My cousin went on a blind date yesterday. Before going, my aunt let him see the girl's height clearly. Some girls are not authentic, knowing that rural people care about their height when looking for someone. Their height is 1.5 meters, and they don't need to wear 12cm high heels. Some men are inexperienced. They don't know how high the heels are and the boots that are raised inside. It's hard to say whether they have internal height or real leg length. What he learned from me is that I really don't have much experience, but Baidu bought a bunch of documents for him to recite. To be sure, I asked him to find a way to get that woman to take off her shoes.
So my brother had a meal yesterday and took her to the shopping mall and the shop where she bought shoes. He said these shoes are beautiful. Let her try it on. This woman should be of real height. She took off her shoes generously. Before she bent down to try on shoes, my cousin stood straight behind the girl, brushed her head with her hand and said to herself, you are not low, it's my nose.
Then the girl's feedback to the matchmaker was that she thought my cousin was smart, humorous and not bad, and she could go anywhere.
(2) Now blind date is no longer suitable for watching movies.
How much is a pair of shoes? In shopping malls in small counties, a pair of shoes is only a few hundred dollars. Since you are willing to take the girl shopping after dinner, it is probably because you have a good impression on her. It's not worth sending a pair of shoes. You get height data and make a good impression on girls. Kill two birds with one stone.
People nowadays hate blind date, eating and watching movies. Before, they made an appointment with girls at night 1. Everyone has lunch alone and then delivers it home before 5 pm. Dinner is free. It is not stingy with this meal, so I don't think it is necessary. As long as the experience of taking each other out to play is good, there is no need to cover everything, just leave some space, and watching movies is also the most boring. The quality of the film is average, and then there is no communication and no improvement.
Don't be shut out by those fancy things on the internet.
Blind date is not a date, blind date is not a date, blind date is not a date.
If the blind date is planned according to the date, the probability of failure will be doubled directly.
(3) Take notes on the three stages of blind date.
The core point of blind date: in a comfortable and relaxed environment, the two sides had full communication and initial contact under the condition of chatting online.
It is very important to know in advance and chat online, and directly screen out minefields. The following is the key content, please take notes-
1, importer stage:
Screen out the objects that are dissatisfied with each other in hardware such as marriage history, work, height, education background and family background. And tell yourself the truth, don't think that meeting can change each other's/their standards. If you have this charm, you don't need a blind date. And it will be very easy to get frustrated and waste rare rest time.
2, online chat stage:
The most important thing at this stage is to have a basic understanding of the other party, and to understand the other party's interests, constellations, work content and other unimportant things. You don't need to exchange photos, but you can look at your circle of friends.
At this stage, it is important to know the sincerity of the other party (whether it is forced out), the emotional intelligence of the other party (whether it is a general man or a general woman, whether you like to brag or not), and whether there are any signs of suppressing you. But you don't need to exaggerate, just be a normal person, mainly in the meeting stage.
3. Meeting phase:
Look at speech, personality, evaluation of others, cognition of family and consumption view.
(4) Young people's blind date "should move rather than be quiet", while old people's blind date "should be quiet rather than moving".
Blind date is the process of two strange animals approaching slowly with vigilance and vigilance. The most common embarrassment is silence.
Two people were sitting in a restaurant, chatting while eating. One build did not build. Both sides racked their brains to find a topic, and their brains were running at high speed. Eating a meal is more tiring than fighting. If you are not careful, you will be frozen cold, and it will be over after three or five times.
1, Playground: It's relaxing and fun, which is more suitable for young people to date. In this process, we can see whether the other party will take care of people, and it is easy to spark under the suspension bridge effect.
2. Go shopping with him. This shopping is not for you to pay for his shopping, but for you to see a person's consumption level through shopping. Those who will live and those who won't, see different things and have different opinions. Only a person who has the ability to earn money can understand high-priced goods. If a person obviously has a low income, but still loves luxury goods so much, then think about whether you can afford him in the future.
3. According to your hobbies, you can also go to * * * to create a happy atmosphere. For example, they all like sports. They can often go to the gym, run and play badminton. And they can also read books together to cultivate sentiment and cultivate sentiment. These hobbies can not only show a person's physical quality, but also find a person's precipitation.
4, blind date, meet for the first time, ask each other if they have Shang Chao complex.
If you feel satisfied, just say "Let's find a place to sit" and find a coffee shop or a tea shop to talk. If you are mature and steady, you will go to a coffee shop. Lively and lovely people go to tea shops. Now many tea shops are too small, which makes people feel cramped. Better find a bigger one.
If you feel dissatisfied, just say "Let's go out for a walk". In fact, you just turned around and found an excuse to leave without spending money. Anyway, you are not satisfied with each other. Whether the other person thinks of you or not is none of your business.
So, when you meet for the first time, you don't have to think about what to do at all. The other person is not interested in you. The more I think about it, the more disgusted I am.
(5) Two points should be noted:
1 means to make the other person happy, and you are happy when she is happy. Don't make everyone happy.
Once there was a big brother who took my advice and went straight to the amusement park with his blind date on weekends. At first, it was great. He was very busy and dealt with it. His sister had a good time. They made love for a while, and then they played. Grandson knocked himself up, and when he turned around, he lost someone. ...
Some men are born to be lone stars in Dreadwind, and they are only suitable to fight alone all their lives, not to play the two-person combination game of marriage.
2, properly control your hormones, don't look at the girl happy, you take the opportunity to touch others' little hands.
The first time you successfully invited someone out to play, it was as if the Red Army had just left Jinggangshan and had not yet started the Long March. Don't rush to attack the Kuomintang, or you will be embarrassed.
In short, in the "transition from the beginning to the end", we should be quiet (eat), move (play), and be dark (the cinema grove) ... finally.
There was an old comrade who was in excellent health, and someone kindly introduced him to a wife. When they first met, the old man was still as steady as a dog. The second time I took the old lady to the square dance directly, Qiuci twisted his waist and lay at home for half a year ... This is a lone star of Dreadwind, and ghosts dare not recruit him.