You can't get used to disrespect.
China is a country of etiquette, and respecting others is the most basic accomplishment. But nowadays, children are all small treasures at home, spoiled from top to bottom, and often spoil their children to lawlessness. We don't honor our parents at home, and even swear at the old people at home. If this happens, we must pay attention to it and discipline it in time so that children can understand the importance of respect. If the children are not disciplined in time at this time, the children will become more and more lawless and arrogant in the future. They may also go the wrong way because of recklessness, because no one will spoil him outside.
You can't get used to not following strange rules.
Obedience is the basic national law of the country, and the family has its own rules. Some children don't listen to their parents and behave themselves at home. Going out, going their own way, it is easy for them to go astray without restraint. Therefore, we must formulate rules and principles for children, cultivate their awareness of rules, and understand the seriousness of the principle of touch. Only in this way can children become people with principles, bottom lines and rules, and it is not easy to take detours. However, we should also be careful not to overdo it when making rules, so that children will obey Nuo Nuo.
Can't get used to being irresponsible.
Sense of responsibility is also an important foothold for people in society. When children may make mistakes, they dare not admit their mistakes because they are afraid of being trained, and even try their best to excuse themselves. In fact, the child's little tricks of lying can't hide from his parents at all, but we just think that the child is harmless and let him go. I don't know that this is the biggest harm to children, and they will pay for irresponsibility and lying in the future. So we should cultivate their sense of responsibility when they are still young and teach them to learn to take responsibility. When children make mistakes, let them learn to admit their mistakes and take responsibility.
No matter what you can do.
It is easy for us to worry that our children can't do this or that well, so we will always help or replace our children to do something, but in the end we will only cultivate children with physical and mental defects. Parents must understand that children are independent individuals, and sooner or later they will leave our wings and fly by themselves. Therefore, children should be encouraged to do what they can, develop good independent habits and exercise their ability to solve problems independently, which is very helpful for their growth.
You can handle it yourself.
We will find that some children will be emotional and cry when they fail, and often refuse to try again. This is all because children lack frustration experience and lack the ability to resist setbacks. Therefore, our parents should try not to interfere with the difficulties and failures that children can bear. Maybe they just helped him finish his manual homework today, so should the marriage work be solved in every detail? Flowers in the greenhouse will never thrive. However, we should always be concerned about children's mental health. Many times, mental injury is more unbearable than physical injury.