What does your ideal husband look like? Is he handsome? Mature and stable? Or is it just a lot of money? Some people say in jest that marrying well is like celebrating Valentine's Day every day, and marrying badly is like going to jail every day. Wang Guozhen in the "married to happiness" wrote such a Hu: to lose to the pursuit, to marry to marry happiness. Married to a capable man, married to be a queen, married to a man who is not capable, married to be a maid. Is this really true? A mother told her daughter, do not marry three kinds of incompetent men, look around the real cases to understand.
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"Daughter ah, you are also older, but also to the age of marriage, although you are older, independent life, but also have their own ideas and style of doing things, but mom is still very worried about you, after all, now there are too many scum in the community, the slightest mistake, will be cheated, mom does not want you to get hurt. As the saying goes, men are afraid of getting into the wrong line of work, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man. Women married the wrong person, is a great misfortune, mom would like to give you some advice, the following three kinds of incompetent men, you must not marry. Because they are real cases around me, I hope you can learn a lesson from the bloody reality.
Don't marry a man who doesn't want to get ahead
Don't marry a man who doesn't want to get ahead, your cousin's experience is right in front of your eyes, a lesson learned from the past, and mom doesn't want you to be with a man who doesn't want to get ahead. Your cousin how good a girl, good-looking, education is also high, but just did not marry well, now the marriage is not happy at all. It's because her husband is just too lazy and simply doesn't want to get ahead.
He and your cousin married for three years, the work is every now and then change, three days fish two days sun net, want to go to work on the go, the mood is bad, do not go. Your cousin in order to his work, begging grandpa and grandma, to find him a good job, but he himself do not cherish, often absent without reason, and finally dismissed by the company, your sister met such a man, but it is said to be down eight lifetimes of bad luck ah. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty and get out of the way, and then you'll be able to get out of the way and get out of the way.
Don't marry a man who avoids responsibility
Don't marry a man who avoids responsibility. The daughter of my neighbor, Auntie Wang's family, was pregnant out of wedlock, and the man ran away because he didn't want to take the responsibility. At that time they were both engaged ah, you say this is what happened, Wang Aunt's daughter, all day long to cry with a tearful person like, this relationship, she paid the true love, but get is ruthless and unsympathetic. Not only did the loss of love bring her pain, unmarried pregnancy, but also let their family, outside to lift up their heads.
On several occasions, I have heard other neighbors on the road talking about Wang's daughter, and the words are full of ridicule. I especially sympathize with Wang, who hasn't been out dancing for months. So ah, mom does not want you to meet such an irresponsible man, meet the man to avoid responsibility, far away, not to mention the relationship with him, mom is determined not to allow you and such a man to marry.
Don't marry a man who says more than he does
The last kind of man is the one who says more than he does and does less. When your neighbor and classmate Lily brought home a boyfriend, her mother refused to let them get together because she could see that the young man was a good talker but refused to get down to earth. He talked so eloquently in front of Lili's mom about his future plans that she thought the young man had a clear plan for his future.
In the end, the planning he said to Lily's mom, a year has passed, which a few of them are done? Such an over-ambitious character is bound to suffer sooner or later. The mother doesn't want her daughter to be rich and famous, and she doesn't want Lily to marry into a rich family, she just wants Lily to find a man who loves each other.
In fact, I think the same as Lily's mom, I hope you can find a man you love, love you, and can be down-to-earth, bring you happiness, this is not too much to ask, right? So, mom's idea is that she would rather find a man who is quiet, but strong in action, than a man who can talk a lot and is a fake who only talks but doesn't do anything.
This is the advice that mom gives you, mom hopes that you can find a good home, but some men can not be married, married over nine times out of ten is not to enjoy the blessings, but to suffer, especially the above three kinds of incapable men, do not marry. "