This should be one of the most common mistakes people make! For example, some students in our class play while reading. They always complain that they don't have enough time to go crazy when reading, and the result is that they can't read well and play well. Usually in this case, I will study hard and not think about what I want to play. I always feel that I can't play. If I still regret that I didn't have a chance to do anything, so that I couldn't study hard, it's not worth it. It's heartbreaking to lose something you love. I don't have to lose another thing I love because of what I lost.
The hero and heroine in Jimmy's cartoon "Go Left, Go Right" finally meet after passing by countless times. However, they don't regret what they missed. On the contrary, I cherish the encounter in front of me more and get a happy life. Cao Xueqin lost his fortune because of the assassination of Ganlong. However, he has not fallen. After suffering, I finally wrote A Dream of Red Mansions, one of China's four classical novels. Zhu Zaiyu, the ninth grandson of Zhu Yuanzhang, also gave up the throne to study mathematics. Later, he was called "the saint of the Oriental Renaissance" by Europeans ... They all missed something more or less in their life journey. But they didn't stop moving forward, went forward bravely and finally achieved their goal.
A few days ago, several classmates invited me to go out to play, but I turned them down on the grounds that I wanted to read and had no time. They don't understand why I have to study so hard after the senior high school entrance examination. Only I know that in order to study, I have missed the chance to play at ordinary times. Based on the experiences and lessons of the above characters, I understand that only by moving on and working hard can we avoid missing more!
So, if you are sad for the loss now, please listen to my advice: cherish the beauty in front of you! Don't feel lost for what you missed. All you can do is seize everything in front of you and don't lose any more. For those who missed it, think about what Dante once said-just take a look and move on! You don't have to regret!
Don't sigh for missing it.
When you regret missing the sun, you will also miss the stars.
Tagore
Life is two broken lines, sometimes parallel and sometimes intersecting. When we miss the opportunity at the intersection, maybe we still have a chance, or we may miss it and lose it forever.
Why do we miss the ever-changing scenery around us? Why do we delay the focus in life because of small things? Because we think too much. Sometimes I want to catch everything, but I forget that there are only two hands and only one bag. We can't take too many things. Therefore, I can only watch the long-awaited beauty pass by.
There is a saying in the west: life is fleeting, and the god of luck only cares for people once. So, when we lose and miss, should we cry or laugh?
When someone missed it, he lamented that he was unlucky and his life was at stake. Like Jia Yi, although knowledgeable, he died of depression because he could not get out of his master's early death. No wonder Su Shi laughed at him.
Some people miss it, but it is not a face of decay and resentment. It is wise for a wise man to throw away a shoe when he falls off the train. Su Dongpo was demoted, but he sang "a misty rain in his life", which is a kind of tolerance; Pu Shu missed the opportunity to attend the middle school attached to Beijing Normal University with a score of 0.5. He left the country bravely and finally "lived like a snowflake", which was another chance after missing it.
Pessimistically chewing the missed bitter fruit and drowning yourself in tears, such people can't get out of the shadows and embrace a new life. He's bound to miss more.
Actively grasp a failure, take the miss as a warning, as a reminder, and finally tap the sweet spring in the missed dry well to nourish the new voyage of life.
When Europeans were looking for a more convenient "spice road", Columbus, Da Gama and Magellan set foot on the journey one after another. Although they missed the wealth, they caught the tail of truth. They found that the earth is round!
Someone missed his goal in the wrong experiment and found penicillin; Some people find that Coca-Cola's prescription is not good; Someone accidentally soiled an expensive dress and accidentally found the dry cleaning agent. How subtle life is, missing the stars and the sun; Miss the sun and clouds. Those who have gained something from missing will definitely tell you: don't sigh for missing, gain something from missing, you will increase the depth of your life, and you will be taken care of by the lucky god.
Now, we can confidently answer: when we lose and miss, smiling is our only expression, thinking is our only action in practice, and success will be our only result.
If you miss spring, please don't give up to welcome summer.
Beauty after disappearance
After missing the warm date with spring, plum blossom resolutely chose to open in the cold wind, so there was a lonely figure of plum blossom in the snow and ice. The beacon lamp missed the gathering time with the day, and still chose to release its light in the dark, so there was a lamp that suddenly appeared on a stormy night.
Plum blossoms and beacon lights did not give up their faith after missing the beautiful scenery. They released their beauty to the world in another way.
The beauty after missing is not something that each of us can have. It needs an open mind and a broad mind.
Su Shi's life is full of legends. At the peak of his life, he accidentally missed the best career and walked into the trough of his life. However, he didn't choose to give up, give up the faith in his heart. In a palm-sized world, he finally found between mountains and rivers that plain is the best taste of life. He bowed his head easily and realized a higher life realm of "returning to the bleak place, rain or shine".
His passion makes him open-minded, and his openness makes him tolerant. His tolerance made him a mountain in the literary world after missing his official career.
Xu Benyu, who was moved by one of the top ten figures in China, finally decided to give up the opportunity to walk to graduate school and resolutely chose to go to Guizhou to realize his promise of "sunshine" made a year ago. Therefore, he missed the hard-won opportunity to walk, missed the colorful life in the city, maybe he missed the promotion step by step and missed the academic glory. Without any grandiloquence, he covered the children's eyes with sunshine and color. His deep love warmed the hearts of every mountaineer and awakened every sympathetic heart. As the report said, "He raised the torch and stung people's eyes".
His sacrifice touched thousands of China people in Qian Qian, making them lend a helping hand to the whole world and bring sunshine, warmth and real care to the poor children in the west.
We can miss the stars and the moon, but we must never give up the pursuit of beautiful things; We can miss the beautiful scenery along the way, but we must never give up our faith.
It is a pity to miss the beautiful scenery along the way, but a great soul can regain confidence after missing it and pursue another goal with an optimistic and positive attitude, and his world will be colorful.
If you miss it, you can still have a wonderful world, because your mentality determines your destiny.
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