Life can not always be smooth sailing, the road will always have a sword, there will always be thorns and thistles all over the place, we have to learn to face these, to know that the shortcut to success is to walk straight down a road without hesitation.
It is not Xiang Yu will not face, when the four sides of the Chu song, pulling the mountain to cover the world's strength can not be exerted; when the fragrance of death, the tears of the king in a moment of slippery; when surrounded by the Wujiang River, issued the "death of the sky, not the war of the crime," the feeling; when the pavilion chief persuade to cross the sunset is red, the wind blowing the grass, he could have reorganized, the east mountain again! But he gave up facing reality and chose to escape, turning his young life into a touch of crimson on the blade of the sword, he was not a complete person. When he simply ended his own that split second, success is no longer with him, he failed permanently, but also to the future generations left a thousand years of hate.
And Sima Qian chose to face it. When the heart of Emperor Wu was set as offended; when there was no money left in the family, he could not atone for his own sins; when the thought of life and death, shame and humiliation to accept the capital punishment, how easy it is to die, but he lived for the "Records of the Grand Historian". The moment this great choice was made, the order of success was ready for him. He chose to live the hard way and gave up the easy escape. He bravely faced the contempt of the world, the face of the condemnation of the living, the face of the incestuous situation, as he himself said, "every thought of shame, sweat has not been not hair back stained clothes also", "living in the neglect as if there is something to be heard, out of the unknown where it is going", it is in this state, he endured a great deal of hardship. It was in this state that he endured great mental pressure and wrote a legend. Although he was subjected to such extreme punishment, we saw a real sense of capitalized human characters, and saw the wisdom he faced. He succeeded, the "Records of the Grand Historian" became a classic that has been passed down to the world, and he himself became a generation of historians from a nameless historian, and wrote in the history of mankind without any predecessor or successor.
I Xiang Yu escaped and was greeted only with death and failure; Sima Qian faced and was greeted with vividness and success. One is able-bodied and heroic, but the spiritual realm is missing a corner; the other is a disabled body, but the body is shining with constant light. This is the difference between escaping and facing.
Let us learn from history and learn to face it.
Growing up in adversity
Without the wind and rain, which will have the maturity of the autumn fruit; without the piercing cold wind, which will have the resilience of the pines and cypresses. In adversity, don't just grumble, think more about how to overcome the difficulties. Peterson said: "In life, there are often countless blows from the outside, but these blows will actually have what effect on you, the final decision in your own hands."
Adversity gives one a valuable opportunity for refinement. Only those who can stand the test of adversity can become truly strong. Most of the great men of the past and present are holding the indomitable spirit, struggling from adversity. Deaf Beethoven, trekking in the thorny black-and-white keys, with the fingers heavy ringing of the sacred "destiny" of the door, waving a musician tenacity and doom to fight the brilliant music. Sima Qian endured the pain of palace torture to complete the historical masterpiece "The Records of the Grand Historian". King Wen of Zhou was detained and performed the "Zhou Yi". "Heaven will send down a great task to the people, must first suffer their hearts and minds, and labor their bones and muscles." Therefore, adversity is a stepping stone for the strong to climb to the top, and an abyss of ten thousand fathoms for the weak to go to ruin.
Some countries in Europe and the United States deliberately build straight highways into curved and winding roads. Road construction costs more, driving time costs, for the view of time as money quite economic minded Europeans and Americans, really "asking for trouble". But they think it's worth it, because a long time in the straight, there is no obstacle to the highway speeding, easy to make people paralyzed, which led to traffic accidents. With the obstacles of curved roads, drivers must always be vigilant and dare not take things lightly. Their approach has proved to be a wise one.
No need to praise adversity, no need to look forward to adversity, but must face up to adversity, once in adversity, the most important thing is to have confidence, perseverance, courage, perseverance, and have the spirit of doing, even if the eyes look at the mountains and the water is exhausted, but still think of the peaks and turns, and the darkness of the flowers. Since ancient times, all the people who can achieve a great cause are not down-to-earth, hard-working people. Envy fish at the abyss, not as good as retreating and knotting the net. Sighing is not the way, fantasy is not the way, only confident to do, in order to get out of the predicament.
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Edison spent ten whole years, after 50,000 experiments, invented the storage battery; the famous scientist Zhu Kezhen seventy years old to the field, get first-hand information, until the dying day still do not forget to do scientific research records. How many hardships have they overcome? The value of life, the significance of life, in what place and in what form should be reflected, many advanced people have made an example and explanation for us. Not after some wind and frost suffering, how to get the fragrance of plum blossoms. Let us learn to be strong, learn to fight, with struggle out of adversity, which will become our great wealth. I appreciate Ostrovsky's sentence: "Human life, like a flood in the rushing current, without encountering islands, reefs, it is difficult to stir up beautiful waves."
When I face frustration
What is life? Those who are pleased say it is fine wine; those who are disillusioned say it is bitter water; those who are successful say it is a rainbow; those who fail say it is a cloud. Alexandre Dumas said that life is a constant frustration and the pursuit of hope.
People's lives can not always be flat, calm, in this long journey, we will always inevitably suffer large and small setbacks and failures, no failure of life is not a complete life.
Suffering setbacks is not terrible, terrible is not suffered setbacks. Because only after, only know how to face, in order to feel the kind of pleasure after defeating the setbacks.
Life is an expedition, the journey twists and turns. When you desperately disappointed in the abyss, do not give up, because look up, is a most beautiful starry sky!
Failure in life frustration has both an inevitable side; and positive and negative function. Both can make a person to maturity, achievement, but also may destroy the future of the individual, the key lies in how you face setbacks.
When I face setbacks, I say to myself: "Never give up". The sun is precisely because never give up, to finally break through the horizon shining miles; grass is precisely because never give up, not counting the stars, and ultimately green earth.
When I face setbacks, I will face them with a happy heart. Happiness is my most valuable asset, it teaches me how to face the pain brought to me by each setback, "pain and pleasure" aptly sums up our lives, who is not in pain to find happiness! Who hasn't been hurt while learning to be strong? Knowing this, the pain of frustration is more meaningful, and we will be better able to cherish the joy of life.
When I face setbacks, there is only one sentence that encourages me, "The sword sharpens itself, and the fragrance of plum blossoms comes from bitter cold." Frustration tells me too much ...... In short, frustration is nothing more than a small mixing stone in the long journey of life, as long as you can be strong enough to get up after a fall, the future will be bright!
Facing the troubles in life
If you choose the sky, do not desire the wind and sunshine;
If you choose the earth, do not desire a smooth journey;
If you choose the sea, do not desire the wind and waves.
Nine times out of ten, life is like a bottomless pit of troubles that haunt us all the time. But you have to have the courage to say to yourself, "I can do it!"
When the eagle chooses the blue sky, it knows that only the vastness of the blue sky can give it the opportunity to fight in the air, so the eagle returns to the persistent soaring;
When the fish choose the clear water, it knows that only the clarity of the flowing water to show their own roaming the bottom of the wonderful, so the fish returns to the cheerful
This is the first time that the eagle has chosen the blue sky, and it is the only way to show its own roaming the bottom of the wonderful, and it is the only way to give it the opportunity to fight in the air.