This kind of poverty is not necessarily not enough to eat and wear warm, but a kind of face to face the love of the tangled. Have you ever been extremely eager to buy a thing when biting your teeth and did not buy, whether you are in the heart of the self-consolation this thing is not a necessity in the future after the hands of loose buy it, whether you will be in order to shy wallet and refused to go on a date with a friend, I think maybe we have all been there.
Do you like money?
If it was me before, I would have said, don't talk about money, tacky.
Now I would only say: like ah, what is the harm of money.
I remember Eileen Chang once said: "I like money, because I have not eaten the pain of money, do not know the bad side of money, only know the benefits of money." Such frank words rather have a kind of lovely without pretense.
Once upon a time I thought that money was insignificant in terms of affection.
In my sophomore year of high school, my uncle was in a car accident, and until now he has not been able to wake up, perhaps because of this incident, the whole family is scattered. The uncle's family were all working outside, living in the basement, no savings. After the accident, in this case must need everyone's support, the whole family made a mess, who are not willing to pay more money, uncle hospitalization costs are high, brother in the online crowdfunding.
The feeling of getting something for nothing is really bad, walking on the road all feel inferior, said the brother.
Poverty brings a series of woes, tracing back to the cause of his uncle's car accident, but also money.
Uncle borrowed a loan shark, 20,000 rolled up to 150,000, the debtor every day on the home to ask for money, in this every day to be forced to pay the high pressure, uncle riding a motorcycle when distracted by the truck parked on the side of the road hit.
As a result, the high cost of medical care added to the family's woes.
Poverty has torn apart the seemingly harmonious extended family.
Haruki Murakami said, "There is no such thing as a perfect article as there is no such thing as utter despair." But sometimes poverty really does lead to downright despair, an overwhelming sense of struggle and powerlessness.
Money is not the same as dignity, and most of the time there is no dignity without money.
Without money, the nurses are cursing and letting me go, my brother said.
Brother cried and called my mom, no 20,000 yuan hospitals do not give car transfer, uncle has been critical. I'm not sure how much I'm going to be able to get out of this, but I'm going to be able to get out of this, and I'm going to be able to get out of this, and I'm going to be able to get out of this. Less than half an hour after I sent the money, my brother called to say that he had been successfully transferred to the hospital, and my mother said, "I feel like I've spent 20,000 dollars to buy your uncle's life back. After the transfer, my brother couldn't get any more money, and the nurses were sneering every day, "What kind of hospital do you live in if you don't have any money." My brother said, "In the face of such sarcasm, I can only smile. How can there be any dignity to speak of."
It is because there is no money, so I do not have enough courage, even dare not fight back, Li Jia said.
Li Jia is a mother who just gave birth to her second child, is nearly 50 years old, the rural areas to the city to work, dark face wrinkles mottled, because of the family's poor conditions, did not buy skincare products.
"I held the child to get a shot, the little nurse stuck a lot of times did not give the child stuck in, I said her two words, the results of her violently into my child's skin, pulling out the needle is also with the tape is directly pulled down. If I were capable, I would have slapped her twice."
Because of her poverty, Li's mother didn't even dare to resist. No money the biggest worry is stalled, so a lot of things on their own swallowed belly to endure, can only be entrusted to their own.
The lack of money in the days of fear, and even dinner time cafeteria aunts deducted more than a dollar will be heartbroken for a long time.
Guoguo is a good kid in everyone's eyes, and has been understanding since she was a child, but she said, "If I had a choice, I would like to be capricious, and I would like to be pampered." When I was a child, Gogo's family and her sister's family went out to play together, she wanted to go skiing, told her mother, after her mother took her to the corner and said to her: "Gogo good boy, skiing is too expensive, skiing money is certainly to let your father take, and so on the next time my sister went away, I take you to play, okay?" Guoguo didn't say anything and nodded.
When Guoguo grew up, she desperately studied and desperately made money, and someone asked her why are you working so hard.
? "Because I don't want to be selfish and campy because I don't have money."
I once asked my friend, "What do you want to major in."
She said, "I want to study an interesting major, at least not as boring as accounting or something like that."
I saw her two days ago and asked her, "Do you like what you're studying?" She studied animation design.
"I want to change my major. My seniors all said that animation design is not profitable now, and I want to study business. Until I went to college, I didn't realize how important money is, we learn design to buy drawing materials to buy tools to buy a high configuration of the computer to spend a lot of money, I also want ysl, so I counted down, every month's living expenses are not enough for me to spend, and I'm embarrassed to give my parents to ask for money, and it's not easy for my parents either."
It was at this age of wanting so much but not having my own income that I really grew up, and I began to pay attention to the price of fruits, and I began to pay attention to the cost of living, and I learned to save money and learned to make money, because I came out of the castle, and I began to love money in a proper way.
There is a saying in the Fu Lei Family Book: Since you live in the world of money, you can't help but control it properly so that you don't become enslaved to it.
Some people have sour grapes mentality will say: I don't care about money, those rich people live for money all their lives, you see how easy it is for me.
In fact, the more people who don't have money, the more they become slaves to money.
I know a film studies sister, very capable, living expenses and tuition are earned. One day she sent a remark: real name envy of the rich second generation, tens of thousands of dollars of overseas study trips said to go, tens of thousands of dollars of movie equipment said to buy. However, I need to earn my own tuition.
In order for us to live an ideal life, we have to work hard to make money, put our dreams aside first, I said, I said my dream is to travel around the world, but in order to travel around the world I have to make money, this is the reality.
It's not that I like money, money has no value if it's not spent, it's just a scrap of paper. I'm just afraid of not having money, afraid of the landlord's debt, afraid of not having enough capital to realize my dreams, afraid of my parents not being able to give them a secure future when they get old, afraid of not being able to let my children grow up without worries, and afraid of being selfish and meticulous because of not having money.
Lawrence Liu in ? In "Breaking through the glacier of life", he said: when we grow older, more and more feel that the money is valuable, we may use money to measure everything, even measure love. I don't know that in this world, before there is money, there is love. When we didn't earn money, we earned love. We came to this world because of love, and one day we will leave, taking no money with us, but only a full heart of love.
? ? We know the importance of money, but we should know the importance of love. Everything I fear in general is the fear of losing myself and the people I love. If I work so hard to make money for a better future for my parents that I neglect to be there for them, work so hard to make money that I lose time in order to realize my dreams, and work so hard to make money that I lose my best friends in order to gain enough respect for myself, then the value of money becomes insignificant.
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