In Chinese all kinds of relationship, the most difficult is the mother-in-law-daughter-in-law relationship, since ancient times, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are like natural enemies, you want I will never help, who let you let my always obedient son are to me to throw the face, this is a lot of mother-in-law-daughter-in-law relationship conflicts began the catalyst.
But for the in-laws do not pay and do not help with the child this matter, from the obligation, she does not have this obligation. The parents are the guardians of the children. But as a matter of affection, it's a different story. After all, the child is their relative, and when their son and daughter-in-law can't afford to take care of him or her, they should still help take care of him or her out of affection.
Just like ordinary friendships, but also in times of crisis to lend a helping hand, not to mention the parents, after all, is a family, as the elderly, in their own capacity or should help take care of the grandchildren, the pressure of young people is particularly large, want to occupy a foot in a city, mortgage, car loans, insurance, children's tuition, and daily living expenses, which is a large amount of The company's website is a great source of information about the company's products and services.
And it's true that supporting a large family on just one person's salary from work won't be easy, or even stretching it.
These are the harsh facts, while many pedantic old people in China think, "I have raised my children to be able to earn money, so I should honor myself. There are many parents who even start their own old age path at the age of 50, not only to not help take care of their grandchildren, but even to live the life of asking their children for living expenses.
This is undoubtedly adding to the already difficult life, but the young people as filial piety and the obligation to support, will choose to spare part of the money within their reach to support them.
But such parents are too selfish, only know their own enjoyment, never thought of the children's life is how difficult, sometimes the young people are busy at work, or pay wages late, did not send the living expenses on time, and will even be on the child cursing, bad language. I've seen all this with my own eyes, and there are many more of these cynical old people in my life, embarrassing themselves and others all the time, caring only about their own opinions, never caring about the feelings and opinions of others.
They are always bent on never listening to anyone, let people feel unapproachable, and will not give their children the slightest room for discussion, the young people in order to make peace, so they have to act in accordance with their requirements, but I do not know that things will be reversed, a lot of such parents to do the consequences, and ultimately forced their own children no longer to interact with their own, but they do not reflect on the matter, and also bent on scolding the unfilial son. Such old people do not end up with a miserable evening, and ultimately by their own character harmed life.
And the only thing we can do is to understand and tolerate, and strive to live a good life by ourselves.
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