It is said that mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are natural enemies, and this is absolutely true. When two women love the same man, conflicts begin. As a daughter-in-law, how can she live a stable and united life without coaxing her into her mother-in-law's house? Here are some tips to conquer your mother-in-law:
First, take the initiative to show weakness. As the saying goes, one mountain cannot accommodate two tigers. You can take the initiative to show your weak side and make your mother-in-law want to protect you.
I have a best friend who does this and turns the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law into that of mother-daughter. She is always protected by her mother-in-law at home. Even if her husband bullies her mother-in-law, she will always turn to her. This is really a good example for our daughter-in-law to coax her mother-in-law.
Second, be sweet-tongued and diligent. After all, your mother-in-law is your elder, so you must respect her at all times. Usually do more housework at home to the best of your ability, so that your mother-in-law can see your diligent side. In addition, you should also learn to talk sweetly and often say nice things to make the old lady happy. What mother-in-law wouldn't like a daughter-in-law who is polite, hard-working, and well-spoken.
Third, do what you like. Some older ladies with more individual personalities are really not easy to conquer, so you might as well start with your mother-in-law’s interests and hobbies. For example, if he likes to dance square dance, you can accompany him to dance, discuss with her what dance clothes to wear to show off her beauty, or give her a silk dance fan. As long as you find the right entry point, your mother-in-law will definitely praise you for being sensible and filial.
My mother-in-law is not my biological mother. She is raising her own son. Everything about you is foreign to your mother-in-law. It's hard enough to get along, let alone live under the same roof. However, I believe that most mothers-in-law are reasonable. As long as the daughter-in-law does not have any major issues of principle, the mother-in-law will generally love the house and not be in tit-for-tat with her daughter-in-law.
I wish all the daughters-in-law and mother-in-law a harmonious relationship!