If a person has no partner, life will become boring. People who have lost their partners, especially the elderly, are like solitary geese in a flock, eager to return.
However, it is not as simple for people to find a wife as it is for lonely geese, and it is not so easy to find the right person. It is a well-known truth that emotional things must be consensual.
Uncle Li, 69, was an educated youth who went to the countryside in his early years. Many young people went back in those years, but Uncle Li chose to stay. With his own skills, he stayed in the countryside for more than 50 years.
Uncle Li's house has a big yard, and the yard at the gate of the yard is full of corn. The distance between the two walls is about 20m, and the length is about100m.
There is a fish pond at the end of the yard, and there are many fish in it.
There is a henhouse and pigsty in the yard, and two piglets have been raised for more than four months.
Uncle Li said that these are all raised and eaten by himself. Because raising a pig doesn't like eating, it doesn't smell good, so you should raise two.
Pigs really deserve a companion. Uncle Li laughed.
Uncle Li loved singing since he was a child, and the songs he sang as a child are still fresh in his memory.
Uncle Li performed a live performance of "Pig Eight Rings Back Daughter-in-law". Don't say, Li Da, you sing really well, with clear pronunciation and mellow voice, organized movements and measured movements.
Uncle Li said that at 9 1, the county leaders all said that his voice was second only to Han Ziping's, but because of his age, it had no training value.
Mainly after marriage, his wife wouldn't let him go out to participate in the performance, because she felt that there were no good people in this industry.
Uncle Li had to give up his dream and be happy in Jiale.
Now Uncle Li's wife died of cirrhosis for more than a year, and it took only 9 1 day from the beginning of treatment to his death.
After his wife died, someone advised Uncle Li that it would take three years to find a wife.
But uncle Li has his own ideas. He is 69 years old now, and he will be 72 years old in three years. Who will live with him?
The main reason is that when people reach this age, their wives leave, and the remaining one is too lonely.
Uncle Li now has a one-month pension 1800. He just wants to find a woman who is honest, hardworking, does not smoke or drink, and lives a simple life wholeheartedly.
As for the appearance, Uncle Li said that it can almost be done. When they walked together, people thought they would be fine, so he was satisfied.
Aunt Lu, introduced by the matchmaker to Uncle Li, is 60 years old and has had two unhappy marriages.
Menstruation wore a leather trench coat, a small bag slung over his shoulder and a tall ponytail. Uncle Li felt good at first sight. Whether it can be done depends on future contact.
My aunt thinks that Uncle Li is not bad in height and is old. She believes that this is the difference between rural areas and cities, and rural people are old.
But since I'm here, my aunt also said, anyway, let's talk about it first.
Seeing that menstruation disliked Uncle Li in his later years, netizens were not very happy. Uncle Li is nine years older than my aunt, but I really can't see where it is. On the whole, Uncle Li's spirit is still very good in all aspects.
Uncle Li took his aunt around the yard and said humorously, please enjoy your meal. All the yards we are going to are our homes.
The matchmaker teased Uncle Li. Is it "we" now? Uncle Harry Aha smiled. If there is anything good, it is necessary to write it down and close the relationship.
Uncle Li is really attentive, but he just doesn't know if he can impress his aunt.
After visiting Uncle Li's yard, my aunt's face was full of smiles. What a nice family! Fish ponds are also clean. At first glance, Uncle Li is a diligent person.
It seems that we can't just look at the surface, but we still need to know more about all aspects to find the hidden bright spots in each other.
To tell the truth, Uncle Li's yard is really exciting. The yard is full of fruit trees, chickens, ducks, fish and pigs. This country life is paradise.
The big yard and clean fish pond have made my aunt's affection for Uncle Li soar. She feels that there is no such person as Uncle Li in the countryside. He is a person who can live together.
My aunt seems to have a somewhat unfriendly impression of rural people. Seeing that Uncle Li loves to clean up, I feel that it is an exception in the countryside.
In fact, whether in rural or urban areas, there are people who love to be clean or sloppy, and nothing is absolute.
After visiting the yard, Uncle Li brought fruit, which was very delicate.
Uncle Li said that this orange represents the gathering of two people. After the party, it will be sweet to eat a banana mouth, and then add some grapes to quench your thirst!
It seems that Uncle Li has made great efforts to welcome his aunt, and there are so many sayings about eating a fruit.
After they sat down and introduced their respective situations, they couldn't help talking about their hobbies. Aunt Lu said that she loves traveling, square dancing and singing.
Uncle Li thought that he had found a bosom friend, and they came to a "fairy couple" on the spot.
Just sing a few words, menstruation's tune is gone. My aunt said shyly, Oh, I was so nervous that I lost my tune unconsciously.
My aunt said that Uncle Li sang so well that she was out of tune.
Menstruation adjusted his mood, and the two men started from scratch again. This time, my aunt sang and read the words with her mobile phone. Needless to say, it is really much better.
It's just that my aunt sings really well. Every time uncle Li pulls her back quietly, she can always sneak out.
When menstruation sang "Although the cold kiln is broken, it can be sheltered from the wind and rain", it was too far away.
Uncle Li is at a loss and can't do anything about it. He was successfully taken to the ditch by his aunt, and suddenly he got stuck and forgot all the words.
Uncle Li really tried his best. The song in front of my sister ran away, and I can still drag it back. This last sentence is so lethal that Uncle Li really can't stand it.
Although menstruation's singing level is here, Uncle Li thinks this is not a problem, but his voice is different. If you have this idea, you can be happy.
Uncle Li is alive, pursuing a happy mood.
My aunt is more and more satisfied with Uncle Li. She has retired 10 years now, and her pension is 2200 yuan a month.
Sister-in-law said that she had been married twice. In her first marriage, she had a son. Because of the separation of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, her husband's family refused to let her see her son and told him that his son had died. Now her son thinks she is really dead.
The second marriage divorced because her husband was absent, and now she has been single 10 years, renting a house alone.
Uncle Li expressed deep sympathy for his aunt's unfortunate marriage. He can understand that her psychological burden must be heavy, and there is nothing to say, so he can only relax himself.
Although my aunt is divorced, she has no children and doesn't have much worries. Uncle Li is quite satisfied.
Aunt also told Uncle Li bluntly that after they were together, she must be with Uncle Li, but the rural conditions were so poor that she was still not used to it.
Uncle Li said that my aunt has a good family and has never exercised in the countryside.
In fact, now that the countryside has been mechanized, it can be simple. If you are willing to learn, you can learn.
Aunt said she wouldn't do those jobs and didn't want to learn.
Although my aunt said so, Uncle Li felt that her aunt closed her eyes. He wants to make it up again, as long as she can do the housework well, and leave the rest alone.
My aunt still feels that she can't adapt to the life in the countryside and can't stand it without a job.
The biggest problem in the countryside is cold. She has never had such a day and feels that she can't adapt.
She has lived in the city all her life and has heating in winter. She can wear short sleeves at home. She is used to the days with heating.
Uncle Li thinks this is "complaining about being cold without clothes". It must be cold if you wear less.
It seems that uncle not only can sing, but also has a good cultural level. He speaks in a certain way.
See two people will not be able to speak normally, menstruation also want to do their best to save them. She suggested that if they became husband and wife, she hoped grandpa could buy a house in the city.
Uncle Li has a flexible mind. He immediately suggested that this is easy to solve, and renting a house in winter can be solved.
His yard has long been given to his daughter, who also said that he can always stay where he likes when he doesn't want to work.
Now that I have this idea, I don't want to do it. Now he should do something to express his feelings.
Uncle Li is used to living in the countryside. In winter, he can go to the building to enjoy heating, and in summer, he still has to come back to the country to take care of the yard and plant some vegetables, which is healthy and affordable.
Although renting a house can solve the problem of cold in winter, my aunt still feels that renting a house for a long time is not cost-effective. Ten or twenty years later, the money from renting a house can buy a building.
In my aunt's opinion, renting a house is not a long-term solution.
My aunt's request is very clear. If she can buy a house, she can consider it. If she can't buy it, she can only forget it. My aunt is absolutely unwilling to make do.
Grandpa is also very determined not to buy a house.
It is an irreconcilable contradiction that neither of them can give in now.
Grandpa is also very frank, he can't meet his aunt's requirements. He took the lead in saying that he couldn't do this. He was sorry for his aunt.
In the end, the two did not talk about the house. Uncle Li thinks this is a matter of principle and cannot be forced. After all, twisting melons is not sweet.
Aunt also expressed her apologies, thinking that they can still be friends if they can't be wives.
Sister Bo's point of view:
Hard twisted melons are not sweet. Uncle Li's approach is very wise. When two people live together, they must have the same views and values in order to live well.
My aunt likes comfortable city life, and Uncle Li likes busy and full rural life. In fact, we are not on the same channel at all, and we can't get together.
My aunt didn't even think about coming to live in the countryside. This blind date can only be regarded as a one-day trip to Uncle Li's house. Fortunately, Uncle Li's family is big enough to come for nothing.
As the saying goes, you can't eat hot tofu if you are impatient, and the old man will find a wife to make you comfortable and happy in your later years. So, don't rush for success. You must study more and find a suitable one.
I wish the versatile uncle Li a lovely wife as soon as possible, and I also hope that my aunt will find a wife with a house as soon as possible to spend the rest of her life together.