Many girls are like this.
It's perfectly normal.
It just means that you really love him and care about him
He's lucky to have a girlfriend like you
It's a blessing for him.
Not to mention the social dancing.
Even if my lover chats with other people.
As long as I'm not involved.
I'd be upset.
It's normal. But I'm still jealous.
Are you right.
I'm a very outgoing and lively person.
I'm a very outgoing and active person, and I'm very well-liked.
But I still care what contact the other guy has with other girls.
You guys are in the same school.
I used to go to the same school as my lover.
But after we graduated, it became a long-distance relationship.
I am struggling and missing every day.
Sometimes I hear things from him.
Although it's very, very small things.
Like what he did today and who was looking for him.
But it's so hard to hear.
Not to mention the community. Those are definitely not something I would agree to him attending.
Because the more contact.
The higher the chance of cheating. The more people you know will also increase. And the more people you'll know .
This is really bad for love.
It's not about being unsure of yourself. I've had at least 20 people confess their love for me in a month.
It's been like that for months.
But that doesn't mean I don't mind if they go out and meet other people.
You can talk to him.
If he loves you.
I think he'll listen to you, after all, it's not like you're asking him to sacrifice anything.
There's a lot of dancing out there, poping, breaking, and so on.
It doesn't have to be this kind of thing.
If he really does not agree. It doesn't mean he doesn't love you.
It just means he loves you but is obsessed with his hobby.
That's good too.
I also understand that you trust him a lot.
It's just that this kind of behavior is killing you, right?
Then you need to tell him. How you feel.
Listen to his thoughts too.
You can ask him.
If I go and dance like this with boys too, then do you agree?
If he agrees.
Then it means that he thinks this kind of contact is really nothing.
Then you don't have to worry about anything.
If he is disagreeing.
That proves that he also feels that this kind of dance is just too much and too intimate.
So he couldn't dance even more.
It depends most of all on the communication between the 2 people.
I hope you can talk calmly.
I can see that you are a very gentle girl.
But being gentle doesn't mean you have to keep all your grievances and complaints bottled up inside.
You can go to more of your own social activities,
to distract the heart that focuses on him.
That will make it better...
Bless you...