The answer is obvious: that person only wants to get something for nothing, is lazy, and has a thick skin, and you are willing to lend him money, so you have become his regular debtor. I have a relative is such a person, really want to count up these years, he in all the relatives and friends of the body "borrow" money, should have more than a hundred thousand it. He never down-to-earth, day and night thinking of pie in the sky, tomorrow he can be the boss, tomorrow he can develop, one day he can even afford a set of houses in Beijing, his daydreams in particular, but the reality of his poor ringing.
He originally had a peaceful and beautiful family, a pair of children, his wife is more in the shopping mall, business is doing a good job. He is also responsible for helping to play a hand, gradually he wanted to get rich overnight, his wife gave him the take money, he took to gambling, lost and said he was robbed.
One or two times the constant staging of this routine, paper can not wrap the fire, finally one day he was recognized for this viciousness, he also a variety of sophistry for the good of the family. But this time he is also deep in the quagmire of gambling can not extricate themselves, has developed to the debt, loan sharks are going to chase him to the point of death. His wife in order to help him pay off the debt, the house also bought, he did not know repentance had to divorce. I thought the divorce hammer could make him wake up, but in fact, he not only do not wake up, whimsical day is living a hair out of control.
Brothers and sisters in the brotherhood of love, when he asked to borrow money, all lent him. He was even more worry-free, daydreaming every day, all over the world to say to examine the excuse to borrow and borrow. He felt that all the people lend money to him is natural, he anyway, "good people" will always be willing to lend him. In the past ten years, he said he borrowed away from the account, that is, there is a drag dance to return to the state.
In his eyes, he knew who would lend to him, who would not lend to him, he could always borrow money. Then he would not be afraid of being starved to death, and he would not have to worry about running out of money to spend, and he got used to borrowing.?
In his perception is that, moving his mouth to have money in the account, then he does not have to go to waste physical strength to earn money. Every month regularly borrowed a few thousand dollars from several people, more than those who worked hard.
He never thinks it's embarrassing to open his mouth and borrow money, he doesn't feel disgraced, and he secretly should still think he's smart for borrowing money. The debtor's soft heart, the borrower's righteousness, in the long run, they will become the most standard pairing, one is responsible for borrowing, one is responsible for spending. This is the inevitable premise of the existence of borrowing without repayment, right?