Sexual intercourse during menstruation is harmful to health.
Han zongmin
The harmony of husband and wife's sexual life is an important part of a happy family. In order to promote the happiness, happiness and normal operation of husband and wife's sexual life, the scientific and practical problem of "sexual health" is put forward at present, which is not only to maintain the happy sexual life of husband and wife and ensure their physical and mental health, but also to safeguard and respect women's rights, laying the foundation for the healthy growth of the next generation.
1988, the concept of "reproductive health" was first put forward by Fathalla, director of the special reproductive research program (HRP) of the World Health Organization (WHO), and was adopted at the International Conference on Population and Development in September 1994. "Reproductive health" has three main meanings:
1, women have reproductive ability. In other words, it can breed and produce safely and produce successful results.
Babies can survive and grow up healthily.
The deeper meaning is that people can adjust their fertility and live a safe life without endangering their health.
The proposal of "safe sex" goes further than the proposal of maintaining sexual health.
The purpose of husband and wife's sexual life is not only to reproduce, but also to improve their physical and mental health and sexual pleasure. That is to say, in old age, although both parties' sexual functions have declined to varying degrees, they can still maintain different degrees of seeking pleasure and making love. Therefore, the harmonious sexual life of husband and wife needs the maintenance and protection of both husband and wife. Only when "harmony" is achieved can there be real "harmony". In other words, everyone dies after marriage. During this long time, both husband and wife can keep having sex at different intervals, with different quality and ways according to their own health conditions, requirements and habits.
Menstruation in women is a manifestation of sexual maturity. It is a periodic endocrine change under the action and influence of hypothalamus-pituitary-ovary axis. Endometrial shedding leads to bleeding and menstrual cramps. Although every woman's menstrual cycle and duration are different. However, in addition to physiological amenorrhea during pregnancy and lactation, periodic menstrual cramps are also one of the manifestations of female organ health of women of childbearing age. How do couples view their regular sexual life in this period of periodic bleeding, or endless menstruation or massive bleeding caused by certain diseases? Is it avoidance? Is it forbidden? Or should we proceed as usual? Of course, most couples avoid it, but there are still a few couples who are still having sex when the woman's reproductive tract bleeds. What's more, some men refuse to stop even during their wives' puerperium. Can you have sexual intercourse during menstruation? Is menstrual sex really harmful? The problem of menstrual sexual life should be concerned and discussed by scholars at home and abroad, and it is also an issue that couples of childbearing age are extremely eager to know.
Liu, a domestic scholar, investigated the frequency of menstrual sexual intercourse among 200 women of childbearing age, and found that 97.52% women of childbearing age abstain from sex during menstruation. Only 2.5% people have sex occasionally or sometimes during menstruation. The initial reasons for abstinence of these women during menstruation are considered to be unsanitary, unclean and afraid of infection. But recently, some scholars put forward in the popular science magazine: "You can have the same room during menstruation, but there is no need to advocate it." Although "not advocating", "possible" is essentially a promise. I don't know how much psychological and physical trauma this simple sentence will bring to women, how much pain, sadness and disease it will cause, and even affect the harmony of husband and wife's sexual life in the future.
Menstrual sexual intercourse is absolutely harmful, which first leads to sexual organ infection and various inflammations. Under normal circumstances, there are many kinds of microscopic parasites in women's vagina, but the female sex organs themselves also have the physiological function of resisting and preventing reproductive tract infections. In the menstrual period, the resistance to prevent bacterial infection is weakened. If you have sex during the menstrual period, it will promote the bacteria carried by both genitals to rise, leading to upward infection and inflammation of various reproductive organs. Coupled with menstrual pelvic congestion, vaginal and uterine bleeding, are good media for bacterial reproduction, making infection easier to spread and aggravate. Therefore, menstrual sexual intercourse is an inducement to promote the spread of reproductive tract infection and inflammation. Patients who usually come to the gynecological clinic for medical treatment will not undergo routine vaginal examination even if the doctor wears sterile latex gloves if they are in menstrual period and there are no special circumstances. If necessary for diagnosis, after vulva disinfection, wear sterile gloves for pelvic examination. In the family, couples who pay attention to hygiene only do general vulva cleaning before sex. How do they achieve the conditions of disinfection and sterilization? Of course, this is impossible and unnecessary, and the menstrual period can be banned for a few days.
Usually, among patients in gynecological clinics, we can see that many women suffer from acute and chronic inflammation and sexually transmitted diseases of various pelvic organs due to unclean sexual intercourse or promiscuity and poor health awareness, and even leave various sequelae, among which a considerable number of patients are caused by menstrual sexual intercourse. For doctors, it is really unbearable, pitiful and sometimes even incomprehensible. As a woman, why can't such a woman protect herself? Why don't you know to cherish your health? Ignorance? Is incompetent? Or for what? Can the author who claims that she can have sexual intercourse during menstruation understand the pain that women suffer from it?
In the daily medical work of gynecologists, there will be such experiences and feelings that the number of patients with endometriosis is increasing. Of course, there are many reasons for endometriosis. However, if we can reduce the unnecessary pelvic stimulation and squeezing of genitals during menstruation, it may reduce the occurrence of some endometriosis. Avoiding sexual intercourse during menstruation is helpful to reduce the occurrence of endometriosis.
Menstrual women are often accompanied by backache, lower abdominal discomfort, fatigue and weakness, and some women have severe dysmenorrhea. Menstrual intercourse is bound to increase women's discomfort and mental boredom. As a wife, in order to maintain the feelings of husband and wife, in order not to disappoint her husband, only reluctantly obey and endure. But as a husband, when his wife is unwell and depressed, she will be forced to have sex. If she has a conscience, she will be reprimanded from the heart, not to mention having sex when menstrual blood keeps overflowing. Even if the other party is willing to be patient, it will inevitably be indecent and filthy!
At present, we should eliminate two misunderstandings in maintaining sexual health in China. First, on the issue of husband and wife's sexual life, the feudal customs in the past have been continued, and men are often dominant, and men are in an active position, sometimes even without considering each other. Women, on the other hand, are often in a passive position, obedient and echoing, just to satisfy their husbands' sexual life. Therefore, women should attach importance to "sex" and ignore "love" on the issue of husband and wife's sexual life. Husband and wife's sexual life is definitely not just for venting and satisfying sexual desire, but the embodiment of their true love.
Most of the menstrual sexual life only meets the husband's sexual requirements, but ignores the warmth and love for his wife and her health and safety. This rudeness and reluctance should not be. Of course, some women may have sexual impulses and needs during menstruation, but this is quite rare. Even so, women should cherish their health, pay attention to self-protection during menstruation, and know how to restrain and avoid it.
In short, menstrual sexual intercourse is harmful to physical and mental health, so menstrual sexual intercourse is not suitable.