Lu Qingxiu's square dancers have parents.

Or their life circle is too small to have their own hobbies, so they put too much energy on you. Anyway, it means that your parents are particularly concerned about you. You can communicate with them well, deal with problems well, make them feel that you are fully capable of solving family problems, encourage them to cultivate more hobbies, and then there will be no time to interfere with you. Parents should not interfere too much after their children get married. They have their own lives, and their husband and wife will solve them themselves. Parents can go out to travel, take a walk and dance square dance, so that their thoughts will not hang on their children.

Children are the crystallization of parents' love. Parents put almost all their efforts on their children, placing infinite hopes on them and giving them selfless love. When the child is married, it is impossible for parents to ignore the child. The mother is worried that in the eyes of parents, no matter how old the child is, if there is a problem, of course, it is necessary to take care of it.

All capable parents always feel that their children can't do this or that. They are dissatisfied with this or that, lack enough trust in their children, and do everything for their children. As a result, their children will never be weaned. The thinking, living habits and work and rest rules of the two generations are different. It is recommended that my son live alone as much as possible after marriage. If you still live with your parents after marriage, on the one hand, you can't avoid the problem of mother-in-law; On the other hand, parents will interfere in the lives of young people, causing unnecessary quarrels and frictions between young couples.

Nowadays, many young people have already achieved results, and it is understandable for parents to interfere in their children's lives. But you can't interfere too much. Just support your parents when you need help. Seeing him serving others will make you feel uncomfortable, and then you will find fault. So cohabitation is not recommended. If you have to live together, or the conditions don't allow, you should pretend to be nice to her parents. She will be happy when she sees it, and she will be better for you. I always praise her son in front of her mother-in-law and praise her mother-in-law for teaching her children well. If she doesn't teach well, where can I find such a good husband? It is better to talk than to move money. They don't need to focus all their attention on you to do what they want to do. Let them stop working for you at this age. I think parents will understand.