Cultivating children is to find their own position in the future society, so what abilities need to be cultivated in the bottom thinking? Thinking ability, emotional expression, language ability, sports ability and creative thinking ability are all permanent basic abilities.
Now there is a book called Children's Future Brain Plan, which divides brain training into five parts: intellectual brain, emotional brain, language brain, sports brain and creative brain, and gives different skills and methods. See the map of Weiss for details.
Now let's elaborate the list body around the mind map.
Part I: Intelligent brain
1, how to improve children's intelligence?
Stimulating children's brains can enhance the driving force of the brain. Stimulation is to provide children with learning opportunities and experiences, and rich stimulation can promote the development of children's cognitive ability.
2. How to shape children's scientific thinking?
First of all, parents should have an idea that good thinking ability is more important than knowledge.
Secondly, ask children questions, guide them to make assumptions, find evidence, and verify assumptions, not just give answers.
Finally, let children observe more and interact with life and nature, which is more vivid, profound and unforgettable than the knowledge in books.
3. How to improve children's attention?
First of all, set goals for the child, secondly, the difficulty of the task should match his ability, and finally, give the child feedback in time.
4. How to improve children's memory?
Three tips to improve children's memory are sound coding, visual coding and associative coding. In addition, it takes time to recite repeatedly, connect the information, and then know how to group effectively, in order to really improve memory.
The second part, the emotional brain
1, how to deal with the child's temper?
First, guide him to describe emotions, then guide him to analyze emotions, and finally guide him to reflect on emotions. Only by letting children understand their emotions can they reflect on themselves and understand others.
2. How to improve children's social skills?
On the one hand, we should help children enter the social scene, teach them to observe the crowd and introduce them to join the crowd. On the other hand, we can organize activities at home, invite other children to play at home, and even specially arrange roles for him to improve his social skills.
The third part, exercise the brain.
1, fine movements: small movements promote brains.
Fine movements are closely related to the development of cognitive ability and motor ability of the brain. Play fine action games with children and encourage them to create activities with fine actions.
2, gross movements: the limbs are developed and the brain is more developed.
Rough movements are good for children's cognitive ability. 1 year-old sleeps on his back and plays swimming on his stomach. 1 year-old plays push-pull toys. 1 year-old plays ball games and runs and jumps. After 3 years old, he plays tricycle and climbs stairs.
3. Aerobic exercise
Aerobic exercise can promote the growth of cerebral capillaries, improve the level of neurotransmitters and promote our cognitive level. Therefore, regular aerobic exercise can provide enough nutrition for the brain and make the brain develop healthier and stronger.
The fourth part, language brain.
1, tell a good story
A good story can help children understand the real world better and remember it better. Let children listen to stories, read stories and tell stories. Three kinds of interspersed exercises can exercise children's creativity and memory.
2. Interactive reading
The correct way to open reading is: first, ask questions to children; Second, follow their interests; Finally, turn reading into a game. Parent-child interactive reading can not only effectively improve children's reading ability, but also strengthen the interaction between parents and children.
3. Learn a foreign language
It is better to learn a foreign language early than to recite it. The earlier you learn different languages, the less likely you are to interfere with each other. Not only that, the earlier you learn a foreign language, the more authentic your accent will be.
There are three kinds of parent-child games for children to learn foreign languages. First, they listen to English songs, watch cartoons and read stories with their children. Second, they play rhythmic English games with their children. Third, they play English with their children.
4. Read ancient poems
Ancient poetry is full of rhythm and musicality, and rhythm can promote brain development. Read ancient poems skillfully, such as shaking your head, reading with rhythm, and even singing ancient poems, so that rhythm and rhythm can stimulate brain development.
The fifth part, creative brain.
1, to stimulate children's creativity
Play more thinking games to stimulate children's creativity.
Divergent thinking the game, for example, looking for uses other than the routine use of daily affairs, different ways to accomplish a task, and imagining what some scenarios will do.
Lenovo thinking the game just put two different things together, let children associate them in different directions, and then use them in creative activities.
2. Cultivate children's imagination
First, imagine that things will be different because of what has happened.
Second, for the future, imagine how the future can be different.
Third, at present, encourage children to play more symbolic games and imagine other possibilities.
3. Cultivate children's good habits
How long does it take to form a good habit? There are various opinions on the Internet, among which 2 1 day is the mainstream. But after scientific argumentation, it takes 66 days or even longer to form a habit.
So how to form a good habit?
Ask three questions correctly.
First, what is the motivation? Second, "If ... then ..." automates habits. Third, how to deal with failure, dissatisfaction and daily inconvenience.