Middle-aged marriage is like being kicked to the bottom of the valley, the old and the young, the pressure of life has to be resisted by one person, the difficulties are self-evident. But God gave you close a door, will give you a window. Now the bottom of the valley, as long as efforts to be positive and optimistic, are upward, because the bottom of any direction is upward. Just think of it as one more experience in life, I'm in more pain than you are, two kids, may have to face one of them bone to bone, so there are a lot of people who are fighting alongside you, get through the darkness is the light, **** encouragement!
Eat, work, sleep, children, parents, eat, work ...... days are day by day,it will not be shortened because you are sad, nor will it be longer because you are happy. Marriage is one of your choices, divorce is also a choice ...... your uncertainty and fear, the years will give you the answer!
Later in life is now how you want to go on. There are no hypothetical consequences, and do not be afraid of future difficulties, the heart to be stable, leaving him can also live a normal life, independent, confident, not resentment, not blame.
Marriage is something that needs to be managed by both men and women, in a nutshell: in and out. Men should be tolerant, women should be sensible, don't go too far. The first thing you need to do is to get a good deal of money to pay for the services you provide. Give yourself time to slowly recover when you're really ready before approaching someone new.
Through observation, I concluded that most families are only child pampered growing up, there is a little bit of a small thing is to fight, afraid to take the lead in the future of the day is not good, and I do not know who is now living in this society who are living well, we need to reflect.
In fact, to be honest, people to middle age, widowed, then, generally two people's feelings have not broken, in the heart is a good memory. Divorce is despair for oneself, widowhood is sadness for the other. After the widowed this person will not exist, there is no financial dispute, but also get all the marital property. And there will be no more interaction with this person, and no impact on finding another partner in the future.