The meaning of life, now I look at myself in the past, I feel that I put all the meaning in others.
The meaning of life, said a lot of people spend their lives in pursuit. In the end, but depressed, feel like looking for the peach blossom, and finally unsuccessful, looking for the end of the disease, and then attempted to ask the person.
For the time being, I'll take my dream as the meaning of life.
When I was very young, I especially admired Ultraman, a person (should be counted as a person) to guard the earth, every time in the most difficult time to step forward to save the earth. At that time, I felt really handsome, and hoped that I could be like it to become the guardian of the earth, and felt that this is the biggest thing in life. But with the passage of time, this kind of absurd idea also slowly disappeared.
So new meanings came up, and I started to get in touch with all sorts of exotic things, and I watched Castle in the Sky, and it felt like the meaning of life was to be rooted in the land, and then just be with the people you love. I watched Naruto and I realized that the meaning of life is to guard and to fight, and I watched Happiness Comes Knocking and felt again that the meaning of life is to persevere.
But this is all other people's meaning of life ah, what has it got to do with me.
A little bit bigger, I think the meaning of life is to hold hands with the person you love and spend the rest of your life together, do not need to be sensational, plain and simple is good. The distance is far, we can write letters, let time slowly with letters leisurely on the road.
In a quiet town, raise two cats, two dogs, and plant a lot of flowers in front of the door. Then set up a small grapevine, move a large deckchair, summer night in the bottom of the listening to insects, winter in the bottom of the counting stars, not happy.
But when you do find someone to love, the days are still the same, just more people in your life for no reason, but a little uncomfortable, after getting used to it, there is just one more person in your life, and nothing else. All of the above ideas have become waiting for the future, but where is the future?
So where is the meaning of life? I set it as acceptance and giving. Maybe when you can openly accept the happiness and unhappiness brought by the people and things around you, or when you can selflessly give to others, you may know what the meaning of life is.
I did this, for a long time, the people around me began to get used to the goodness of me, just forget that I have a temper, and then began to not care about what I did, they feel that no matter what they did, I will not bother. In fact, I was very calculating, I just buried it inside. Finally, one day, I exploded, but it was just in exchange for more lack of understanding.
Then I began to know that life can't just be about receiving and giving, for those who love you. For the ones that don't care about you, don't be stupid and move forward, it's not worth it. It's not worth it. You'll bring trouble to others and suffer yourself at the same time.
I began to think of my mom and dad, caring for my relatives and friends, in the pursuit of the meaning of life on the road, I ignored the most should not be forgotten them. At first I was just wrong, they were the ones who mattered the most before I had found the meaning of life. Or maybe they were the meaning of my life. I can't live without them, sounds pretentious, but the truth is, I'm a person who is afraid of being alone.
I was afraid that any one of them would leave me, so I held on very tightly, and it was exhausting. In the end, I let go. So, no matter what, the days went on and they were okay.
The meaning of life is like this, go after what you want, and then fulfill what you want, it's that simple. But no matter how the result, don't let yourself live too tired, don't forget to care about you around the people, among them, there can be someone to treat you as the meaning of life.