How does it affect Ma Bao if women don't have their first child?

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A woman's first child is very important and a gift from heaven. Don't miscarry easily, or these bitter fruits are waiting for you.

Ma Bao Yu Xia and her husband were college classmates, and they got married after graduation. Although their love is sweet, as newcomers born in society, they also feel the pressure of society. After less than a year of marriage, they got pregnant unexpectedly. Neither of them is ready. They finally discussed it and agreed not to have children for the time being, so they reluctantly aborted the child.

However, after a few years, the career finally stabilized. Ma Bao Yu Xia and her husband discussed this problem, but when they were ready to have children, they couldn't get pregnant. They tried many methods, but none of them worked. Finally, they went to the hospital and were told that Ma Bao Yu Xia had miscarried many times before, which led to the current situation of being unable to get pregnant. Ma Bao Yu Xia and his wife both regretted aborting their children.

A woman's first child is very important and a gift from heaven.

For Ma Bao, a woman's first child may not be ready yet, but it is undoubtedly a gift from heaven. When Ma Bao first started to get pregnant, generally speaking, she was younger. At this time, Ma Bao's physical fitness is the best in all aspects, and she is more likely to get pregnant. The baby born at this time is also the smartest and healthiest, and the chances of being smart and cute are also the greatest.

Therefore, women's first child must be cherished, and don't miscarry easily. Otherwise, you may regret it later.

How does it affect Ma Bao if women don't have their first child? May leave a psychological shadow.

If Ma Bao doesn't want her first child, it may be better to get pregnant in the future. If she can't get pregnant in the future, Ma Bao may be immersed in endless remorse all her life.

You know, even if Ma Bao didn't affect her future fertility because of her turn around, it might leave a shadow in Ma Bao's heart. After all, if the first child develops normally, it is also her own child, and parents will feel guilty about it. In the later life, you will inevitably blame yourself and feel sad.

It is extremely harmful to women's health.

Ma Bao's uterus is very fragile. Every pregnancy is harmful to the uterus. The more times you are pregnant, the greater the damage to the uterus. The womb environment of the first-born child is the best. If the first child miscarries, it will not only affect the uterine environment, but also lead to the decline of Ma Bao's immunity, affect Ma Bao's physical fitness and increase the probability of gynecological diseases. In addition, it may also reduce Ma Bao's chances of getting pregnant in the future.

Ma Bao can't get pregnant. In many cases, this may be due to previous abortion experience. During the check-up, the doctor will also ask whether Ma Bao is the first child and whether she has had an abortion. This is not an insignificant problem, but a very important thing, which is related to Ma Bao's pregnancy and the healthy development of the fetus during pregnancy. Doctors can prevent it in advance.

It is not suitable for getting pregnant again in the short term.

Don't think that Ma Bao doesn't need confinement if she aborts the fetus. For the sake of Ma Bao's health, she still needs to recover. This is often called small confinement. For a long time, Ma Bao's physical condition will also deteriorate, and she is no longer suitable for pregnancy. Maybe young people have little influence at first and can't see any problems. When they are old, such problems may occur, probably related to previous abortions.

Getting pregnant is not an easy thing in a year. Ma Bao should cherish this opportunity and take every child seriously. If she is not ready and has no plans to have children, then both husband and wife must take defensive measures, otherwise accidents may occur, which is not good for anyone. What did you say?/Sorry?

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