The world is the existence of a group of people, always like to talk behind people's backs, east parents and west family short of gossip, this group of people are mostly on the age of a little old lady, they do not need to go to work, every day is to get up early in the morning to exercise to buy food to cook, the rest is to get together to talk about family life, that is, to begin to talk about some of the gossip.
In fact, their behavior many people do not like, encountered such a big mother what to do is good, small D to give you some attention.
The first thing is to avoid them as far away as you can. Some times they do not avoid them, they also take the initiative and their own greetings, indirectly ask yourself some personal questions, so that continue to have a topic can be discussed, so meet such a big woman or have as far as possible to avoid as far as possible, so that they are talking about them, their hearts are not comfortable.
Secondly, try to maintain a sense of intimacy, so that the other side is embarrassed to talk about their own right and wrong, many times, you honor others a foot, others can also return you a foot. The key is to remain polite, to maintain a very normal situation, at least in their eyes they are normal, there is nothing to talk about them can be discussed, which can reduce a lot of unnecessary trouble for themselves.
Third, turn a blind eye, in fact, being talked about by others this thing also belongs to the normal, just how to look at it, sometimes the more people care about the more they talk about it, not as bad as not caring, sometimes instead of letting them feel uninterested in the future will not say their own gossip.
Lastly, when you can't stand it anymore, you have to learn to take action when you need to take action, and dislike them, so that they know how boring and wrong this behavior is. Let these old ladies do what they should do, might as well go to the square dance, why talk so much gossip here, chewing on the root of the tongue what good is it?