| JU Xiaoxia
In the blink of an eye, another year is coming to an end.
This year, we have experienced the wind and frost, but also bathed in the sunshine and rain.
A year can be very long, long as we have experienced all the sad and happy;
A year can also be very short, short as a turn, a rub shoulders, and then the sky is the other side of the world, the end of the world.
Eileen Chang said, "For people after middle age, ten or eight years seems to be a matter of time."
Those unanticipated warmth, the woes and blessings of the morning and evening, pounce on the face, can not be turned back.
Those who are familiar with the beauty, perhaps fleeting;
Those who once thought insurmountable peaks, perhaps will eventually reach the top;
Those who wallow in the pain, perhaps will be healed by time.
Recently, I saw the new trailer for the movie "Send You a Little Red Flower" and was y moved.
Finally realized that years is a journey with no return, all the way no matter how long or short, no matter how good or bad, all are scenery.
People's life is only once, may we cherish.
What you take for granted today,
is how many people can't make it to tomorrow
At the beginning of the trailer of "A Little Red Flowers for You," what attracted me wasn't the actors or the picture but the soundtrack that lingered in my ears. the background sound that lingered in my ears.
It was the constant ticking of the hour hand and the sound of the most common EKG instrument in hospitals.
It's not loud, but it instantly puts you in the tension of the countdown.
It is then revealed that the male and female protagonists are both seriously ill "young men with tumors", and that their tumors are in their heads.
This is a story of illness, life and hope.
The so-called "life is counting down" is just a hypothesis for normal people, but for them, it has become a daily routine.
Remember, there is a scene that is particularly heartbreaking.
The heroine, Liu Hao Cun, asked with a smile, "After brain surgery, someone will suddenly master several languages.
The male lead, starring Yi Yi Qianxi, smiles and says, after the surgery, I can see the future.
Plain tone, playful words, but said the most brutal truth.
We all know that it was not the future he "saw", but the future he desperately wanted to go to.
How many people always used to complain about the life of the ordinary boring, but do not know, we are accustomed to and even bored of the moment, hidden countless people can never get to the tomorrow.
A few days ago, some people in the middle school group shared their wedding news.
While sending my best wishes, I suddenly remembered that the boy at the front table had died three years ago.
Three years ago, seldom spoke of him suddenly released a message in the circle of friends:
"We are the parents of Xiao Zhang, he is now in the late stages of gastric cancer, the city hospitals say that it can not be saved, and I implore you to help us, if there is a specialist who knows this, please contact us. "
Everyone was stunned by the news of his serious illness, but the fledgling us, in addition to a slight donation, can not help at all.
Just as the students were planning to find time to visit him in the group, his circle of friends has been changed to "love son has passed away last night".
The death of a life, but so quietly.
The promised reunion has not yet been organized, the promised marriage and children have not yet come true, said good buddy to be the best man, but has not been able to wait for the day of marriage.
When he was young, he always thought that the day would come, but his world suddenly stopped at 25.
Until that moment, only to realize that life is really too fragile.
In the movie, two young men with tumors say with a smile their wish, which is very simple and even a bit humble, "to be a normal person".
Now that I think about it, the word "normal" is a luxury for people with serious illnesses.
Expectations are not disappointed, only delayed
Albert Camus said:
"I don't expect to go through life smoothly, but I hope that when I encounter a difficult time, I can be the opponent. can be its opponent."
People who dare to fight with life are brave, even if they are defeated in front of life, it is not in vain to come to earth.
"Send you a little red flower", although the main man and woman are not very old, but are such people.
With a passion, in the face of pain, in the face of the threat of death, in the face of the "if there is no tomorrow" hypothesis, they still look forward to, did not retreat, but to take the initiative to meet the front.
Everyone who has seen the trailer will be touched by the light in their eyes.
They said "we are not afraid of the disease" and "stay with her, don't let yourself regret it".
Perhaps because they are seriously ill, they live extra hard.
I remember seeing the same brave couple on a Korean TV program.
In front of the camera, the terminally ill wife, even if the treatment has been shaved bald, but still wearing a wedding dress happy smile, aside from the husband suddenly cried.
The wife asked what she was crying about, the fool. The husband said, because you are too beautiful.
The wife happily comforted her husband: married I will be healthy up, you do not cry.
Unfortunately, God did not favor the girl, she still left the world.
More than a decade later, the program team once again found the husband of the year.
The young lad had turned into a middle-aged man with long hair, living alone.
Speaking of his wife who died early, he did not grieve, but just quietly smiled and said:
Thanks to God that I have been given the love of the fairies once in my life, and there is nothing else I can ask for in my life.
In his eyes, as long as they have loved each other, it is something to be happy about, even if that brings pain, but also precious.
Compared to them, we are happy enough.
Life will always experience moments of anticipation of brokenness, but after brokenness comes rebuilding.
Who hasn't cried and ached while trying to get through what life has thrown at them?
Some people say that apart from life and death, everything else is just a scratch.
If we encounter another loss, we might as well tell ourselves that the expectation is not lost, but only delayed. Compared to life and death matters, what we have to do is to cherish the present, cherish the time we spend with our parents, and cherish all that is around us. The gift of destiny will eventually come to us. Live each day to the fullest, It is the best respect for life Rabindranath Tagore's poem reads, "The world kissed me with pain, and I had to return the favor. " For the terminally ill, life is like having a sharp blade hanging over your head that can fall at any time. But the two protagonists in Send You a Little Red Flower are living their lives to the fullest. It's not that the hero hasn't been afraid, who can be afraid of cancer at a young age? Even when the two went to eat barbecue, he subconsciously said, "My mom said eating these is easy to cause cancer." As a result, the words of those around him woke him up again and again: His father said, "You should go and do something you should do at your age." The girl said, "Don't you already have cancer?" What is life? It's "when's the time for spring flowers, when's the time for dirty beer, when's the time for dirty waist, when's the time for a little barbecue". Yue Yunpeng played the friend also said: "People whether they are sick or not, living is a spirit." For everyone, life is destined to be only this time, there is no turning back, so why not live a happy and enjoyable life? A few months ago, I watched a video of @Xiaoying couple, a rural couple, wearing the most simple clothes, but dancing the most joyful dance. In front of an old house, next to a muddy road, between endless fields, they confidently danced the ghost step. Some people say, if they're so happy, life must be trouble-free, right? Quite the opposite. The couple's income was meager, and they managed to save up for a small business, but the husband was in a car accident and suffered a shock that left him with aftereffects, and he couldn't stay away from people to look after him. Just as this small, ordinary rural family was slipping into the abyss, the wife decided: let's dance. And so began a dance with the intention of curing the disease. Gradually, Ying's husband's condition improved, and the couple accidentally became Internet celebrities. Thinking of a quote from Socrates: There is a sun in everyone, the main thing is to make it how to shine. True light is not the absence of darkness, but is never engulfed by it. It is always said to live each day as if it were the last day of your life. I used to think nothing of this saying, but after seeing the movie, I realized that this is the greatest tribute to life. A little red flower for you In the movie, the heroine drew a little red flower for the hero and said: reward you for being proactive for the first time. Yes, a life like theirs can muster the courage to love life. That's actually a particularly rare attitude. Too many people are always accustomed to be hard on themselves, always feel that they are not good enough, and when they meet, they dare not pursue, and when they miss, they regret it. Why do people always waste their precious time on waiting and hesitating? From now on, live in the moment. No matter how good or bad it is, accept it, even if you are knocked to the ground by the heavy blows of life, after a short rest, you are still ready to go. 2020 is a special year. On the last day of the year, why not go to the movie theater and watch "Send You a Little Red Flower"? In this way, say thank you to yourself for a hard year. Thank you for not giving up halfway, thank you for not losing to the vagaries of the world, thank you for not changing so easily, and still retaining the warmth of blood, heart and warmth in the heart. All people who live positively deserve a little red flower.