What does a Han Chinese have to do to marry a Miao girl

My hometown is Qiandongnan Miao and Dong Autonomous Prefecture, I am a Dong, many minorities on our side can no longer speak the language of the minorities and have been Sinicized, and so have I. I am not a Han Chinese, but I am a Han Chinese. Regardless of getting along with anyone, one must be friendly is the prerequisite, but also respect each other. We don't have the custom of dating here, young people are free to talk about marriage, parents don't play a big role. Parents will not ask for a dowry, and they can do as much as they can. You can contact Hmong girls through friends, but not every Hmong girl can sing and dance. If you are in a relationship and need to go home to see your parents, if you give your parents the impression is not too bad, things are basically done. The following are a few things you need to think about when meeting your parents: Respect We still have some ethnic customs and traditions, such as festivals, marriages, funerals and other customs and traditions. You need to respect them when you get along with them. Friendship The Miao people are good drinkers and put the wine in the front position when treating guests, and it is best for the guests to get drunk, so you can pretend to be drunk. When you are eating, elders like to help you to put food into your bowl, you can't be ashamed of it, you have to eat it. Humble and Down-to-earth The Miao people are very united and respect the elders, and they also want to earn face for their masters as much as possible. Hmong people like to follow the customs of the countryside and be modest in their speech and behavior. Diligent and Generous During the meeting with parents, you should help your family to work and do housework. Miao men are popular for doing housework, and hard work will be favored. Help the family to buy some practical things, short of what to buy some what, the local delicious must buy some. The rest you can and let the girl tell you how to do.