01.
In this era where feelings are consumed like fast food, it seems that starting from one and ending with one person for a lifetime has become a luxury.
Many people, because of a moment of heart, they chose to enter into a marriage with a person who does not understand, and because of a moment of impulse, the marriage is divorced, and some even lived most of their lives, said that the separation of the separation of the separation of the past, do not even miss the past.
Although, some people and the other half divorced, but also has lived most of the life, and then find a seems to be a waste of time and energy, not as good as a person to live free.
But, in reality, there are still a lot of men who, after a divorce, decide to remarry.
Of course, I've never advocated extreme singlism, nor do I look favorably on talking about relationships just because you've been hurt, but there's always a reason behind these phenomena why they happen.
In the end, people to the middle age, but also resolutely choose to divorce, mostly because the days really can not go on, if there is still a glimmer of hope to persist, I believe that men will not choose to divorce.
There is a very interesting social phenomenon, a lot of men have passed the age of fifty, even in the first marriage in the scars, will still defy the choice of remarriage.
So what exactly is the purpose of remarriage for such a man?
02.
Life has been lived most of the time, why after divorce, some men still need to find some burden for themselves and choose to walk into marriage with a woman once again?
Different people have different reasons, I interviewed some divorced middle-aged readers, these three men told the truth:
Xu Shiqiang, 53 years old, the company's president: I remarried for the reason is actually very simple, as a more successful man, there is no woman around to accompany, it seems that there is always no face, so immediately after the divorce, I looked for a woman younger than me twenty years old again.
In fact, I don't really like this current wife, on the contrary, she is much younger than me because of her age, a lot of times can't talk together, and also more willful, and not as virtuous as my ex-wife.
But I'm a man, and I've made some accomplishments, and it's a shame that I can't find a new woman after the divorce.
The company will often organize a lot of cocktail parties, other bosses, will join their wives to participate in, I own a bare-knuckle commander, not inevitably face some can't hang.
While some leaders will bring their own secretaries to the reception, but I think that is not the trend, than with a secretary, I prefer to remarry with a wife over.
There are also rumors in financial circles that a man with a family gives people a sense of trust, and that having a stable family and a wife with a good image will help me maintain a good image in the company, which will be conducive to work.
So, when I was fifty-two, I remarried a woman much younger than me.
Wang Chengyong, 61, a retired state-owned enterprise employee: When I got married, it was an arranged marriage, and I didn't have much affection for my ex-wife, although we lived a long time, but our personalities were not the same and we didn't stick around.
Until I met my current wife, I tasted the flavor of love, I remarried, completely for love.
My current wife, although she is also in her fifties, she is particularly lively and has a personality like a little girl, which I find very cute.
At that time, she was dancing in the square dance, she danced very well, I watched for a long time, she looked at me to observe her for a long time, after the dance came over to take the initiative to greet me. After that, we would often go out on dates together, and I knew she was single.
Later I really can not suppress the feelings of the heart, such a good a woman, I feel can not miss, I want to give her a complete home, love her well.
Now, I think what I did at that time is really very right, although the divorce with his ex-wife is a bit hurtful, everyone around me scolded me, but I think it's worth it.
After getting married to my current wife, we lived a very loving life, and it was a complete success, and I never regretted my decision.
Li Bin, 57 years old, supermarket owner: I was divorced when I was forty-seven years old, after the divorce, I feel very uncomfortable, a person feels very lonely, would like to have a woman to warm the heart.
I was actually a bit chauvinistic, thinking that women should do the housework. So after the divorce, my housework these completely unable to handle, often point takeout, clothes with a washing machine to wash several pieces of bad, life is a mess. I'm not sure how much I'm going to be able to do this, but I'm sure I'll be able to do it, and I'm sure I'll be able to do it.
In my friend's hand, I met my current wife, she is very capable, know people do not not praise.
After we got married, I found that she was indeed as capable as others said, she cleaned up things well at home and made delicious home-cooked food.
Now, I have a woman in my life, much more fulfilling, and no loneliness, I remarried in my fifties, just want to have a companion for the rest of my life, otherwise it would be too poor to be alone.
03.
Over the age of fifty, men remarried purpose, these three men also said, perhaps to maintain a polished image, re-found a young woman, perhaps because of true love, in old age to open a twilight love, perhaps because of loneliness, looking for someone to live the rest of their lives.
But no matter what, remarrying in your fifties is not something to be ashamed of, and there is no need to hide it. However, remarrying in your fifties comes with responsibilities, not just to find someone to take care of your life.
Men who remarry in their fifties also need to give their sincerity and enthusiasm, and since they have chosen to remarry, they need to treat the relationship well and cherish the woman who is by their side.
So, as long as you meet the right person, no matter whether it is fifty or eighty years old, you always have to be brave and pursue your own happiness.