The hospital is like a mirror that shines a light on all the people in the world, because the second baby was hospitalized for seven days with pneumonia, and I witnessed the joys and sorrows that happened in the pediatric ward in this short period of seven days.
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In the middle of the night on Friday, the 6-year-old eldest child suddenly vomited and had diarrhea, and the second child, who had just turned 3 months old, had a little cough, and his little mouth kept spitting out bubbles like a goldfish.
Early Saturday morning, my husband and I took the two children straight to the hospital. The pediatrician examined and said that the big baby is suspected of gastrointestinal flu, need to do ultrasound on an empty stomach for further diagnosis, the second baby after taking chest X-ray diagnosed as pneumonia, heart some enlargement, need to be hospitalized as soon as possible. Because before coming to the big baby has eaten breakfast, ultrasound can only wait until tomorrow to do, the hospital's pediatric ward bed tension, to wait until tomorrow to live on the hospital.
Early Sunday morning, our family of four came to the hospital again. My husband took the big baby to the outpatient building to do ultrasound, and I took the second baby to the inpatient department. As a result, there were still no empty beds in the pediatrics department, so I could only carry the second baby to the outpatient floor to wait for my husband. The results of the ultrasound of the big baby show that the mesenteric area is enlarged lymph nodes, looking very scary, my heart lifted up, the outpatient doctor told us that this is caused by the cold, go home and take some cold medicine and anti-inflammatory drugs can be good.
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On Monday morning, we arrived at the hospital at less than eight o'clock, and the pediatrics department finally had a spare bed. I'm not sure if I've ever been in a hospital before, but I'm sure I've never been in a hospital before, and I'm sure I've never been in a hospital before. After the successful hospitalization, the family made a simple division of labor, my husband and I are responsible for accompanying in the hospital, grandma is responsible for cooking at home, grandpa is responsible for morning and evening to and from the kindergarten, to the hospital to send food. Without the help of the elderly, it's impossible to imagine how life would work.
There are three beds in the ward***, No. 30 to No. 32. 30 bed of the patient number is a just one year old Hui ethnic minority boy, name is Longlong. The round face, long eyelashes, a pair of bright crystal eyes flashing flashing, extraordinarily love, Long Long's parents together with the escort.
As soon as I entered the door of the ward, I noticed that Longlong was holding a toy drum in his hand, and I thought to myself, "In a ward of three, I bought a drum for my child to play, so I'm not afraid of disturbing others.
The girl in bed 32 was about ten years old, wearing a pink sports suit and a bobbed head, and was bored in bed, looking around. The girl's mother is on the other side of the bed, constantly answering the phone, talking about some work things.
The girl's mother finished the phone call and talked to me, said the girl on the fifth grade, was not very good at school, the lymphatic inflammation hospitalized for seven days, the doctor let go home to recuperate for four or five days before going to school. The company's main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers," he said. "The company's main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers," he said.
The girl's happy voice on the side of the whispering "Yeah, no school, great ah, can still play at home for a few days", her mother said in anger, "really heartless, I'm worried about the death, you see she is still happy to be free!
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Because the child is small, the daily anti-inflammatory drugs need to be divided into three infusions, at 10:00 a.m., 5:00 p.m., and 12:00 p.m. each. Although the hospital is only a twenty-five minute drive from home, the weather is cold in the morning and evening on the plateau, and I'm afraid that the second baby will be blown cold on the road again, so I discussed with my husband that he would not go home from the hospital at night.
The girl on the 32nd bed went home first after each shot, and then returned to the hospital for another shot at the right time. The girl's mother told me that she could rest in their bed at night.
In the afternoon the ward was left with just us and the Longlong family, one-year-old Longlong is also pneumonia, eight days in the hospital treatment, pneumonia has improved, the day before the start of non-stop diarrhea, the doctor said it is a breast milk intolerance, so stop feeding a few days of breast milk. But the buyer of the millet porridge Longlong does not like to eat, and always make a fuss, Longlong mother has no choice but to continue to breastfeed.
In the past, I've seen a lot of male chauvinists in the Hui ethnic group, but I don't think it's very obvious that he's not a chauvinist, because he's a good cook, he's a great cook, and he's a very good doctor.
Longlong is their third child, Longlong's mother said that the front has a girl and a boy, but Longlong's father insisted on another one. I can see that Longlong father is very spoiled this child, the child cried and rushed to take out a small drum to beat, or hand over the cell phone, medicine box, and so on. The dragon people small temperament can not be small, a moment of screaming, a moment in the hands of the things hard to throw the ground, my second baby every time I just fell asleep on the startled jumping and jumping.
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After the 12:00 pm injection, I hugged my son and fell asleep on the small hospital bed. I was sleeping soundly when I was suddenly woken up by a sharp cry, my son was grunting and not sleeping soundly, I hurriedly patted him gently and he quieted down again. The first thing I did was to turn on the light above our heads, and the bright light was particularly blinding.
I asked what was wrong, and Longlong's mom said that Longlong had a fever, and they were putting a towel on Longlong's forehead.
There are three lights in the ward***, and the one at the door is bright enough to illuminate 30 beds. I suggested that they turn on that light and turn off the one above our heads, but Longlong's father didn't hear him, and Longlong's mother was embarrassed to get out of bed and turn off the light.
In the Dragon screaming and crying, I stayed up until dawn in a daze.
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Early the next morning, the girl in bed 32 was discharged. Just after eleven o'clock, Xinxin, a nine-month-old girl, was admitted.
Xinxin mom and grandmother sitting on the bedside, laughing and discussing what to buy at noon to eat, I initially thought it was the mother and father.
Xinxin's family in the city two hours away from the village, Xinxin grandmother said she was afraid of the county no good doctor, and daughter-in-law came to the provincial hospital. The family is in the countryside, but the family's land has been returned to the forest, no land can be planted, grandparents in the vicinity of the short-term jobs, dad in another county to work, Xin Xin mother at home with children, grandmother took the time to be responsible for cooking and housework.
Because of the rush, did not bring hospital things, Xinxin grandmother called his daughter, let her go home to pack Xinxin's clothes, bedding to the hospital. The first time I saw this, I was in the middle of a long journey, and it was a long time ago that I was in the middle of a long journey, and it was a long time ago that I was in the middle of a long journey, and it was a long time ago that I was in the middle of a long journey. A large family gathered around Xinxin to see and ask questions, very lively.
It is said that people in rural areas have feudalistic ideas and emphasize the importance of sons over daughters, but in Xinxin's family, there is no such thing. Grandparents and aunts love their only granddaughter, and I am very happy to see them.
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At eleven o'clock in the evening, the ward lights off, the babies are quiet asleep,
twelve o'clock, the nurse came to play the injection, hospitalized on the day of the children are playing the cannula, do not need to tie the needle again, as long as the infusion tube with the cannula connected to the can be, we hit the cell phone flashlight to let the nurses to give my son to infuse the liquid.
Longlong father can not care about three seven and twenty-first, pop and turn on all the lights above our heads. The nurse finished giving Longlong fluids, I suggested that he turn off the lights, he said can not be turned off, we need to see how much medicine is still infused, I said that the light at the door can be seen, Longlong father rushed to me and said, "Do you think this is your home?"
I was a little angry and asked him, "Is this your home?
I was a little angry and asked him, "Is this your house? You're not the only child in the hospital room, so consider the feelings of others.
Long Long's mom told him to stop arguing and turn off the lights, and Long Long's dad didn't care.
My husband whispered, "Okay, okay, you can bear it, we will go home to sleep, in the hospital rest is not good".
The second baby finished his IV and we took him home.
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The next morning came to the hospital again, Xinxin grandmother told me, last night Longlong noisy all night, they did not close their eyes all night.
Fortunately, after the doctor's checkup at 9:00 am, Longlong's pneumonia was no longer a problem, and they were allowed to check out of the hospital.
Longlong father packed all the things, before leaving the 30 bed sheets spread neatly, will be half of the quilt folded up rules into the bed under the sheet, just like the nurse did when admitted to the hospital. But he didn't know that after they were discharged from the hospital, new patients would be admitted, and the sheets and covers would all have to be changed again.
My husband whispered to me, "He's an honest man. Who do you see discharged from the hospital with their bedding so neatly organized?"
I didn't make a sound, thinking, "Humph, you can't help it if the honest people are not reasonable!"
At ten o'clock, Xinxin's father came to the hospital and said that he had taken a few days off from work to take care of his daughter, so that Xinxin's grandmother could go home. Xinxin mom and dad are 90, Xinxin mom like shopping, buy snacks, every day to take the time to go around, Xinxin dad to take care of his daughter patiently and thoughtful, a moment to feed the child, a moment to make the child giggle.
Once, Xinxin dad went out to buy breakfast, Xinxin accidentally fell from the hospital bed, Xinxin mom heartbroken hugged her daughter and cried. The first time I saw this was when I was on duty, and I saw the nurse on duty, and I blamed her for not taking care of her. When Xinxin's father came back, Xinxin was already sitting happily on the bed and laughing. Xinxin's mother told her father about Xinxin's fall from the bed, and Xinxin's father just said, "You're right." And that was the end of it.
I look at Xinxin mom blamed the appearance of the joked "small Xinxin ah, you fell a little cry after all right, now happy smile, you see your mother is still sad tears it! Xinxin seem to understand the look at me laugh.
Later, Xinxin's father went to work, Xinxin's grandmother came to the hospital to take over the son, she told me that although she has two daughters and a son, but she never spoiled the son, the son knows how to take care of his sister since childhood, and at home, laundry and cooking, and even will be steamed buns. The first thing I've learned is that I'm not a big fan of the idea of a new generation of people, but I'm a big fan of the idea of a new generation of people.
I secretly give Xinxin a thumbs up, really smart mom, than those who raised the mother's baby boy's mom many times better. The first thing that you need to do is to get your child to be able to do the right thing, so that he or she will be able to do the right thing, and that's why you need to do the right thing.
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The hospital beds will never be empty, this is not, Longlong has just been discharged from the hospital, the nurse in charge of the replacement of 30 beds of bedding, said a new patient to live in.
Subsequently, a group of people clustered around a four or five year old little girl into the ward, a black skinny old man, a white fat old man, a black fat old woman, a pair of thirty-four or thirty-five year old young man and woman. I observed from the side, the young ones should be the girl's parents, and the three old men don't know what their relationship is.
A doctor came in to ask the child's situation, the girl's mother and the fat black old woman sitting on the edge of the bed, one side of a holding the child's hand to answer the doctor's question. The child's father stood far to the side with a black face, his hands clasped in front of his chest, leaning against the wall without saying a word.
The black and thin old man stood sideways in front of the window of the ward, listening carefully to the doctor's words, and the white and fat old man stood behind the doctor muttering "not moving to get sick, the medicine does not work."
After the doctor's consultation, he went out to prescribe medication and placed an order, and the fat old woman went out to buy breakfast, and the fat old man slipped away to where. Until the old woman sold breakfast back, the girl's father is still leaning against the wall did not say a word, I heart straight muttered "This father looks strange, as if an outsider.
The old woman bought breakfast millet rice, doughnuts, and noodles, looking very rich, but the little girl is a little picky about food, eat two mouthfuls will not eat, too thin rice is not good, think the flavor of the noodles strange.
The girl's mother and the old woman on the side of the patient persuasion, the little girl more and more picky powerful "I do not want to eat anything well, do not eat, no I love to eat", the old man of the black and thin three steps and two steps from the window to the front of the 30 beds, waving a big hand to the little girl two slaps, hoarse voice roar! "Why are you so hard to serve, eat well and stop it again! A moment but also injections, do not eat can?"
The little girl wow began to cry, the black and thin old man stood on the side glaring at her, the little girl and lowered her head to a small sob, nosy me a little bit can not stand to see, I thought the old man how this ah, the child is sick, poor appetite is normal ah, hurry to say, "children are the same, my child is also more picky eaters, when you are sick, it is even more do not want to eat.
This is the first time I've ever seen a woman in a room like this.
The old woman smiled at me and echoed, "Yes, our family Rui Rui usually especially good, sick and uncomfortable do not like to eat.
After making a fuss for a while, I don't know when Rui Rui's father left, and the fat white old man didn't show up again, and the thin black old man left after lunch.
The old woman told me that she and the black and thin old man is Rui Rui's grandma and grandpa, the fat old man is grandfather, son-in-law went to work, today she and her daughter in the hospital to take care of granddaughter. Their home in the city forty minutes away from the town, she and the old man contracted two mountains of green, these two days hired more than twenty people are busy planting trees, heard the granddaughter is sick, and hurriedly threw down the work to take care of.
Rui Rui's mother has a bit of a cold, looks listless, has been and Rui Rui lying in bed to rest, we chat when she does not insert a word, only to hear Rui Rui and mom's coughing.
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The next morning, the resident doctor came to check in and asked about Rui Rui's condition, and Rui Rui's mom answered from the side.
"How long has the child been coughing?"
"It's been coughing for two weeks."
"Where was he seen before and what medication did he take?"
"Have not seen, has been at home to take the medicine, there are cold granules, cephalosporin, cough granules and so on, is his father's own prescription."
"Is the child's father a doctor?"
"No, he looked it up himself on the Internet."
? The doctor sighed after the question and said that the pneumonia was more serious and that he would have to be hospitalized for four or five days.
Rui Rui's mom only took a day off yesterday, and went to work in the morning, Rui Rui's maternal grandfather hitchhiked over to pick up his daughter's shift.
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After Rui Rui's mom left, Rui Rui's grandma told me that Rui Rui's grandma passed away a long time ago, and Rui Rui has been with her since she was born, and she lives and breathes in her grandma's house. Now Rui Rui on the kindergarten, back to the city of their own home, by the grandfather pick up and drop off, her grandfather is not very happy, too much granddaughter tied to their own restriction of their freedom.
Yesterday morning before coming to the hospital, there was a fight at home. Rui Rui mom to go to the hospital, Rui Rui father and grandfather afraid to spend money. Rui Rui mom went to the bank to withdraw six thousand dollars, went home and said to go to the hospital, Rui Rui grandfather lost his temper, said a small cold there is no need to go to the hospital, smacked Rui Rui mom even a breakfast is not allowed to let him eat well finished.
Rui Rui mom said to eat two weeks of medicine the more coughing the more powerful to go to the hospital to see a good rest assured, Rui Rui grandpa even said, "coughing blood to come? The Rui Rui mom had no choice but to call her parents and let them come over to help take care of it.
A chat familiar, the old man also began to talk, he told us, Rui Rui mom graduated from undergraduate school, now working in the post office, but the daughter does not like the current work, in preparation for the teacher's exam. When he was high, he wanted to let his daughter into the government or institutions, and now the job is he spent eighty thousand trustees for his daughter, daughter's salary is the best time to get seven or eight thousand. The daughter in the son-in-law's family has no status at all, son-in-law domestic violence, often scold Rui Rui mom.
Rui Rui's grandmother went on to say that the family's ugly not to be known, the old man can not control their own mouths, these bitter she never gave the outsiders say, for fear of other people's jokes. The family is not looking at Rui Rui mother, son-in-law feel that Rui Rui mother is not worthy of their own, not only marital infidelity, but also domestic violence. She has always felt that her son-in-law grew up without a mother is very poor, New Year's festivals to do anything to take into account the son-in-law's family, son-in-law went to her home are eating and taking.
Originally the son-in-law's family conditions are very poor, and Rui Rui mom married days slowly better, bought a house, brother graduated from the university successfully employed. Rui Rui grandfather everywhere to see Rui Rui mom is not good, the family guests, Rui Rui mom to pour tea, grandfather in front of the guests satirized Rui Rui mom even a tea are not good. The first two times, Rui Rui mother was Rui Rui father beaten to the hospital.
I listened to the very angry, asked her "your daughter has her own job, can support themselves and Rui Rui, such a man why not divorce?
Rui Rui grandma said, "My daughter also has the idea of divorce, but I said that divorce is too embarrassing, so that others say that the son-in-law's family do not want my daughter, we are not ashamed to go out.
I persuaded her that times are different, as long as they are happy and happy, it does not matter what others say.
Rui Rui grandfather spoke on the side of the "I have figured out, and so on, I next see is my girl's body, wait for Rui Rui discharged from the hospital, let her daughter to go to the divorce."
I agree with the old man, said he is a man of understanding. 32 bed Xinxin's mother and grandmother also advised Rui Rui maternal grandmother, do not let this kind of son-in-law to delay the daughter, her life is still long.
Xinxin's mom said, "Although I don't have a job, I wouldn't hesitate to divorce if I met such a person, not to mention that your daughter has a good job and is not a bad person."
Xinxin's grandmother said, "That's right, now in the countryside, this kind of man is no one wants."
Rui Rui grandfather said that once discharged from the hospital, let her daughter go to the court for divorce.
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It was not until the fourth day of Rui Rui's hospitalization that Rui Rui's father appeared in the hospital for the second time, and it was more than five o'clock in the afternoon when he entered the room.
I secretly observed this wife's family said scum. About thirty-five-six years old, tall about one meter seventy-eight, square face, thrown into the pile of people is very ordinary a man, I do not know where his fanatic confidence comes from, able to be so arrogant to bully their own children's own mother.
He sat on the bed and looked at Rui Rui, asked Rui Rui what she wanted to eat, Rui Rui said nothing to eat, noodles do not want to eat, rice do not want to eat. Rui Rui asked him, "Dad, you live in the hospital tonight? These days mom and grandma are staying at the hospital."
Rui Rui's father said "I do not live in the hospital, I have to go home."
Rui Rui pouted, Rui Rui dad asked "I live in the hospital, you eat well?"
Rui Rui didn't answer her and let her dad play games with her. At this time, Rui Rui mom came in from work, as soon as she entered the door, she said to her husband, "Tonight, you will be in the hospital to guard!
Rui Rui's dad replied dryly "I'm not watching!"
Rui Rui's mother was a little angry, "Why don't you stay, why don't you stay when your daughter is in the hospital?
Rui Rui's father got up and walked out the door, Rui Rui's mother furiously chased out and shouted "Why can't you guard, why can't you guard?
"This is in the hospital it, do not quarrel, other people see will laugh!" Rui Rui grandma hurriedly Rui Rui mom pulled back, I and Xinxin grandma also in the side to persuade her, do not keep on not keep it, since count on not count on, do not count on, for this kind of thing angry row, Rui Rui mom on the side of the red eyes and wipe the tears.
Until we were discharged from the hospital two days later, Rui Rui Dad did not appear again.
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My two children and Xinxin were discharged on the same day, and when we went downstairs, Xinxin's mother and Xinxin's grandmother were happily waiting for their grandfather to come to the hospital to take them home, while Rui Rui still needs to continue treatment.
A month after returning home, I tweeted to Rui Rui's grandma and asked how Rui Rui was doing, and Rui Rui's grandma said she had recovered, and I asked her daughter how she was doing, and she said that her daughter had brought her granddaughter and son-in-law back home, and that the child was still small, and that it was all for the sake of the child.
In front of life, everyone has their own choices, we are not in the middle of it, can not make choices for others, but I hope that Rui Rui and her family all well.
In the face of life, everyone has their own choices.