Ally's husband was very philandering when he was young, then Ally was angry all day in tears, but she was not willing to divorce, because she felt ashamed to become a divorced woman, so she could only choose to endure, choose to hold out, she thought that when her husband was older, he would collect, maybe he was over 50 years old, and never again will he be philandering.
Time has shown that expecting the return of the prodigal son is a very unrealistic idea. Now Ally's husband has passed the age of 50, but he still does not change the nature of the old days of philandering, Ally do not understand why the man passed the age of 50, have reached the age of knowledge, how will still be philandering?
Listen to these 4 52-year-old man's big truth.
Mr. Ye.If you have only loved and owned one woman in your life, it only proves that the man is incapable of living a more exciting life.
Men are born to be philandering, not the same as so many women, if you only love your wife one, it's too much of a waste of this life. Whether a man has money or not, as long as there is a woman outside the marriage like him, he will come and go.
30 years old when philandering, 50 years old not only will not close the heart will be more philandering, because know that the age is getting older and older, and then perhaps no longer have the opportunity to see a love one, that is more to take advantage of the fact that it is not getting older and older, love a few more, so that there will not be regrets in the old age.
Mr. Zhou.I've seen those old people in their 70s and 80s, they are getting old, they have Alzheimer's disease, they don't even recognize themselves, they live like a ghost.
When I see these old people, I feel very uncomfortable, and I am afraid that I will become like this in the future.
I'm only 50 years old now, if I don't spend a little bit, not in time to enjoy, wait until the old age, delirium, want to enjoy are not that kind of ability.
A lifetime of meaninglessness, observing so many rules, so restrained, in the end, may be a serious illness, let everything come to naught, precisely because of the understanding that life is nothing, so it will spend it, this age, do not know what will happen in the future? The first thing you need to do is to focus on the present moment and find happiness.
Mr. Hu.
My partner is the kind of person who loves to worry, she is busy worrying about a pair of children all her life, I feel very lonely, although I have a partner, but my partner puts all the time on the children, spent on the grandchildren, she does not have much time for me.
Because of the loneliness, that's why I thought of looking for a companion outside the marriage. There are some old ladies who like to dance in the square, and I usually chat with them quite happily in the square, and that's the happiest time of the day for me.
My partner never cared whether I was mentally lonely or not, she thought I was so old that I could take care of myself and never cared whether I needed her company or not, that's why I went outside to find other old ladies to play with.
Mr. Geng.I'm especially afraid of aging, afraid of becoming one of those useless, unloved old men, and the older I get the more I want to prove that I'm still attractive, still loved by people.
That's probably why I wanted to have an affair, because at home I don't get along with my wife, my children don't listen to me, and I'm not welcome in that house. The older I get, the more I'm afraid of being disliked, so that's why I want to find a woman who really loves me, and when I get older and older, there will be someone who wants to serve me at my bedside.
Conclusion: Some men, after 50 years old, begin to understand that they have to be good to their family, and begin to know that home is the most important thing in life. However, some men, although they have passed 50 years old, are still like a little child in mentality, don't know the sky and the earth, and keep wanting to destroy the harmony of the marriage, and keep on having affairs. Some other men are philandering because they don't get along with their wives at home, or they don't put much attention on him and he feels lonely. He wants someone outside the marriage who can keep him company.
The reasons for philandering vary from man to man. But since he is still in the marriage, he can't have an affair at will, or he will surely be condemned by morality. He is already in his 50s, and he still puts his family first. If you are not in harmony with your family, then communicate more with your family, if your wife does not have time to accompany yourself, then tell your wife that you need her company, do not be foolish to seek companionship outside of marriage, so that in the end you may only engage in a broken home.