Yes, she is just an ordinary girl, not a great man to be glorified. But often ordinary people have the most y touching character! Because they are in the tough to bear the hardships of life.
She posted a video of her cancer diagnosis on the sixth day of the sixth month of the lunar calendar in 2021. In the video, she said, "All beings suffer, but I hope that people who are still experiencing difficulties in their lives can still be optimistic when they see that I am so miserable, and that they can see a little bit of hope from her, and that June 6, which is her lunar birthday, is a good time for her!
She said that before the diagnosis, her stomach did not have any discomfort, go to the hospital just because of the back pain, she thought it was dancing lumbar muscle strain, in fact, has been bone metastasis. Just get the results, surely can not accept, there are countless sleepless nights, to the roof and lights, asked countless times, why me, do not dare to collapse during the day, because to comfort mom and dad. Woke up with her pillow full of hair, the fear of the wind blowing off the hair on the ground, and finally let her decide to shave her head. When she first started shaving, she still forced a smile, laughing and crying, she said, so ugly, like a briny egg, scalp so cold.
There are men around me who started to lose their hair when they went to college (met his dad, only to appreciate the powerful force of genetic inheritance!)
My friend started losing his hair when he was in college (I met his dad and realized the power of genetics!), but at first it was just a lot of hair, which led to depression, and then in less than a year, he developed a "smart" hairstyle, and then he refused to be photographed with people, and then every time I saw him, he would wear a hat. Just went to college, that is, about twenty years old, originally a young man with a head of black hair spirit of the young man, but by the "Mediterranean" hairstyle to the temperament of the middle-aged all of a sudden, who will be depressed, which has nothing to do with whether or not the love of beauty. For a girl who loves beauty, because of hair loss had to shave her head, tears can not express the grief!
She touched me the most with these two points.
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You work very hard before you get sick, and it's only when you get sick that you realize that your health is more important than anything else.
We often say that the body is the capital of the revolution, health is very important. But how many actions really pay for health? If it is not a unit organization, it may be difficult to insist on doing a physical examination every year.
People are inert, people's self-control is also very weak, when there is no internal and external causes to motivate you to act, it is very difficult to rely on willpower to insist on doing something. For example, if you have passed the sixth level of English in university, and if you don't intend to go abroad, will you still get up early in the winter months to read English outdoors in the howling wind? Of course, except for those who love English, because love is the internal cause, the test is the external cause.
People only see the unfortunate things, lament the importance of health and peace, a few days later will be thrown out of mind, only when the disease is haunted, only to understand that health is more important than anything else.
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Only by breaking through the immediate suffering can we reach the realm of openness.
The video of Su Riman's fight against cancer shows such a subtle change. When she was discharged from the hospital at the end of the first phase of chemotherapy, she still cried every time she opened her mouth in the video. Later in the video, she rarely cried, and no one would have guessed that under the sunny smile, is a weak sick body!
In the video, she still loves to dance, participate in activities, and is full of vigor. Perhaps the physical pain of chemotherapy is not worth mentioning compared to the pain in her heart. She accepted the fact, chose to face it positively, and broke through the mental pain, in order to present a light-hearted state!
Lin Huiyin died at the age of 51, because of lung cancer. The disease haunted her for many years, and when she participated in the design of the Monument to the People's Heroes in Tiananmen Square, she was too sick to get out of bed, and her living room was a study, with two drafting tables, and it was under these circumstances that she completed this great and honorable work.
Because of the war, they went all the way south from Beiping to Kunming, passing by Huangguoshu Falls, far away from the roaring sound of water, Lin Huiyin was attracted by the magnificent waterfalls, she stood next to the Liang Sicheng, said: "Sicheng, I feel that the world's toughest is the water, not the stone, and they are in the wall without a road, but also will stand straight up, from this cliff top! Righteously and unhesitatingly jumped down, so that the stone-breaking moment becomes eternal, so that people can realize a spiritual fall." Liang Sicheng said, "Disappointment and discouragement are the most horrible enemies in our lives, and we do not allow it to intrude for life. People also need water this brave and fearless."
Lin Huiyin dragged a sickly body, but brought unlimited vitality to those around her. In the days of illness and suffering, she did not slack off for a moment in the architectural research work. With a sick body to work, in the busy so that her heart becomes strong, every step is a resounding.
Only by breaking through the immediate pain can we reach the realm of openness, and those who have not experienced this are not enough to understand life. We have to be the strongest in life, because the strong can always find the fulcrum of life, timely adjustment of their own mentality, tough to bear the hardships of life.