I think I have some views on values, which are absolutely incorrect, but if someone can see them and cause a little scolding, it is worthwhile for me to write these.
I'm here to throw a brick at the jade.
In my opinion, not hurting others externally and being honest with yourself internally are the basis of a healthy value.
The above is the premise, and any values that are beautiful for yourself should be based on it. People live in two worlds, one is a subjective world dominated by self-awareness, and the other is an objective world composed of objective materials including others. The internal and external world naturally has walls, but it can be infinitely close to unity. Therefore, good value should be comfortable. You are comfortable when you practice, and others are equally comfortable when they feel it.
Of course, this is just the foundation. With this foundation, we can learn both inside and outside, including but not limited to: the bottom line, what we really want and what kind of person we want to be. ...
These trivial but extremely important things are the flesh and blood of your values. It is most important to have a more accurate understanding of your inner world. We should not blindly suppress normal desires, let alone indulge our "evil". At the same time, we should constantly adjust the contradictions between the internal and external world.
Take myself as an example. myself