This is to be analyzed on a case-by-case basis, is to accompany the elderly or gnawing on the old in fact with the living conditions of the elderly and the actual living conditions related to the economic, the family is difficult to distinguish so clearly. Accompany the elderly, this is a good thing to do filial piety, after all, young people are now busy working, want to accompany the elderly is a very difficult thing, if you can be willing to live with the elderly, this is obviously a good thing, but the premise is that you need to have an economic source of, rather than not work, not work, and let the old man go to support the family's spending. If you do not have economic resources, with children in the parents' home to dabble in food and drink is to chew the old, home conditions are better, parents have retired, there are enough savings and pensions, can easily support the entire family's daily expenses okay, more affection than money is more important, they will also be very welcome to be together, the old man's greatest fear of loneliness, there are children and grandchildren's children's companionship of course, for their twilight years is an The company of children and grandchildren is of course an invaluable asset for them in their old age. However, if they have no stable financial resources, but also rely on hard work, to earn money to support the family, you are there with children to eat and drink, this is too much, it is very clear that very shameless nibbling behavior.
Another point is to see, parents need your company, some elderly will plan their own life, dancing ah, a park morning market what, have a very healthy and positive mindset, you take the children to let them take care of, to take up their free time, it is not good, this is not called companionship, although it is not gnawing on the old man, but ultimately it is also not advocated.
Case by case analysis, I think the young people, or their own children to raise their own, occasionally you can let the old man to help bring, they will be very happy, very happy, but long-term stay in the parents, the accompaniment will also become a burden.