A philosopher said that only after experiencing the pain and suffering of a real lovelorn, can people become more mature. In the face of the reality of lovelorn, it is really not a bad thing to sort out your feverish mind, behave yourself, reevaluate each other's personality, learn from it and promote psychological development and maturity. Moreover, young men and women are always ambivalent from contact with each other to starting a family, and the chances of success are not necessarily great because of the differences in personal needs and motives. Therefore, lovelorn is a natural social phenomenon. Since thousands of people have come from Qian Qian, why can't you get through? After all, love is not the whole of life. It's not worthwhile to break down your body for the sake of lovelorn love, or to cause harm to your career.
Comfort yourself?
The story of "A blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise" in idioms and allusions can be used for reference by lovelorn people. Good and bad things can be transformed into each other. Knowing this dialectics is very useful for getting rid of psychological difficulties. In western countries, people like to quote "people who change their minds are not worthy of love" to get psychological comfort. Indeed, being with someone who doesn't love you is a kind of torture, and breaking up as soon as possible is a great fortune in misfortune.
Self-motivation?
Purify and sublimate the temporarily unrealized desire for love, and strive to enrich and improve yourself, which will achieve higher pursuit and psychological compensation and satisfaction.