After returning home, the things that elders are most concerned about are: how much money they make a month now, whether they have a girlfriend, and when they plan to get married.
And at this time I am most concerned about when I can go back to work and when this group of elders will leave.
The reason why chatting with elders is awkward is because we value different issues. A month ago, I went home to attend my uncle's brother's wedding, and all the elders were discussing things about the wedding, giving some ideas, and I watched TV next door, and at this time, one of my uncles asked me to go over and said: you're not too young to listen to the guys talking about marriage, and anyway, by the time you're done you'll be able to use it! I ...... I haven't got a date yet lol.
This is embarrassing!
How do you diffuse the awkwardness?
It is very simple, go along with the elders to say is it, so then it will not be awkward, only you feel good just, if you do not want to be like this, but also simple, take the initiative a little bit, change the topic, or a little bit stronger, tell them that now is not the old days, your idea is the most important.
It's easier to go along with what's being said, what he's saying and you're just going along with it, but of course it's still awkward, and for the most part, this approach is better suited to people with higher emotional intelligence.
Transferring the topic, this will need skills, people are asking you how much money you earn a month, you ask people how many points their children test, not polite, so find an opportunity to shift the relationship between the elders of your problems but things that have nothing to do with you.
Stronger this is more difficult, for example, elders feel that early marriage is good, you feel that late marriage is good, then you cite the arguments arguments to answer on it, usually the elders is to say that you can't say, and finally they will let you think about your parents, don't ask me how I know.
There is also an awkward thing, that is, and elders together do not speak, this time is also simple, you start talking to ask the other family child achievement it.