A girl's boyfriend, who had known her for thirteen months and four days, suddenly broke up with her. She was so sad that she came to me and cried. She said that she had been held in her hand for over a year. Whenever they have some disputes, her boyfriend will apologize and beg for mercy within 24 hours, and dare not let her be wronged and angry for too long. So she was suddenly abandoned this time, and she was not only sad and angry, but also unable to stop her face and self-esteem. It has been a year since it happened, and she still can't digest this bitter emotion for a long time.
I believe many girls are suffering the same pain. Do you remember the prayer of a western philosopher? He said, Oh, my God! Please give me mercy to accept the things I cannot change. Please give me the courage to change the things I can, and also give me the wisdom to distinguish them!
This passage is not only suitable for us to face the harsh reality and challenges, but also suitable for our mood and attitude when we fall in love. Yes, if love is in trouble, but we know that their original love and affection are still there, then we must bravely change it, no matter who pays more or less, no matter who has less face than who, because in real love, there is only tolerance and no competition. However, if we encounter the difficulty that one party's love has faded away or even made a decisive statement, we must learn to "accept" this fact in good faith and learn to turn away gracefully with tears.
A girl blinked and said, "Yes, why should we humbly beg him to let them see us?" Now that two people's feelings have been compromised, of course, we should be proud and turn away without looking back!
No, it's not. We turned gracefully, not to compete with anyone, nor for fear that someone would look down on us. We are elegant or proud only to win respect and affirmation for ourselves, so that we will not deny ourselves because of a failure. Besides, if we still have the psychology of keeping up with the joneses, the pain in our hearts will not be so easy to pass. In the end, others may be indifferent, and we are still stupidly trapped in our own emotions.
Therefore, in case the "first time" love really fails, you must not make the impulse to hate yourself or let him ruin yourself in the future.
Love itself is beautiful, but God has never promised us the way to love. The sky is always blue, and the color is Chang Yan. Therefore, when the once beautiful love comes to an end, we can only pray that God will give us infinite goodwill and help us learn to turn away gracefully after the experience, so that we can greet a better tomorrow with open arms perfectly! !