When a daughter-in-law with a gentle nature turns into a shrew, it means that she has suffered too much aggression in her marriage, and has to change herself in order to make herself look less aggrieved. A good marriage makes a woman beautiful and gentle. A bad marriage, on the other hand, will make a woman into a shrew.
From white moonlight to shrewCousin Xiaofang has been an understanding, gentle woman since she was a child. Because of the family's problems, cousin dropped out of junior high school not to study, has been in the town's supermarket as a cashier. 20 years old, cousin matchmaking married a man in the same village, the man is 3 years older than the cousin, but very childish, everything only listen to their mother, and the cousin's mother-in-law is a very strong and unreasonable woman.
At the beginning, the cousin was very respectful of her mother-in-law, and she agreed to whatever her mother-in-law asked of her, until the birth of the cousin's daughter began to start, the cousin changed.
She began to stop obeying, in order to protect her child, cousin hard turned into a shrew. Arguing with her mother-in-law, she did not lose at all. When her mother-in-law treated her granddaughter more favorably, she said all kinds of things in the village about her mother-in-law's faults. Cousin's mother-in-law now can only find cousin's husband to spit, saying that cousin since the birth of the child, the whole person has changed.
Women are weak, but mothers are strongIf they are not forced by circumstances, what woman would want to become a shrew, who does not want to be a white moonlight. Cousin's daughter is very cute, but cousin's mother-in-law is patriarchal and treats her granddaughter not at all well, even a bit abusive.
The cousin said that it doesn't matter what happens to her, but when she sees her daughter being bullied by her mother-in-law, she can't stand it. It's just a three-year-old child, it's the time when she needs someone to take care of her. Cousin's mother-in-law, in order for cousin to have another son, directly want to carry cousin's youngest daughter to a relative's house, to be given to the relative, saying that when cousin gave birth to a son, then give it back to her.
The cousin was so angry that she yelled at her mother-in-law. She said she didn't know why she could swear so much at that moment. Then she stormed off to a relative's house and took her daughter back.
Most of the time, the cousin took care of her daughter by herself. Occasionally, when she is busy with housework, she lets the child play by herself. Cousin's mother-in-law always bullied her granddaughter in all sorts of ways, and when she saw her granddaughter eating candy, she snatched the candy and scolded to, "Little girl, why are you eating so well. The granddaughter was bullied over and over again, and the cousin finally became an indestructible shrew, and now the cousin's mother-in-law has fear when she sees the cousin.
Other people say she is a shrew, but to her daughter, she is the most gentle mother in the worldWhile the cousin has changed, her character has become strong and shrewish. But when facing her own daughter, cousin is still the same gentle woman, because gentleness, is to be given to those who love ah. Cousin said that the child is the person who loves you the most in the world, and her daughter's love for her is the most selfless. So she could only leave the tenderness to her daughter.
As for cousin's husband, cousin has even less expectation for him. This marriage was not supposed to be a marriage that one was satisfied with, nor was it a marriage out of love. Cousin's expectation now is to bring up her daughter and give her all the love she has.