What to do? Perhaps, the distant self to be much happier, he can tell me the answer.
(1)
Ximurong said, "I like to take the train, I like to go south or north slowly, and I like to be in the middle of the journey. Just because, in the middle of the journey, I can not belong to the starting point or the end point, do not belong to any place and anyone, in this separate moment, I only belong to myself." The time on the train, simple, calm, small anticipation, covering those past events. The long dark night, drowsy, when the dawn came, the sun hit my face and I couldn't open my eyes, I became lighter myself, and inside I was joyful, and I knew that this long trip was not a disappointment.
Dali get off, and big partners to meet, driving to the unknown mountain. The sky of Dali, cloudless, direct sunlight, running to 1,500 kilometers, there is a little unreal feeling. The first thing you need to do is to get a good deal of money from the government.
We stayed in the mountains for one night, the night in Yunnan is very charming, the sky is pure like washing, the stars are bright and bright, it is very quiet, a night without dream. We left for Lijiang late the next day. The scenery along the road was enchanting, but I was driving and didn't have the energy to enjoy it. After resting in a rest area, the car appeared to be faulty, could not start, many inquiries, only to be sure that the battery is bad, and seek help from strangers, the good people will eventually have a good reward, our car started. After thanking them, we got off the highway at a nearby exit and had to find a car repair store to change the battery. After a blind turn in an unknown town, change the battery, eat lunch, decided not to go on the highway, take the national highway.
Walking on the national highway to be a lot of unrestrained, I will be the upper body out of the sunroof, the wind blew my hair, feel like flying, this moment, easy and happy. Under the blue sky and the breeze, I met myself from afar, hello, I'm glad to know you.
The good times are not long, the national highway repair road, all the way bumpy, dusty, arrived in Lijiang has been dusk. Arrangements for good inn, in the boss's wife's recommendation, we reported the "Shangri-La two days and one night + Lijiang ancient love" group. Evening meal, the point is "red apricot wall + water sex poplar", partners clamor to go to the bar to have a sex. The taste of the food is general, after eating, wandering around the old town, clap the tambourine, touch the clothes, wear jewelry, and finally they sat down in the Blue Creek Bar, I went to the big ice alone in the hut, but full of people, a long queue, I turned back to the Blue Creek Bar, the bar to sit for an hour, it is very noisy, is not very much like it. The girls didn't get laid, and neither did I. It is said that Lijiang's love affairs are arranged by the bar owner, the love affairs of the capital, pure fiction.
(2)
Wake up at seven in the morning, wash, eat breakfast, with the group set off to Shangri-La. The tour guide is a Tibetan Zazhi, introduced Shangri-La, Tibetan folk customs and so on, but also tired of saying a whole lot of theory, we are also "tired of" sleepy listening.
After a simple lunch, arrived at the first scenic spot - Moonlight Plaza, it is said that this is the first place where the sun shines every day, there is also one of the world's largest bursary, together with seven, eight people pulled the bursary turned three times, blessing peace and good luck.
After coming to Shika Snow Mountain, a lot of people, the team is very long, take the cable car to the top of the mountain, the snow has basically melted, but the scenery is still very beautiful, the wind is very big, very cold, but also at this time, thoughts with the cold wind, drifting to the faraway places. Because of the cold, in the top of the mountain did not stay a long time, on the cable car down the mountain.
In the evening we came to the Tibetan family guests, eat Tibetan hot pot, drink barley wine, enjoy the Tibetan songs and dances, the host is very amusing, I laughed all night. Under the baptism of Tibetan culture and the hospitality of Tibetans, both stomach and heart are very satisfied.
After a day of running around, lying in bed, quickly fell asleep, just a dream, woke up, but how can not sleep, only sighed: "from now on, no heart to love a good night, let him under the bright moon in the west tower."
The next day's trip is quite boring, two shopping stores plus "cold" Tiger Leaping Gorge, with the group bad place to reflect the most. The next day's trip was quite boring, with two shopping centers and a "cold" Tiger Leaping Gorge, the worst part of being with a group.
Back to Lijiang, after eating the stinky pork ribs, I came to the hut of the big ice alone, after a short queue, then into the house. Maybe it is too deep in the poison of the big ice, on the hut, in the book, already know a lot, feel very familiar, although they are strangers, but inexplicably easy, poor, funny, just ten minutes, and the hut and the hut and mingled, and very honored, Kai sang two songs for me, a "come to see you across the ocean," a "hooligan," the base of the four shoots. After that, I went to the second floor, the place to share stories, most of them are talking about relationship matters, the interesting thing is that there was a knowing aunt sitting below, she answered everyone's confusion with the posture of a passer-by and the mentality of an old child, it was very warm and kind.
Among the many friends who shared, I was most impressed by a tall girl with big red lipstick. Before she opened her mouth, I judged by her appearance that this girl should be a lively, cheerful girl, and after she opened her mouth, my judgment was all wrong. She was so shy and whispered so softly that I didn't even catch her name, she just clouded her mind and told super heavy stories, she said, "I've been in Lijiang for more than ten days now, I haven't gone anywhere, every day I just come here to sit and listen to everyone's stories. I'm a simple person, I don't have too many stories and my feelings are not complicated. Not long ago, my boyfriend and my best friend got together, I don't hate him, nor do I hate my best friend, I still treat her as my best friend and often contact her. Really, my concept of love is very simple, if you like me, I will be with you, if you don't like it, I will leave, nothing. In a couple of days, I'm going home, thanks for the warmth the cabin brought me these days, I wish you all happiness." Then gently return to their own position, the audience on the stage is silent, know the aunty is no way out, the host round, sang a song, ease the atmosphere.
The next sharing continues, the girl with the big red lipstick sat for a short while and left, sad or not, happy or not, only her own most clear, the so-called empathy, pure bullshit, a lot of things, only to bear alone. I wish you happiness.
The next day in the inn leisure morning, the afternoon and partners played a few cards, three o'clock by car to see the "Lijiang Thousand Years of Love". A little bit of rain, but there are still a lot of people, outside the venue of the "Mosuo walking marriage", "Mufu recruiting" and other performances are very exciting. Not a moment later, the "ancient love" began, for the show, I'm just a layman, I only know shock, really worth a look, as for where the good, why is a lifetime must see the show, I can't say one or two or three, and even now, my memory for the "ancient love" has not been deep, really two hundred and fifty-five.
(C)
Lashihai one-day tour, there are fate, song, laughter, anticipation, regret.
Wake up at eight o'clock, because of the rain, the ticket refund, and canceled, arrived at the destination, the magical rain stopped, the first project is a horseback riding tour of the old tea-horse road.
Peer is an uncle and aunt, uncle is afraid, aunt but claimed to be a grassland woman. Auntie and uncle are very childish, lovely, all the way to sing songs with us, all the way to laughter. Noon dinner and chat, the more you chat the more fate, aunt called sheep Qin, her brother called sheep dragon, her daughter is 24 years old, 168cm, no boyfriend; I called Yang Yulong, sister called Yang Qin, I am 26 years old, 185cm, no girlfriend. Auntie said a lot of karma, but also said that this time to Lijiang, did not meet on the old man, but the future son-in-law.
The cruise returned, respectively, when the group photo to commemorate. I thought the aunt was just joking fun, I did not expect her to be a joke in three really, a few days later, she really will be her daughter's WeChat sent to me, it is very embarrassing, I have passed the age of that nonsense, God blowing Hukan, purely a person who will not make small talk, so it is a beautiful mistake, leaving some expectations and regrets, it is not bad.
(4)
Two days of Dali trip, a person, very enjoyable.
The big partners have gone home, I have to continue my travels, a person with the group soaked in the hot springs of Dali, sat on the big boat, tasted the three tea, strolling in the Nanzhao style island. Plug in headphones, leaning against the boat string, occasional drizzle, occasional sunshine pouring, occasional gusts of wind, seabirds playing on the lake, the inner surprisingly calm, threw away all the troubles, the rest is only good, there is a hint of sweet flavor, this is probably happiness. I think of a paragraph of Bai Lu Mei, "think who would like to do a leisurely person, pure and simple days, life and nothing else. There is a lot of time to spend in vain, without worrying about the watery years, the white head in a flash. Just this world, how many people can be sober self-possession, dare to bear the consumption of time, dare to accept the fate of the hasty change." I am not a sober person, such pure and simple days are not many, life is a practice, and I have just set off.
The day after, the same is not a pleasant day, overnight and two Shandong sister rushed to Lijiang, the next day with the group to Lugu Lake, two days and one night.
(E)
Lugu Lake, the daughter country, the last stop.
The tour guide did not say much, just a brief introduction to Lugu Lake, arrived at Lugu Lake, it is already two o'clock in the afternoon. Lugu Lake, the name is true, the beauty of the fairyland, we along the lake highway, walking and stopping, took a lot of pictures. One of the attractions, there is a large group of dirty, holding apples, green dates, wild mushrooms and other children, a child see me said: "brother, buy a little it, I'm about to start school, I have to earn money to read it." I gave him ten dollars and took a bag of apples. I didn't walk two steps, a little girl followed me and insisted that I buy her stuff too, she said, "Brother, you've bought his, not mine, it's not fair." I said, "I'm enough, I don't need any more, sorry haha." She didn't give up and continued her sales pitch, "Brother, you're so handsome, just buy one." I ignored her and kept walking, her mouth kept repeating, "Brother, you look so handsome, just buy one." Probably out of the twenty meters, I am not dizzy by her praise, but really annoyed, simply give her ten dollars, took a bag of green dates, sent her away.
The little girl just left, the two same group of Sichuan girls came up, learning the tone of the little girl, "brother, you're so handsome, you just buy one." Then laughed out loud, I was helpless. Find a place to sit down and chat with them, did not chat on a few sentences, and then over a group of children, let them buy their things, no way, I had to hand the apples and green jujubes divided into them to get out of the way.
Back to the car, I thought about, this should be the result of cultural lag, although the method is not right, but at least there are results, I sincerely hope that these children can study well, every day up, the future will be the pillars of the motherland.
Less than four o'clock, we arrived at the accommodation, put the luggage, take the pig trough boat tour Lugu Lake. As the saying goes, a hundred years to repair the same boat, a thousand years to repair the *** pillow sleep, friends from all over the world can enjoy the scenery on the same boat lake, fate must be not shallow, singing and laughing, and Lugu Lake into one, harmonious and beautiful.
Returning from the lake, afternoon tea time, the guide brother prepared the Lugu Lake men's wine, women's wine, roast chicken, unknown bread, buckwheat tea, etc., we hand-tear roast chicken, eat a lot of fun. Rest for an hour, to the dinner time, dishes are very rich, Mosuo hospitality, can be seen.
After dinner, the Mosuo people's bonfire party. Mosuo people practiced walking marriage, men do not marry, women do not marry, in the evening during the dance, there is a fancy of the opposite sex on the buckle each other's palms, the other party responded, the night you can turn over the window to go to the wedding. Mosuo people lit a bonfire, dancing two dances, singing two songs, invited all around the bonfire, hand in hand dance, began to buckle heart cackle. I guess no one dares to buckle it, at least I don't dare, and was not buckled, but the heart is still a little bit afraid, and a little bit of anticipation. Sure enough, after the end, the host asked, no one raised their hands to indicate that they have deducted the heart of the hand, and then the host invited a male guest, a female guest to sing, can not be spared, I was with the group of three Guangdong sister, two Shandong sister pushed up, there is no way, but also have to sing to a Mosuo girl, I took the microphone to a beautiful Mosuo sister sang a song, "Two Tigers", she was very coy, smiling faintly at me. She was very shy and smiled at me. Just after I finished singing, a group of Mosuo girls surrounded me, lifted me up and threw me into the sky, and after two throws, they took off my right shoe, threw it on the ground, and kicked me twice. I was extremely complex, there is inexplicable, there is fear, there is happy, and finally the host said that the slippers are a sign of welcome, do not allow me to leave the meaning, and joked that I walk tonight is sure to be successful. I have neither that colorful heart, nor that colorful courage, quietly left.
The next day continue to travel along the lakeshore highway, from Yunnan across to Sichuan, the grass sea as the end of the trip, Lugu Lake is over, but also said that my trip to Yunnan is over.
(F)
The sixteenth went out, the twenty-eighth returned home, if not a long trip, how will I understand the far away every strange and beautiful life trajectory, at the same time, they are waiting for me, waiting for me to pass by the identity of the guest, appeared on a certain day, a certain place. Finally, borrowing Xu Zhimo's "Shayanara", to end this faraway trip.
Most of all, it is the tenderness of that bowed head,
like the shyness of a water lotus flower that does not win the cool wind,
Say goodbye, say goodbye,
There is sweet sorrow in that goodbye -
Shayanara!