1, love is not allowed.
On Tanabata, I was very sad. Because the man she loves didn't accompany her, he took his wife and children out for a trip. Actually, she also has a family. She is also with her husband and children, but she is thinking about another man in her heart.
Although the man gave her a gift, a bag worth 20 thousand, which she wanted to buy a year ago, she is not happy at all now. What she thought was that the man gave her a gift and wanted to be with her. Make her a candlelight dinner, say something sweet, and then have a good sleep.
At the thought of him staying with another woman day and night, she burst into tears and couldn't breathe. She really fell in love with him. She has never felt such love for her husband.
2. Self-awareness
Because I was old, I married my husband, then gave birth to a child and lived a tepid life until I met him. At the age of 38, she didn't expect to meet love again. When a man says he loves her on WeChat, she can feel her heart beating faster through her mobile phone.
Then, eating, dating, the same, at first men were very enthusiastic about her, and then they were a little cold. Many times, she will feel crazy, and she is afraid of losing him, although she knows that he has never really belonged to her completely. She wants him to accompany her. Being with her represents love, and the bag represents bread. She wants both love and bread.
3. Be swayed by considerations of gain and loss
These husbands couldn't give it to her, so they cheated. She is worried, confused and depressed about this man, because he is happy, happy, sad and sad. There are not a few middle-aged women who suffer from extramarital affairs. They are not so happy, but more sad.
Middle-aged women who dare to cheat have to admire their courage, but what is the picture? Figure material or spirit? Love or bread? Did you get what you wanted? Real mature middle-aged women never let themselves fall into the whirlpool of extramarital affairs. They are no longer in the mood to cheat.
4. Love and romance
Most of the ladies who bask in gifts, red envelopes and various kinds in the circle of friends on Tanabata are girls in their twenties or young women who have just been married for a few years.
Middle-aged women have long given up the love and romance brought by men. Middle-aged women don't want candlelight dinners, mysterious gifts, rings and necklaces. Is the red envelope 520 or 5200? Middle-aged women, not naive little girls, will not wait for men to give them romance, surprise, happiness and security.
What they want, they will find a way to achieve it by themselves, and it takes a man's heart? A down-to-earth life is king. Some people say that middle-aged men are the most boring and don't even coax their wives. I don't like this sentence very much. Are you a little girl who hasn't grown up? Still have to coax?
5, no longer care
Middle-aged women don't want this. In the off season, I often travel alone. A friend asked: Is your husband at ease with you? I'm not worried about you having an affair outside or anything. Ha ha ha laugh: I am a middle-aged aunt, what is there to worry about? Even if I go abroad, people will rest assured, as long as I don't bring children.
Now the middle-aged and elderly uncles are not concerned about whether the aunt will cheat, but whether it will be safe to take the children out. Because they know that most middle-aged women are not in the mood to cheat. Many middle-aged women do not consider remarriage after divorce. Single, spend the rest of my life by myself, even lazy to find a man. Not to mention those married middle-aged women, who would be naive enough to cheat?
6. Don't believe in love
If you want to find the footprints of love, you can read novels, movies and TV plays. In the worst case, torture the existing men around you. It is not that middle-aged women don't believe in love. They believe that love exists, but at a certain stage of life, most of it will appear when you are young. Just like youth, if it is gone, it will be gone, and it will never be found again.
The love of middle-aged women is to make themselves happy, comfortable and comfortable every day. They have learned to fall in love with themselves instead of finding a man to experience the ups and downs of life from him.
The topic that middle-aged women get together to talk about has changed from the previous relationship between husband and wife, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to parent-child relationship. Middle-aged women will dress themselves up beautifully, even if they just go out to pick up their children, they should be fully armed.
7. No more invitations
Not to please men, but to please yourself and make yourself happier and happier. They are willing to spend money on clothes, cosmetics, sports, weight loss and fitness. They are not in the mood to cheat and have no leisure time. Those who have jobs should not only consider their husbands and children at home, but also strive to achieve greater financial freedom.
They have long understood that it is more realistic to ask a person for some bread than to earn it by themselves. Now many Lori like middle-aged uncle. Because girls are naive, gullible and gullible, believing every lie they tell, they will look at them with admiration, appreciate them and look up to them. Especially those rich people with successful careers, men like to be looked up to, especially women.
8. Conclusion
Middle-aged women looked up at them. As soon as all the good feelings rise to the relationship between men and women, they become less beautiful. Maintaining proper relationships between men and women is more rare than intimate relationships between men and women, and should be cherished. Middle-aged women are not in the mood to cheat. They see the relationship between men and women thoroughly and will not be confused by men's sweet words.
Even if you have a little crush on the opposite sex for a certain period of time, you will turn that crush into a long-lasting friendship, so that this clear spring can warm you, instead of turning that crush into a fire that burns you and hurts others.