It is often seen that several young people get together in groups of three or five, fighting and laughing, as if youth should be like this. Each of us may have existed in such a small group, and they made us feel safe, secure and comfortable. People call these "sister groups" or "brotherly groups".
Sisters will go shopping together, learn makeup or gossip, brothers will play football and basketball together, or go to Internet cafes all night in groups. After leaving this group of friends, you will go back to your long-winded parents, or your indifferent parents, or there is no one at home, and you will fall into a bottomless pit of loneliness again. So you began to plan the next party, the next carnival, to fill your restless heart forever. Youth always seems to have a lot of time to waste, but it may also be fleeting. You know, there are also some people who, while busy, silently taste loneliness and chew their youth like bread. They may be accompanied by quiet late at night and silent lights every night to prepare for the qualification examination. They may be tapping the keyboard silently and persistently for their dreams. They may also be studying a subject, such as chewing a hard bone or sweating in the gym. In short, they spend their youth on things that don't look so easy and feel so happy and comfortable. What's the difference between these two lifestyles? Very different. That is, the puzzle of the future is gradually changing, and when this puzzle finally takes shape, everything can't be reversed.
People always say that life is a very profound and abstract proposition, but it is not. Life is the most real and concrete, and life is every minute we consume now. What you are doing now is what you are doing, and what you can see is building your tomorrow. Where you spend your time, your future is there. Different people show different lives because you have chosen different concerns when you can build your own future. If you choose to always pay attention to your enjoyment, you may face hardships in the future. If you choose to focus on what you should do in front of you, there is no guarantee that the road will be smooth, but at least, you know how to fight against your mediocre self.
In fact, everyone has inertia, and everyone always has some weaknesses. It's no big deal. But at the same time, we should also see that some people are different from us. They will not seek comfort in the crowd, will not immerse themselves in the internet world in the middle of the night, will not let themselves sink deeper and deeper in the hopeless abyss, and will not deceive themselves. You clearly know that the joy of this moment will bring more intense anxiety and guilt in the future, you clearly know that no one will pay for your future, you clearly know that you can change, you have the power to change, and you want to change. But you still lost to your weak-willed self, to your self-deception, and to your self-deception. Every man is his own worst enemy.
People always habitually think that hard work is too tiring. In fact, many people ignore the truth that if you don't work hard, you will be more tired. Look at your classmates and friends around you, those who work hard and those who don't, and look at their present situation. Do you think the excellent ones are more tired or the poor ones are more tired? Maybe it's because the work is too hard and the ability is too strong, and the excellent personal experience is a little tired. As the saying goes, "those who can do more work"? But they are full and satisfied in spirit, peaceful and exciting; Those who don't work hard and struggle, they may be doing a labor-intensive job now, living like a monk every day. Unless they really see through the world of mortals, have a firm heart and are completely unaffected by the complex world around them, for most ordinary people of 99%, living like this is more tiring, followed by physical fatigue, and more importantly, mental fatigue. Today, when everyone is pursuing the "happiness index", because they don't work hard and live at the bottom of society, life security, material security and personality security are not satisfied. When they have to face their own family and life and have to cope with the same pressure of survival, where can they get happiness and sense of gain?
When many young people choose a stable job, silently dreaming that their years will calm down and they are only waiting for retirement, others have begun to work hard and struggle alone, burning their own small universe all the time, because they believe that only by relying on their own struggle and struggle can their future be better. Every day they live is for a better tomorrow, and this life is full of strength and color. Hard-working people When you are working hard in the talent market, you have received employment notices from several large companies. Who is more tired, he who is struggling to work in which company or you who are sweating and handing out resumes everywhere? The answer is obvious.
I have a good friend. He is the type who has no demands on himself. To put it simply, he is not enterprising. During the time when everyone was busy preparing for the college entrance examination, he still played games in the Internet cafe or went to the park to see the scenery with some like-minded friends. I asked him at that time, why don't you study hard? Don't you have to go to college? Unexpectedly, he really told me that he didn't have to go to college, because his family could help him find a relationship and enter an ordinary university, and then he would be no different from the people we entered after graduation. At that time, I was naive and a little envious of him, thinking it would be nice to have such a strong family. So I silently began to recite words to do exam questions, and walked in the army preparing for the college entrance examination day after day. Later, our college entrance examination ended, and I was admitted to an ideal university as I wished. Naturally, he dropped out of Sun Shan, but as he said at the beginning, his family arranged for him to go to a very ordinary university. Although it is not something to be proud of, it is indeed lucky for his achievements. I thought life would go on like this, and after four years, we would be no different. But that's not the case. After graduating from college, I passed the postgraduate exam through hard work. Because he was as handsome and playful as ever, he got nothing in college. Considering that there is no good way out after graduation, his family showed him a bright way-to exercise in the army. It is said that after military training, better jobs can be arranged after rehabilitation. So after graduation, I stepped into the door of the army. However, for him who has developed a sloppy habit, life in the army is simply miserable. When other students have already started working, he is training and standing guard in Dai Yue's army. While others are firmly established in their jobs, they are still waiting to change jobs. Everything is still unknown
Is there really a shortcut in life? Can life really be lazy? Everyone has an answer in his heart.
Is it necessary to be tired if you work hard? Of course, the harder you work, the more tired you will be. There is no free lunch in the world, but every hard work is worth it. Our efforts today are in exchange for greater choices and greater freedom tomorrow. We can do anything for this. We strive to make ourselves have more energy, choose a life we like better, and even have an impact on other people's lives. We strive to be leaders in life and take the initiative in life. We don't want to spend our lives in passivity and helplessness.
I want a life in full bloom, and I want freedom of choice. I use today's efforts for a broad future.
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