's problems are harmless in the eyes of his or her parents; so don't argue with your wife in front of your mother-in-law, and don't count your wife out.
In front of the mother-in-law. Tired work, dirty work should be grabbed to do; for the wife's requirements, to listen to all; and at the appropriate time, to praise their wives.
3, casting a favorable impression.
This is very good to do, you can learn from your wife what your mother-in-law likes, what she doesn't like, and then prepare for your mother-in-law's preferences.
You should know that for your favorite things, people are generally unable to resist its temptation. But be careful, do not send too much at a time, there is a word called "too little". So, each time to send the appropriate can, so that the next time there are gifts to choose.
4, mouth to be sweet.
To the mother-in-law to call a few more "mom", but also can be appropriate to praise the mother-in-law: "You are so young ah, not old" "You are really hardworking, look at you to clean up the home really clean! ""You really teach your daughter well ah, so-and-so can understand, this is all your credit"" ...... Don't forget, mother-in-law is also a woman, women are in need of coaxing.