In fact, it is easy to have the illusion of love, at least one of two people will.
Sometimes, between the opposite sex, it is a long talk, which may make people think it is love. After all, chatting is a kind of heart-to-heart communication.
The longer two people talk, the more frequently they talk, and the easier it is for people to be tempted.
In reality, most of the opposite sex, from familiarity to liking, have to go through a process of frequent chatting, even sleepless, and the more they talk, the more energetic they are.
But those who have nothing to say are the terminator of love illusion, and they hit the reality with a stick.
First: appreciate each other.
. Frequent chatting between the opposite sex can easily make people feel mutual appreciation.
When two people talk, they both feel that the other person knows them best.
Whatever we talk about, we can talk together. Two people are like telepathy, a magical existence.
For example, what the other person said can be said in his heart, and it feels more effective than divination. What you want to express, the other party can fully understand it as soon as you listen, and even speak it better than you think.
Just like constellation collocation, you will feel that two people are made for each other.
Although, two people will not say anything on the surface.
But I will have an illusion from my heart that I have begun to like each other.
Second: like-minded.
As the old saying goes, we should not share the same sky.
In the communication between the opposite sex, if two people can talk enthusiastically and deeply,
Then it feels like meeting like-minded people. As heroes think, so thought Bruce.
For example, two people have the same understanding of a certain thing, a certain job and a certain field, and they have a deep bottom.
In this way, it is easy to close the intimate relationship between them, full of worship, appreciation and attraction.
Chatting so frequently can actually give people the illusion of love.
Even the thought of being with each other will bring joy and happiness to my face.
Therefore, between the opposite sex, if you don't like it, you must avoid frequent chatting, which is easy to cause misunderstanding.
Third: meet and hate each other late.
In the relationship between men and women, the reason why the opposite sex often chats is actually that there will be a feeling of reunion after a long separation.
To put it bluntly, I really want to get to know you soon.
In fact, this line has appeared in many TV dramas: "If only I could get to know you earlier."
Therefore, it is very subtle to get along with the opposite sex. Because we meet late, we often chat.
Because I often chat, I sigh and hate being late for meetings.
In short, no matter what kind of causal relationship, it will give people a hint that they have the illusion of love for each other.
Either they think they like each other or they think they like themselves.