It's over. After the pain, I became sober, remembering the 182 days we **** together, I can only wish you in my heart: please you must be happier than me! Please remember that you have to be happier than me, in order to stand up to my cruelty to myself, I silently countdown, the last to see you clearly, to see me in your eyes so fuzzy, slowly banished ...... to give you a knife, you can cut me a few times, flesh and blood pain does not matter; you give me, is worth my treasured 182 days, although the breakup for me is a heavenly collapse! Although the breakup for me is a heaven and earth shattering, is invaded in the heart of the body can not be wiped out of the pain of the injury. But I still say, break up or friends; I still want to say to you in the bottom of my heart: please you must be happier than me!
If there is no you warmed up this winter of 2007, I will not again and again hovering in the edge of ecstasy and sadness, as if it is a period of memories that can never be forgotten, your figure deep in my mind, and then on the lock, so that my world in addition to you, has not felt the second throbbing.
I will always remember, looking at you that clear eyes, so that people can forget at a glance the dirt inland of the soul, only you can evoke my deep desire and passion, the heart with your every breath and apprehensive beating. Those days when I used to have you, every bit of it is a root that grows in my heart and can't be pulled out. I still remember the winter of 2007, I will be in every weekends, accompanied by you in the sunny afternoon, in that crowded street, telling each other happy or unhappy stories.
Remember the early summer of 2008, we were the only two people in the huge swimming pool playing in the water ...... However, you still said to me: "The distance between us is very far, we are like two separate extended railroad tracks that can never cross... Can't you feel it? ......"
I quickly interrupted you, wrapped your fingertips in my large palm, exhibited a chesty smile and said, "I know all of this, and what I'm trying to say to you is that love conquers all impossibilities ....! " In the face of your lustful eyes, I deliberately pretended to be fearless and took your hand to stride forward towards that future that I actually couldn't predict.
Relative to my affection that is growing fiercer and deeper by the day, I know better than anyone that you have barely moved at all towards me. From day one until now, I never really seemed to walk into your heart! If not I always want you to believe, also want to believe in themselves, if not I always give you the most confident smile, perhaps when the real feelings spread out the moment, any who can not afford that kind of pain due to the thinness of love and pain pain.
...... You no longer belong to me. You belong to your own freedom, I can fulfill you this freedom. In the moment you left me without saying goodbye, your love for me is gone, let alone my forgiveness and love to continue? Give it up! Be free of it! The whole process is like a dream, gone with the wind, never to be picked up again. Even so, I still want to say to you in my heart: please be happier than me! So, the first to explode in love is also the first to collapse. In the summer of 2008, I used the pain of weeping blood crazy sad subvert the 182 days of love like the sea, that do not leave the back of the veto is not only 182 days of the billion points of tenderness, but also I put all my life to pay the true love. Until the end of that period of joy and bitterness intertwined days, I cohesion from the love in the end what, only gradually recognized what is the true letter of love, we have been divided into North and South, I know, I still love you, but we have broken up, I will you always in the heart, I will be in the heart of the heart of the voice to you: please you must be happier than me! "The city when the background of the mirage / we are like separated into a whole universe / goodbye all into nothing / we said never let go of each other holding hands / but the reality said there is love is not enough / to the fork in the road / you to the left and I to the right / we are stubbornly not turned back / we said that even if we are separated the same as to do the same as a friend / the time said we are from now on can not be greeted again ...... "
We said we would never let go of the hand we hold each other, but reality said that having love is not enough. The yellow acacia on both sides of the road finally thanked,abercrombie france, a breeze came slowly, the leaves dance with the wind. Across the road, stood a couple, the boy carrying a pink bag, I looked at want to laugh. But suddenly tears, the girl is not beautiful, or the kind of walking in the crowd can be drowned in the type, but she took his hand, tilted his head towards him to smile, that face is so cute. This, is love? Tears slipped out of his eyes and he hurriedly searched for tissues in his bag. Another gust of wind, golden leaves falling in front of my eyes. In the blink of an eye, it has been a year since you left me, and I still miss you like this. Walking through the shopping mall in front of the floor-to-ceiling glass, inadvertently looked toward the inside, inserted in the light of the spray-painted glass, to see the thin yourself. This dress on the body, or you help me choose it. Still in this mall, I asked you: is it the skirt or the pants that look good? "Both look good," you said with a smile. "No, you have to choose one," I pouted to you. "Skirt it, more suitable for you," you said, I am gentle as water like a woman. Your eyes, full of love, thick can not be melted.
Wounded ------ parting you said: "I should go back" I was stunned: "so early, is not want to accompany me to watch a movie, or again about your brother to go play football? Or ......" My unnaturalness was still noticed by you. "You know all that?" I pulled me into a hug. "Yes, I know, do you want to play soccer, are you fascinated by that beautiful 'soccer babe' the day before yesterday pulling ....." You report me even harder to keep me from continuing. Yes, I know, your brother inadvertently said exposed mouth. Yes, I know. I know you're going home, thousands of miles to the north, and they say you should have gone back long ago, if it weren't for me ...... But, this time, it has to be. If you don't go back, his mom will come over ...... But, what can I do, I know you have always been to your mother is the words to remember from, how can I let you for me and your mother quarrel. I can only pretend not to know, I'm not brave, I can only escape. Because in addition to escape, I can not think of a better way, to know that before no matter what happens is you help me to take the doctrine, but now ...... You sent me downstairs "I still have to go to the Baby, they are waiting for me there, the wait anxious. You don't have to go, go up quickly, I'll see your light is on, then go" I looked into your eyes, under the street lamp, shining light. I don't know how I got up the stairs, I know that standing on the balcony, looking at you still standing under the streetlight, I said to myself: see nothing special, just like before. He was still under the streetlight, not gone .... You said: "Lin Ruo, I will always love you, wait for me" and then turned around and ran away, the dim street lamps, your shadow dragged a long, long time ....... I climbed on the sofa and cried until I died..... I woke up in the morning from the pain, as if my arms and legs were numb and out of control. I crawled on the couch all night, and I don't know when I fell asleep. I don't know when I fell asleep. I didn't go to wash my face or brush my teeth. Change position to climb the sofa, staring at the alarm clock. Seven thirty, eight, eight thirty, nine o'clock time is so not slow to go, there is still an hour, you will leave the city. I hurriedly changed clothes to wash my face, in front of the mirror in front of my own eyes swollen even do not recognize themselves. Empty eyes, how am I going to smile at you and say: safe journey? I finally did not go to see you off? I can't stand the parting scene. Your friends were asked by you to come and see me. Seeing that I let them in with a smile, they couldn't help but ask me: Why don't you go? I laughed: Why do you have to go? I'm tired, I want to sleep. "Then we'll go back, bye." Outside the door, "What's going on? She's still laughing. Didn't you see that Tang Ji was completely lost just now? Why is she acting like nothing happened." "You do not say to your life ah" ...... A year, the phone your voice gradually more and more strange feeling, I do not know why, can not think why, more lazy to think. Because I'm fine, very happy, I'm surprised. You leave, I actually can also live so well, the refrigerator is frozen ice at any time, and also rarely be boiling water scalded; crossing the street is no longer moving to look around, but also bought a very very warm gloves ...... By the way, I also learned to make your favorite skinny pork congee, and the taste is superb, just when you can drink ....... Just in this life, do I still have the chance to make it for you?
Just this life, so love you I, how to be a friend of the identity of blessing you and other her days old ...... My dear Tang Ji, please let us say goodbye from now on. Let's meet again and smile as familiar strangers. Far away from each other's world, no involvement, no entanglement, no ambiguity, not friends... "After breaking up, can we still be friends?" --An inexplicable excitement came over me when I saw this topic. I think, I have to write something ...... There are two ways to look at this question. One is for married people.
Love is a process, from knowing each other to knowing each other, then to love each other, and finally to love each other, and finally, "marriage" is a happy ending. But some people are forced to family, economic, social ...... The reason for this is that they have to put themselves into the city. Life is full of surprises, let's assume that you meet a mutual love after marriage, and then you naturally have a "love". Theoretically, this is justifiable and even natural. But "love" has a moral value. You are already married! But you still keep on playing ambiguous, keep on entanglement, entanglement, entanglement ...... It's dangerous and unethical. According to me, the best thing to do is to collect this love and let time weather it. If there is really no love in the marriage, you can nourish the love by yourself, isn't it very popular to get married before falling in love? Of course, Gu Yu is not advocating this, Gu Yu is more in favor of a love-based marriage, I'm just out of a "dead horse as a living horse" idea. Another aspect, some people are in the first love foundation and then married, seven years of oxygen "attack, came the second spring, fell in love with another person - so, even worse, must be put down. Take a good look at yourself, calm down, and try to get through this time. Afterwards, you will find that your original love is like old wine, more and more mellow.
On another note, there are some cheap people who love other people because of their lust for flesh. For such people, Gu Yu can only say two words to him: shameless! The above is about married people, and the following is about unmarried people.
For unmarried people, generally some young friends. Youth is priceless, love is not guilty. If you can guarantee that you and your male (female) friends after the breakup, you can twist the previous branches into a pure friendship, why not? However, younger friends, because of your age, your social experience are not familiar with, this is possible? Is it possible? Moreover, if this kind of emotionally distant relationship is not handled well, it will turn into a kind of entanglement. Then, you can only continue the pain that you had cut off earlier ...... It's not good for either person. Don't deceive yourself, not with the purpose to expect and ex-lover to continue another emotion, that is playing with fire! So, grain rain think: when you decide to break up with your lover (I said must have decided), nothing else, turn away, look at the sun in front of you, a little adjustment, and then continue to live, live calmer. Perhaps each of us is a traveler who is wandering for love, let's walk together until we don't want to walk again.
Ping water meets, not necessarily just by chance, if you know how to cherish, is a rare destiny. That one encounter seems destined for this life, but also destined to be just a beautiful encounter. His tenderness touched me, **** the same language, so that we came together. But if I can know the ending in advance, I hope that this love has never spread ...... Maybe I am just a shooting star in his life, with the most shining light flashed in front of him, with the beauty of the moment, disappeared without a trace.
I have no strong defense, and there is no back road to retreat. I had no courage to win or lose, and no luck to escape. He said, "I no longer love you, let's break up, we can still be ordinary friends." Looking at the moment he turned away, his look was so indifferent, the heart suddenly had a feeling of being emptied. The bottom of my heart like a tidal wave to me, I believe that he was once cared about me, just now can not. No one can force him to a girl's heart to be constant, even the stars can not, let alone his heart. The pain I have to carry is what he called "break up and we can still be friends later"? If that's a blessing, yes, I've lost completely.
Your god eyes, handsome face, silent expression, are the same let me heart, but you will be our love recklessly waved away. Your smile has become a veil of disguise, my daily song has become that painful oath, I once promised to offer you a song every day, and now, I don't know how many sentences of heartache every day to sing all the pain in the heart, I ask myself from time to time: is this my own hobby? No, it is not. That is the pain of longing, dreaming of you very vaguely, your smile is too sweet, my tears are too salty. Why does heaven hang us one after another?"?" The reason for this is that we are all in love with each other. Everything is due to "love" and end because of "love". All I have done is to seek my own trouble, my heart is still the same, my heart eternal, if you leave, I will silently bless you, but we can never be friends, because you hurt me, we can only be familiar with the stranger.
Love a person does not necessarily have to have, have a person must be good to love him/her. The unpleasant past is blurred with your departure, and I believe I will forget you. Write down your name with your finger, remember it for the last time, recall it for the last time, and then forget it fiercely. Looking into your still-vivid eyes, I suddenly realize that this person no longer belongs to me. You already have your own life, I will also start my own life, forgetting may be the biggest comfort to myself.
If you leave, after the meeting, I will bury my memories in my heart, slowly sealed. Love has a beautiful and sweet first encounter also has a sad and miserable final breakup, when love walks the road to the final fork in the road, once a close lover how to go? Breaking up (a clean break) or choosing to be friends seem to be the only two choices after a breakup. Different people insist on different views, and it is also a hot topic of discussion. Personally, I don't think it's a good idea to be friends after a breakup. I once heard someone say that if you continue to be friends after a breakup, either the two of you were just having fun at the beginning or one of you made a great contribution silently, which I feel is very true. I've seen A and B meet, they both think each other is God gave their other half, each other have a kind of hate to see each other, A and B together every day is a happy, happy day, they hope that God will never let them apart. However, often beautiful expectations are like the sunshine of the brilliant colorful foam can not withstand anything to block, when the good wishes encountered the reality of the obstacles, A and B actually said angrily "break up". Although they both know that they are a little childish, but they are not willing to admit their mistakes together again. One day A said to B, "Let's stay friends, okay? I'll always be there for you." "Friends? Support?" We're just friends, who are you to support me, we're just friends, and what I want is unreserved, affectionate support, can A do it? B left A. When A met B, A was stunned, and A didn't believe that someone like that would actually show up in his life someday. But in fact, it did, and B was the perfect goddess in A's mind. From then on, A was obsessed with B, and B's figure kept repeating in his mind. A thought that if B were to be my girlfriend, I would definitely cherish her. Later on, B actually became A's girlfriend. A do their best to coax B happy, for B to do all they can do, but B always to A cold and hot, close and far. A only want a ordinary and stable love, but B let A elusive. In the end, A sadly left B, A asked himself "B love me" "maybe". Who says that if you love someone, you can love them as long as you give them everything you have, and then you have no regrets? Love is just like any other labor, there is no passion in unpaid labor. Love or not love has always been lovers people like to pursue after the breakup of the problem, because the breakup of some people on the suspicion of their past true love. In fact, love when love, do not need to doubt her sincerity, just when love comes to the end is like a will not have a spring of the dry well, we have to do is just silently cover the well, bury it. Similarly, for the death of love, we can only ruthlessly bury her in the deepest recesses of the heart, despite the heartache of unveiling someday, but that is the necessary guarantee that we continue to live well. Attachment to the past is cruelty to the future, the past will only make us addicted to the false mystery of the grotto, can not find the exit of life. If a former lover breaks up and continues to be friends, in what capacity will you socialize? If she/he was hurt, would you be able to do nothing about it? Unless there really wasn't any love between you all along. What would they think if you both had new significant others of your own? If the feelings between the old lovers resurfaced, then wouldn't you be hurting your new lover? A complete breakup leaves no hidden dangers for future happiness, for yourself, for your former lover, for your future lover, and for the future happiness of both parties. Do not doubt love after the breakup, because your love disappeared does not mean that there is no true love; do not blame anyone after the breakup, even if someone once hurt you, but it does not mean that the whole world are bad people. Please believe in love, love has always been in our hearts, just at the right time to meet the right person, just like flowers in a certain temperature, a certain environment, a certain time will be brilliant bloom. For the death of love, we just like Daiyu buried flowers, bury her gently, so that she will be reborn in the next reincarnation. At the end of love, we might as well turn around in splendor and style, just after the breakup please take care of, my former lover. Death of love should let us learn tolerance, learn true love, learn to cherish. For the former lovers, we can do is just in the bottom of the heart silently wish, wish them a better life. Of course, although this article supports the idea of breaking up, but does not support the lovers to break up casually, just the face of a death, there is no future love, we have to give up, that's all. I also hope that those who are in love with each other to cherish each other's rare destiny, may the world's lovers end up in love. What is the easiest thing to create between men and women? Love! The most easily broken? Love! Especially in today's complex temptations and endless difficulties, the slightest attention to the flower of love will wither. The fairy tale of the first love to marriage and then hand in hand until old age is even more rare. Do not deny, do not deliberately hide, as long as you are an adult will have experienced a breakup, the pain of each other not to mention, but also to face an embarrassing question: can we still be friends? Do not believe that novels or movies and TV dramas in the men, women are very elegant to say: "after the breakup, we can still be friends," pretending that "business is not benevolent in the" ugly face, that is all bullshit. Don't mind me saying hard to hear, the reality of you and I try to say once to see, I see everyone but can not come from the heart. Undeniably also appeared in the case of friends, but more "friends" is not purely friends, both sides of the heart are playing their own little ninety-nine. It would be better to break it off before it's too late and be the most familiar stranger. After all, lovers break up, have different reasons. Or interest in different, or love, or personality differences ...... regardless of how much the two sides of the year is like glue, a breakup of the year's sweetness will dissipate, do not do the enemy on the incense, do not have friends. Surely there are watchers say I bullshit, I said a few reasons we know I said there is no reason. The most common reason for breakups today is the change of love. Regardless of which side of the breakup, there is always a person is sorry for each other, owe each other feelings. As the saying goes, "owing feelings is like owing a life", you owe me a life, can still be a quiet friend? If the party that was hurt is not to blame, you owe the feelings of peace of mind? Always a debt mentality, and can be comfortable? Forced to break up under pressure on both sides, if you still do friends, looking for the next relationship is inevitable to each other as a template, the newcomer everywhere smooth okay, a little less than ideal thoughts of each other is unavoidable, the two sides of the old love rekindled is normal, after all, familiar with not easy to get hurt, ah, a lot of "junior" is the old lover metamorphosis to ah! But have you ever thought of, the other 2 people because you have been hurt, who are they looking for to cry to go? Character and break up, together with the time will certainly be strife, or else break not to break up. Two people are not personality, can do friends? There is not an ancient language to: Roads are different, not for each other? Do not believe, personality disagreement break up, if you still do friends, sooner or later because of some small things to quarrel, engage in the end is not happy, why bother? There is also a breakup regardless of how the reasons, each other also peace of mind, but it is possible because of the reasons for the new love to get themselves all over the pain. People are jealous of the psychology, looking at you and the old love to have a laugh, usually jealous is a small thing, may be one day because of something else two people go to war, a fire, the mouth said that you do not give up the old man, but also want to leave a way out, you're not wrong ah? People are emotional animals, will inevitably experience a variety of emotional problems, after the breakup to be friends but also need to both sides of the tolerance and understanding of the family and society, not want to do it can be done, that is a very high realm. We ordinary people after the breakup or do not leave room for both sides, so as not to bring unnecessary trouble to the future life, do the most familiar strangers quite good. Once the sea is difficult for water, in addition to the witch mountain is not cloud. The time and space gap can't be resisted. When the passion is no longer, everything back to plain, can still continue to be friends?
When he and I came to the end of the time, each staggered the direction of a left, a right, into do familiar with the strangers. When he told me that he liked someone else, he only left a "sorry" turn away, my heart is dripping blood, I hate him like someone else, for him I only hate, maybe love how deep, hate how deep, I was hoping that he had to turn back to the day, the past can not be reinterpreted, he is not me, sooner or later, will be left.
Once the oath of the sea has been turned into a cloudy sky, in the moment he turned around, I want to pull him not to let you go, but he has to insist on leaving, I am powerless to keep you beside me, my life do not want to have his everything, or I will be more painful, he went, I still have to continue to live on.
When one day, once again met when he had a girl beside him, perhaps "she" is the reason why he left me in the first place, perhaps he may have changed his girlfriend. I used to hate him, but now I don't hate him anymore, and it's faded over time. I pick up my pace, and before he can see, I brush past him, quickly disappearing from his sight. My heart will still be moved, maybe because of the feeling of not seeing him for a long time, or will I still be moved to him, all this may not matter, just the past should be let go, can't go back to the old days, each has their own life, how how the past will become memories, can't go on. I don't know what he wanted to talk to me about, maybe "Are you okay?" or something like that. And such words, I do not know how to answer him, the past people or things let the past, the road of life is still long, there are many roads to go, not because of his reappearance so that you lose your way, good horse does not eat back grass, why still have contact with him, break up why do not do friends, because I hated him, and also loved him.
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