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The experience of raising children in large classes: it is difficult for parents to fully express their children's education in words. To tell the truth, I am also a new mother, and I don't have much parenting experience. I can only say that I am still learning in the process of educating my children. I like reading parenting books at ordinary times, and ask if I don't understand. Often go to the parenting forum to discuss parenting topics or ask experienced mothers for parenting methods.
The following are some experiences I have had with my daughter in the past five years.
1, set an example and become a role model for children.
I think parents play an important role in the process of educating children. Because he can get what he can and can't do from his parents through his own observation, so as to get the code of conduct. Therefore, as parents, we must always be strict with ourselves in our work and life, and set a good example for our children.
2. Ideological and moral education is the foundation.
I personally think that children should first learn to respect their parents and learn to be grateful. Every day I give my daughter a hug and say, I love you! In the evening, I will say: good night! When doing something wrong, parents and children need to have the courage to say: I'm sorry! When someone gives you something or helps you, you need to say thank you!
From an early age, we should educate him to be polite, honest, caring, not littering, paying attention to environmental protection and energy saving, often turning off the faucet and light switch in time, and caring for the disadvantaged groups. These are the keys to cultivate his public morality and compassion. Parents should support and praise him and let her know that kindness can make people happier.
3. Start with small things and cultivate good habits and independent living ability.
Habit is second nature. I need my children to learn from the little things around them and consciously make some agreements with them, such as letting her do something she can independently, helping me take out the garbage, handing paper towels, taking slippers and clothes; At the age of two, I have learned to eat by myself, wear pants and clothes, brush my teeth in the morning, wash my face, urinate and take a bath at night (of course, when the weather is fine); She never takes anything to eat without authorization. She always asks if she can eat something first and ask the adults for permission before taking it.
How much you can eat needs to be limited, and I'll tell her why you want to limit him. I have never opposed her eating any snacks, but I will tell her that snacks are unhealthy food and you can't eat more. For example, French fries and biscuits are easy to get angry. If you eat them, you should drink more water. Eating too much sugar and chocolate will damage your teeth, so don't take more than two at a time and brush your teeth every day.
Never picky about food, tell him that any food has its nutrition, and you should eat more fish and fruits and vegetables, so as to grow taller. When you go to school, you need to carry your own schoolbag and agree with her on the time, way and content of watching TV. At the same time, you should tell him that his eyes will be tired from watching for too long, and he should rest, otherwise he will be nearsighted. In fact, the standard need not be too high, but it will be of great help to cultivate children's good habits.
In many people's minds, children are often thought to be too young, clumsy, unable to do anything and unwilling to let them do it. This is not only not conducive to cultivating children's ability to live independently when they grow up, but also will develop children's bad habits of laziness and dependence. I want to add one more sentence here. We subscribed him to the children's pictorial at home for two years. I wonder if any parents have heard of it. It's actually quite helpful.
He did learn a lot in it, and never taught him to learn Chinese characters, but he did learn a lot of Chinese characters, and of course, a lot of little knowledge about life. As long as he explains more, he will understand. If conditions permit, parents can also order a set for their children. )
4. Parents should recognize their children, encourage them more and criticize them less, and let them have a free space.
As a child, he cares about him the most and knows him better than his parents. Children are still children after all, and it is their nature to be curious and playful. As a parent, I will treat my child as a friend, communicate with him often, find his bright spot, praise him and give him positive guidance. Parents should be good at discovering the bright spots of their children. Once I listened to a lecture in kindergarten, the lecturer at that time said: if you say he can do it, he can do it; If you say he can't, he can't.
So we must firmly believe that our children are the best, and we can't just deny our children. Affirm him, encourage him, guide him, support him and give him confidence, which will help to enhance children's trust in their parents.
5. Let him enjoy a carefree childhood.
Playing is children's favorite activity, and it is also the best way of education we think. In the process of playing, they can not only have endless fun, but also learn all kinds of knowledge. Through games, they can also feel the joy of success and the distress of failure.
I never forced him to learn many words and recite many poems. Because I don't value how much cultural knowledge he can learn now, I care more about his physical and mental health and let him know self-esteem, self-improvement and self-reliance. I hope my child can become a caring, tolerant and United child.
Usually, you can take part in more group activities and play with children, so as to strengthen your social communication ability, psychological endurance and resilience in handling things from your usual communication and interaction. Can tell teachers their needs in time, and can speak boldly during recess. I think it is a critical period for the formation of a child's personality, and it is very helpful for him to integrate into the group to form a complete personality.
6. Cultivate his thirst for knowledge.
Children's curiosity and thirst for knowledge are very strong. They should ask everything clearly, touch here and there, and sometimes electric sockets and gas switches are also the objects they explore. I usually let him try, but I will tell him that electricity and fire are dangerous and teach him how to unplug the electrical outlet. You can't just go into the kitchen because there is fire, boiling water and a knife. You can only go in without your parents. So he never plays unless I allow him to.
7. First of all, we should respect children and trust them.
Treat her as an equal friend, always put yourself in her shoes and exchange roles with her. I am her occasionally, and she can also become a mother or a father or even a teacher to talk to us. Occasionally, you can squat down and talk to your child, so that he can feel that we are equal. In this way, parents will know more about their children's inner world.
8. Arrange some time for the children.
Every day LG and I will take some time to play games with him! Every night before going to bed, I will spend half an hour chatting with him, telling stories or singing children's songs! Try to make him feel the love of his parents.
Parenting is an arduous and complicated project, which requires not only financial resources but also energy and patience. However, we can gain some happiness and sweetness from learning with our children, and at the same time we can get some thinking and enlightenment. In short, as long as our children make a little progress, we will be surprised, because it is the fruit of hard work of teachers and parents.
Of course, my child is not a genius or perfect. She is still a little careless and works slowly. She doesn't like taking a nap. I also want to consult other parents to see if there are any good methods, because I haven't found the most effective one so far. We need to constantly explore better and more parenting methods. I hope that good parenting methods and good teachers are like a canoe, carrying children to an infinite ocean of knowledge and making them healthier and better!
Experience in raising children in large classes (2): In a blink of an eye, * * was five years and nine months old and went to school for three years. In another year, he should go to primary school. How to better make * * adapt to the future primary school life as soon as possible? Whether to stay in a private kindergarten or go to Tiantaigang kindergarten really worries our parents. Through the observation of the children's study and life in Tiantaigang kindergarten for one month, we are very happy to choose Tiantaigang kindergarten, and the learning and growth effect of * * is immediate.
First, reshape the child's personality:
Every parent wants their children to be positive and sunny. * * has always been a good girl. When she was in a private kindergarten, she made great progress in arithmetic, pinyin and English. However, * * is very stiff and insecure in kindergarten, and can't express his preferences correctly. Although we have communicated with the school in many aspects and at many levels, the timid character of * * has not been effectively improved. After entering Tiantaigang Kindergarten, Director Zou asked and encouraged in a low voice, which relieved the pressure of the new school and the environment.
Teacher Zhang instructs children: when communicating with others, we should look at the other person's eyes and other details, so that children can gradually dare to communicate face to face with others. At the same time, Mr. Zhang and Mr. Tang also gave children more exercise opportunities in their daily study and life, such as assigning children as group leaders and small squad leaders, which not only enhanced their sense of honor, but also exercised their courage and cultivated their organizational and management skills.
At the end of September, Lu Jie, the idol of * *, came to the school to have close contact with everyone, making the children feel out of Tiantaigang and Chongqing and with children all over the country. After just one month's study and life, * * has become more lively, cheerful and bold than before.
Second, regulate children's behavior:
How to train * * into a healthy, intelligent and qualified "prospective pupil"? After entering Tiantaigang Kindergarten, the teacher instructed * * one by one from the aspects of sitting posture, standing posture, raising hands, gathering chairs and passing chairs, and only required children according to the standards of primary school students. At the same time, set an example to cultivate good study habits, such as paying attention to lectures, not making small moves, not interrupting, and actively using your brain;
By attending the flag-raising ceremony of the school, we will educate * * about patriotism; By helping teachers to do hygiene, educate * * to get along well with children, and let * * cultivate good morality of respecting teachers, respecting elders, respecting the collective and respecting labor from an early age;
In order to improve the ability of self-reliance, the teacher asked the children to "do their own thing". After returning home, we also actively cooperated with the school, changed the living habits of the whole family around * *, and greatly improved the self-care ability of * *. At present, * * has learned basic life skills such as dressing, washing, cleaning stationery, toys, washing dishes and sweeping the floor. After a month's study, * * is more sensible and standardized than before.
Third, cultivate children's interest in learning:
How to cultivate children's interest in learning is the most concerned issue for teachers and parents. Tiantaigang Primary School has chosen a set of textbooks suitable for children's interests according to their characteristics, covering Chinese, mathematics, pinyin, society, writing, music, art and so on. It integrates learning knowledge into children's daily life and greatly stimulates children's strong desire to explore nature.
In learning, teachers give full play to their abilities and specialties, and guide and inspire them in many ways. * * Mandarin is more standard than before, and painting is more imaginative. Chess has changed * *' s way of thinking, especially the teacher's implementation of the "little red flower" system among children, which has stimulated children's enthusiasm for being advanced in learning ... The colorful learning life has made * * gradually fall in love with school.
At the beginning of October, * * got sick with a cold. In the past, * * would not go to school on the grounds of "being sick" and "not feeling well", but after this illness, * * insisted on going to class, and even rejected the idea of letting her go home to take medicine at noon. We are delighted to find that the school has a special attraction and cohesion to * *. Every day after class, * * can finish his homework in time according to the teacher's requirements. * * Learning enthusiasm and initiative are enhanced.
We are very grateful to schools and teachers for cultivating * * and for creating an open and free learning environment for children to grow up lively, healthy and happy.
In the future study, actively cooperate with school education, improve Lu Jun's morality, intelligence, physique and aesthetics, and successfully complete the normal transition from kindergarten to primary school.