What is the task of falling in love? It is to communicate and build feelings. The most important thing is to understand each other. Before deciding to marry him, you must know what kind of person he is.
As a woman, when you meet that person, he looks just like that, just on the surface. There are many things you don’t know about him. Before getting married, he always pretended to please you. He is a good person and tries to be nice to you. You cannot see the other side of him. He even talks very little. How do you understand him? For a girl who has no experience in marriage and love, it is difficult to judge what kind of person he is. I teach you to do this:
1. Test whether he is sincere to you and how much he loves you? ?
You can pretend that you are suddenly injured, or that you are sick or have a cold, and see how he behaves. If you have a "weak foot" when walking with him, you can definitely tell whether he will. I will feel sorry for you. If you are "sick", don't tell him directly, let him know indirectly whether he will come to see you or not.
2. Understand his hobbies and interests and see what he usually does. Some people read and write just for work and career-related reasons. When they have nothing to do, they chat with colleagues and play cards, which are the most boring things. Judging from these, they are just vulgar and simple people. If you are a motivated person, it is not worth dating this kind of person.
3. Understand his character and personality to see if he is a sincere, honest and kind person. You can point out something he has done and discuss it with him to see if he analyzes his actions realistically. If he can analyze, say a lot, and is not quibbling, it at least shows that he is relatively sincere and honest, and can be considered a "good person". If he keeps silent, this person's entire personality will be questionable. Also,
If he is a waste of public property, his character will also be questioned. Someone once told me that the man she was dating lived in a public house, and the faucet was broken and the water kept flowing, but he didn't care. There is no need to say anything to such a person.
4. It is best to find a cheerful person, even if it is simple, but clearly, those who do not speak, or even hesitate to say what should be said, his thoughts are deeply hidden. , when you find that he does not have any normal hobbies, be careful. This kind of person is a bit perverted. In addition, if he is not very good to you, you must leave as soon as possible, otherwise he will be miserable.
5. Look at his job. If it’s a good job and his tenure is not short, why hasn’t he found a partner for a long time? You need to carefully examine this person. There must be something wrong with him.
The above are the most important problems in relationships. For an experienced person, even in a short period of time, you will find many problems, because many details will express this person vividly. . When you are dating him, you will always go to some places, go shopping, eat, etc. to see if he is willing to spend money for you, how he feels about you, and whether he is generous or not. This is the most obvious thing.
When a girl starts dating a guy, don’t invest too much emotion, you just need to look at him and observe him carefully.
If a girl marries the wrong person, she will have a hard life. She must choose the right person before getting married.
What is the task of falling in love? It is to communicate and build feelings. The most important thing is to understand each other. Before deciding to marry him, you must know what kind of person he is.
As a woman, when you meet that person, he looks just like that, just on the surface. There are many things you don’t know about him. Before getting married, he always pretended to please you. He is a good person and tries to be nice to you. You cannot see the other side of him. He even talks very little. How do you understand him? For a girl who has no experience in marriage and love, it is difficult to judge what kind of person he is. I teach you to do this:
1. Test whether he is sincere to you and how much he loves you? ?
You can pretend that you are suddenly injured, or that you are sick or have a cold, and see how he behaves. If you have a "weak foot" when walking with him, you can definitely tell whether he will. I will feel sorry for you. If you are "sick", don't tell him directly, let him know indirectly whether he will come to see you or not.
2. Understand his hobbies and interests and see what he usually does.
Some people read and write just for work and career-related reasons. When they have nothing to do, they chat with colleagues and play cards, which are the most boring things. Judging from these, they are just vulgar and simple people. If you are a motivated person, it is not worth dating this kind of person.
3. Understand his character and personality to see if he is a sincere, honest and kind person. You can point out something he has done and discuss it with him to see if he analyzes his actions realistically. If he can analyze, say a lot, and is not quibbling, it at least shows that he is relatively sincere and honest, and can be considered a "good person". If he keeps silent, this person's entire personality will be questionable. Also,
If he is a waste of public property, his character will also be questioned. Someone once told me that the man she was dating lived in a public house, and the faucet was broken and the water kept flowing, but he didn't care. There is no need to say anything to such a person.
4. It is best to find a cheerful person, even if it is simple, but clearly, those who do not speak, or even hesitate to say what should be said, his thoughts are deeply hidden. , when you find that he does not have any normal hobbies, be careful. This kind of person is a bit perverted. In addition, if he is not very good to you, you must leave as soon as possible, otherwise he will be miserable.
5. Look at his job. If it’s a good job and his tenure is not short, why hasn’t he found a partner for a long time? You need to carefully examine this person. There must be something wrong with him.
The above are the most important problems in relationships. For an experienced person, even in a short period of time, you will find many problems, because many details will express this person vividly. . When you are dating him, you will always go to some places, go shopping, eat, etc. to see whether he is willing to spend money for you, what he thinks about you, and whether he is generous or not. This is the most obvious thing.
When a girl starts dating a guy, don’t invest too much emotion, you just need to look at him and observe him carefully.
If a girl marries the wrong person, she will have a hard life. She must choose the right person before getting married.