Question 2: What is a person's mature performance? Maturity means that you can control yourself, know what you want, and move freely in this direction. Explain that you can control your emotions instead of letting others control you! 1. Realistic attitude A sane adult will face the facts, whether it is pleasant for him or not. For example, he may like driving. He is aware of all kinds of dangers when driving, so he often checks the brakes, belts, lights and other parts. An immature person may think, "I have never had an accident." Thus ignoring any preventive measures. Or he may belong to another kind of person, who checks the brakes during the day and suffers from insomnia at night, always worrying that something will happen to him. 2. An independent and mentally sound person acts with reason, he is steady and will listen to reasonable advice properly. When necessary, he can make a decision and is willing to bear all the consequences of his decision. An immature person often finds it difficult to make up his mind when something happens. He wants others (such as relatives, friends, colleagues, etc.). Show him how to act. When he has to make his own decisions, he may become impatient, afraid and even do bad things. Many immature people refuse to take responsibility for their decisions. When something goes wrong, they pass the buck and blame others. When they get the results, they often ask for praise excessively. 3. Ability to love others A healthy and mature person can enjoy loving his spouse, children, relatives and friends. On the contrary, an immature person is stingy when he loves others, but often expects to get a lot of love. He always wants people to take care of themselves and to be the center of attention. This kind of psychology is understandable for children, but if it is still like this in adulthood, it will be difficult for him to establish a normal relationship with others. 4. Depend on others appropriately. A mature person can not only love others, but also accept love. A reasonable love relationship in marriage should be that both parties can give and accept the joy brought by love. Sharing, giving and receiving love and friendship are signs of flexibility, adaptability and maturity. 5. Anger should be controlled. It is natural that any normal and healthy person gets angry sometimes. But he can grasp the discretion and not lose his mind. He will ignore the trivial things in front of him for some long-term interests. He may lose his temper sometimes, but he will never be furious because he didn't buy what he wanted in the store. 6. Have a long-term plan. A rational person will give up immediate interests for long-term interests, even if the immediate interests are attractive. For example, when a mature student reviews before the exam, in order to take the exam with all his might, he will refuse all social activities and sacrifice his immediate happiness, and then play and socialize heartily after the exam. For another example, a pair of mature lovers, in order to finish their studies or for other important things, will temporarily postpone their wedding, even if they love each other very much, because they think that temporary postponement may bring greater and longer-term happiness. 7. Be good at rest. A normal and healthy person needs and is good at enjoying leisure and vacation while doing his job well. On the contrary, people who are emotionally unstable often feel forced to do something and seldom enjoy happiness from work and leisure time; On weekends and holidays, he still thinks about how to do things better, so he often doesn't get enough rest. A mature person is calm and relaxed at rest, so he is full of energy when he works again. He may also be busy with other things in his spare time, but he doesn't regard doing these things as more labor, but as hobbies and pastimes. 8. People who are cautious about changing jobs often like their jobs and will not change their minds. When he really wants to change his job, it must be out of careful consideration. He won't jump ship just because a boss or colleague is difficult to get along with. 9. Love and tolerate children. A healthy adult likes children and is willing to take the time to understand their special requirements. No matter how busy he is, he can almost always find a few minutes to play with a three-year-old child or answer a question from an older child. He gave his children love that they couldn't return. 10. Tolerance and understanding of others For a mature person, this tolerance and understanding is not only for people of different sexes, but also for people of different races, nationalities and cultural backgrounds. 1 1. It is the characteristics of a healthy personality to constantly learn and cultivate interest, constantly increase knowledge and cultivate interest extensively. With this trait, one can live in this world with peace of mind. His wisdom and attitude towards life.
Question 3: What are the aspects of men's maturity? First, the standard of maturity.
Maturity can be a physiological index or a psychological index. Psychological maturity and physical maturity are two different things, but they are related.
Speaking of psychological maturity, I think a mature person has strong independence in thought, emotion, action and economy, and is less dependent on others. Understand what life is, know what you want to do, have a clear goal in life, and put it into practice. I can control my emotions, have the ability to observe and gain insight into things, have a good attitude towards real life, and have considerable tolerance and resistance to setbacks and difficulties. Everything is no longer credulous, but focuses on practice.
In short, a mature person finds himself and handles his relationship with the outside world.
Whether there is a self and how to look at it are important criteria to measure a person's maturity. Of course, this is relative, because people are constantly maturing. You can compare the present with the past to see if you are mature. This is a vertical comparison, and you can also compare yourself with the people around you. This is a balanced comparison.
First, pay attention to the promise: a mature man will never break his word. He attaches great importance to every promise he makes. Before making a wish, he will carefully consider whether his words can really come true. If he could, he would never say, and his words would be carried out. Everything he says makes you feel at ease and trustworthy. A man with an unknown address, shooting at random and not taking action has nothing to do with maturity.
Second, don't talk big: a mature man never talks big casually. He will keep a proper silence and speak clearly but not noisily. Just drink a little wine and tell your story all over the table. You can hear it in half a room without a speaker. This kind of man will make the audience laugh at most, and no one will take your so-called "road to struggle" to heart.
Third, they are knowledgeable and reserved: they read books, accept new things and information, and constantly enrich their connotations. But they don't make public, their talents will only be displayed when necessary, and they will never deliberately show off to satisfy vanity. They are like mellow wine, the more you taste, the more delicious it becomes.
Fourth, broad-minded: mature men don't haggle over every ounce, don't covet petty advantages, don't care about small losses, and don't complain endlessly. Their eyes are never caught by trivial matters, and they are often "angels who turn back first" in small family quarrels.
Five, not self-centered: mature men respect themselves and know how to respect others. They are good at empathy, will consider problems from the standpoint of others, do not force others to accommodate themselves, and are good at cooperating with others. All men "like me" are typical little emperors and have not grown up.
6. Dare to admit mistakes: Mature men are not stubborn, can accept different opinions and are good at adopting good suggestions. They have the courage to bear the consequences of their improper decisions and never make excuses.
Seven. Strong-willed: Mature men have the psychological quality of never being confused. Once they set their own goal, they will work towards it. When encountering setbacks, they will analyze the reasons, learn lessons and correct their direction in time, but they will never give up easily. They will be very tired, but after the rest, they will start with confidence.
Eight, clean and tidy: mature men respect their appearance. They keep the hairstyle that suits them best, their chins are clean and stubble-free, their faces are not greasy, and they don't leave long nails. Clothes don't have to be famous brands, but they should be neat and generous, and they won't be wrinkled like couriers. They will never wear black shoes with white socks or travel in suits.
Respect for the old and love for the young: Mature men are caring, have a sense of social responsibility and have the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation. He will give his seat to the elderly and pregnant women, donate money and materials to the disaster areas, help out-of-school children and donate blood voluntarily ... they may not do all these things, but they will never do nothing.
Ten, have hobbies: They are not robots who only know how to work, but know how to use hobbies to adjust their tense nerves, which makes them interesting. No wonder women say that men with hobbies are not easy to go bad.
Second, mature performance.
A man needs tempering to mature.
1. Maturity shows honesty
Honesty is defined here as-facing anything bravely and honestly. It's as easy to say as eating, but harder to do than you think. It's not as difficult as climbing Mount Everest. I remember Bai Yang, a writer from Taiwan Province Province, wrote a book "Ugly China People". I remember a passage in the book: One of the ugliness of China people "A person who makes a mistake will cover up the first mistake with ten or even twenty mistakes ... >>"
Question 4: Where is maturity? 1. A mature man should have an economic foundation, especially mature enough to be a woman's husband.
2. Mature men should have a career foundation. Maybe not every man can make a fortune, but if you think you have accomplished nothing, how can you stand in the eyes of women?
Mature men know what they want, not everything. Know how to persist and know how to give up.
Mature men dare to take responsibility, although some mistakes are not caused by him.
Mature men are tolerant, and caring too much is the most unforgivable mistake of men.
6. Mature men are not clever, but have great wisdom.
7. A mature man, his words and deeds can make women learn a lot, while a boy can only let women teach him.
8. A mature man knows how to cherish and take care of women and how to go out for an outing. He must not be the one who ran ahead by himself.
9. Mature men don't quarrel with women in the street.
10. A mature man will not force a woman to wear clothes that he likes but she doesn't like.
1 1. Mature men don't play low-level jokes on women casually. Once they play low-level jokes, it must be time to beat her.
12. A mature man lets a woman know that she is wrong, but he won't make her lose face.
13. Mature men make women relax without making women nervous.
14. Mature men can be father and son in front of women.
15. A mature man will train his son into a real man.
16. A mature man has the ability of infatuation. No matter what happens, he won't tell others that it's a woman's fault. Because of his mind, because of his deep and sincere love, because of his inclusiveness.
17. A mature man knows that there must be a woman who deserves everything, because he is confident enough to meet such a good woman. 18. Mature men, even if they have been hurt by love, even if they have been heartbroken, will not lose their ability to love someone because of injury.
Question 5: What are the specific manifestations of a person's maturity when he is frustrated?
When you are proud, you are not proud and conceited.
Low-key work
Be a high-profile person.
Question 6: How does a person's maturity show? Love is free pay, willing help and mutual telepathy. Since you have chosen love, you should treat it sincerely, cherish it, support him (her) when he (she) is in trouble, encourage him (her) when he (she) is happy, and be happy together when he (she) is sad. Instead of ignoring its existence when you have it, you will know your regret after you lose it. If you love someone, you need him to be happy forever, always be her safe haven and protect her, even if there is a little pain. True love for someone is not as simple as we think. A deep hug, a deep kiss, an unchangeable oath, an indelible token ... all these are plain in the face of true love.
The most important thing to love a person is to respect his (her) own independent time and space, let him (her) devote himself (herself) to the struggle for his (her) ideal career, urge him (her) to make full use of the time completely at his/her disposal, and help each other, support each other, share weal and woe and contribute to each other's ideal career in the short space where they get along.
Eternal love is in your heart. As long as you really pay, pursue and sacrifice bravely, true love will happen to you, and eternal love is your love. Love is a kind of selfless dedication and sacrifice, and the return of love is the eternal happiness and happiness of the other party. If you love each other, you will be happy because of their happiness, and you will be happy because of their happiness. As long as you work hard for your happy life, then eternal love is around you. It is not that you have eternal love, but that you have created it.
Question 7: What about mature and steady people ... What are the criteria for showing maturity? This is a hot topic that everyone suspects. Maturity seems to be a cruel thing, representing the passing of youth and the fading of dreams. However, maturity is the direction of life, and a lasting, peaceful and happy life cannot be separated from maturity. I think maturity is my sense of security in any respect, not to enhance my competitiveness, not to make myself emotionally easy to fly, but to have more sense of responsibility and peace of mind to face everything around me.
1, contempt for the opposite sex can "despise" the opposite sex and not take it seriously, which is a sign of maturity, so put it in the first place, because this is the first step towards maturity in life, which is difficult for people, especially teenagers, and the only difficulty, so it becomes a symbol of maturity. When I say "contempt for the opposite sex" here, I don't mean gender discrimination. It means that men don't take women seriously and women don't take men seriously. Shallow people may have shallow questions: don't take the opposite sex seriously, so, is this okay? Isn't this too heartless? In fact, the "contempt for the opposite sex" here mainly refers to being able to understand and communicate with the opposite sex with a peaceful, healthy and calm mind. Despise is not to refuse to be fond of the opposite sex, but to refuse to see the opposite sex, which is an unhealthy psychology and performance. Both boys and girls are naive and full of curiosity and mystery about the opposite sex, which are immature performances. One day you will understand that there are so many men and so many women. We can have a good impression on the opposite sex without being curious or mysterious. This mystery and curiosity will lead to ups and downs of people's emotions, make them happy, make them miserable, make them happy and make them miserable. Maybe people in love can't stay awake as they should, but in daily life, they can often see people gaffes in front of the opposite sex. Not taking the opposite sex seriously is not to make you lose your enthusiasm for life, but to be less disappointed and hurt, and naturally calm.
2. Denying yourself and constantly denying yourself is a necessary condition and an important symbol of maturity. Denying oneself is a profound ideological activity, based on the understanding of truth and self, rather than belittling oneself. Denying yourself is the result of thinking, not "touching the scene." As long as you keep reflecting and facing yourself, you will always deny yourself. It is not easy to know yourself, nor is it easy to deny yourself. People are most likely to be self-righteous and opinionated. In the face of truth, no one is qualified to be conceited. There is a good saying that what we need to change most may be what we insist on most. But people often think that they are always right, regard arrogance as maturity, regard stubbornness as personality, and finally can only "regret". In fact, people's understanding is shallow, and everything is constantly changing. How can you not change? Things are changing, the situation is changing, and the truth is changing, which requires you to constantly change your original understanding and deny what you once insisted on.
3. Learning to be tolerant is not only a symbol of maturity, but also a state of tolerance. A naive heart will never be tolerant. They are extreme, furious and blind, and they are "as evil as enemies", but they have repeatedly made intolerable mistakes. They pursue perfection, but they don't understand their own shortcomings. In addition, tyrants and powers are never tolerant. They are narrow-minded, bloodthirsty and kill countless people. Finally, stupidity can only lead to their downfall. The blind pursuit of abstract justice strengthens the concept of "enemy" in people's minds. In fact, no one is a natural enemy. I remember a writer saying that a leaf can't fall without the permission of the whole tree. Similarly, it is not only a personal fault that a person becomes a criminal, but also the whole society has the responsibility. Moreover, in most cases, enemies and criminals are just artificial definitions imposed by power, not according to the standards of justice. Tolerance is not tolerance, because tolerance is still a negative resistance, and this unwise emotion is actually secretly embarrassing itself. Life experience and understanding of life constitute the premise and foundation of tolerance. Tolerance of others is also tolerance of oneself, which embodies tolerance and understanding of human defects. Therefore, tolerance is not only a kind of maturity, but also a kind of wisdom. In fact, this kind of "intolerance" is also worthy of tolerance because they are naive. Voltaire said, "All of us have shortcomings and mistakes. Let's forgive each other's stupidity. This is the first law of nature. "
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Question 8: What are the main aspects of a person's real maturity? What are the elements of an ideal mature personality charm? 1, improve quality and keep learning; 2. Read widely and reserve knowledge; 3. Helping others; 4. behave politely; 5. Respect others and don't call names; 6. Broad-minded, all rivers run into the sea; 7. Be content and grateful, and understand others; 8, modest and prudent, not arrogant; 9, honest and trustworthy, people-oriented; 10, not afraid of setbacks, perseverance; 1 1, forgive me; 12, optimistic, smiling at life; 13, I'm happy and self-aware; 14, accepting criticism and teaching with an open mind; 15, praise others for not being jealous; 16, scientific financial management, saving; 17, peace of mind, self-discipline; 18, self-esteem, self-confidence; 19, combining rigidity with flexibility, benefiting foreign countries; 20. Be sensible and distinguish between right and wrong; 2 1, willing to pay, not expecting anything in return. 22. Know yourself and improve yourself. In psychology, personality generally refers to a person's unique and relatively stable behavior pattern. The famous British psychologist Eysenck pointed out: "Personality is the personal character, temperament, ability and physiological characteristics that determine a person's adaptation to the environment." Clear your life goals; Have their own correct views on things; Distinguish between right and wrong, good and evil, and don't go with the flow; Positive and full of positive energy ...
Question 9: How to judge whether a person is mature or naive? Specific analysis from what aspects to describe behavior ... Take care of yourself.
Take care of your life.
Mature people are essentially people who can take care of themselves. The step of self-care is to take care of your own life. Let yourself eat delicious food, get dressed, make your work challenging, improve your study, make friends with people around you, and handle relationships well. This is the first step to maturity: you are a person who can take care of yourself, not a child who needs to be taken care of.
Pay attention to your health.
A mature person knows that time is limited. So on the one hand, he will improve efficiency and save time. On the one hand, he will take care of his health, so that he can work efficiently for a longer time. In addition, getting sick is a very torturous thing, and sick people are particularly prone to lose their dignity. This is another motivation for mature people to take care of their bodies. In the third aspect, mature people will not overeat and keep a certain amount of exercise. Therefore, self-care of body parts is also a by-product of self-control.
Take care of your emotions.
Mature people can perceive their emotions, control their emotions, and appropriately express their emotions when necessary. Including anger, crying, sympathy and so on. Mature people know that emotions are only a part of the brain's automatic processing system, so mature people will not let emotions do whatever they want, but will reach an agreement with them and get along well. Mature people are not emotionally numb, numbness is a disguised form of maturity. Mature people are more sensitive to emotions and pay more attention to them.
Take care of your own value system.
All our values constitute our value system. Values must come from two aspects, one is the in-depth observation and thinking of human society, and the other is the truest desire and pursuit in our hearts. Only in this way can your values have a profound humanity and a human foundation, and will not be easily shaken by others.
Mental maturity is a process of gradual elimination, knowing what is most important and what is not. Form the ability to say "I want" and "don't". I will gradually have a clearer preference and orientation for people and things around me. This includes coffee with or without milk and how to add it. Then, be a simple person. Acting according to the value system is not easy to compromise even if it costs a lot. Doing things is sustainable and efficient because of planning, cooperation and considering the interests of the whole system. Increase the firmness of thinking and behavior.
Understanding and tolerance of the world
1 impermanence.
A mature person understands that there is nothing in this world that he can control. Buddha said that "all actions are impermanent", but nothing we get actually belongs to us, and the quiet life we lead is not peaceful. Everything will keep leaving, and things around you will keep changing. When we understand this, the whole mind will become peaceful and will not deliberately control others. When things and people leave, we can better understand and get along. In this way, nothing can hurt him.
Lonely and full
Understand that people are lonely in the ultimate sense. A lot of things can only be undertaken by one hand, and many times you can only hold yourself. Everyone in this world, including those who love you the most, will gradually leave you. You will gradually leave this world. Reduce dependence on people.
3 sense of powerlessness and strength
People who know that their strength is limited and can't control many things can still creatively exert their strength. Give up the narcissistic fantasy of knowing everything and gaining nothing, and you don't need to use the self-testimony of the foreign minister to gain self-esteem. With a modest attitude. On the basis of this attitude, he can feel his will and strength, and use these forces to carry out real and creative work.
4 Imperfect and Perfect
Understand that the world, others and yourself are not perfect. There is a dark side and a sunny side. Understanding and tolerance of others. Willing to cultivate others, more willing to share with others. More and more people can find the advantages of others, tolerate their shortcomings and shortcomings, and be considerate of their thoughts and feelings. Know that others, like themselves, have unlimited growth possibilities and need opportunities, thinking and time for growth.
An extension of the will
1 ability and skill training.
Develop skills and abilities according to the main line of your life. These abilities include all kinds of comprehensive abilities other than professional abilities, such as speaking, persuading, negotiating, leading and so on. These abilities are tools to stretch the will, and it is with these abilities that the will and plan are not only ideas, but also gradually unfolding reality.
Take responsibility for your actions.
The premise of stretching your will is to take full responsibility for your actions >>
Question 10: What are the manifestations of a person's maturity? Actually, maturity has nothing to do with age. A person's maturity is psychological. Are you mature? The following measures can be taken. 1. Both the screen name and the personalized signature are disease-free types. People who like to use pauses or a bunch of symbols, as well as people who like sadness, have absolutely no psychological age of 20, and their real age will generally not exceed 20. 2. Can you control your desires? Even if you want it crazily, you can definitely control yourself when you shouldn't. In fact, few people can do this.