Wang Xingdi, who is in her early fifties this year, is known as Aunt Wang because she is willing to match the marriage and love of disabled people. Recently, He, a 44-year-old physically disabled person who works in an electrical appliance factory in the city, found her and hoped to introduce him to a target.
Wang Xingdi works in the municipal employment service center for the disabled. She usually introduces jobs to the disabled, and her "sweet career" of building love bridges for the disabled is only her "sideline".
Aunt Wang has several thick application forms for employment of disabled people in Yuyao on her desk. She always reads the column "Marriage" carefully. When she meets disabled people who come to apply for job registration, she often asks them about their marital status with concern. When she meets the "right person", she will match the bridge and promote a beautiful marriage. Last year, the mother of Xiao Chen, a deaf-mute girl in Lubu Town, came to Wang Xingdi's office to thank her for finding a job for her daughter and talked about "troubles" by the way. Although Xiao Chen seems to be one in a million, all the boys in the neighborhood think that she is disabled and don't want to associate with her, and ordinary disabled people don't like her. How can parents not worry when they see their daughter is 29 years old and still alone? Enthusiastic aunt Wang asked about the conditions of mate selection and promised to help fix it up. Later, she found a young pony in Linshan Town. He is very capable and works as a skilled worker in an enterprise. Because he is deaf and dumb, it is difficult to find a suitable partner. Aunt Wang took pains to run back and forth between the dry port and the forest mountain for several times, and finally brought them together. At the end of last year, they got married and asked Aunt Wang to be a witness.
"Some disabled people have negative self-esteem, some even give up on themselves, and warm feelings and families are very beneficial for disabled people to face life with a healthy and positive attitude." Wang Xingdi said.
Ali, who lives in Northeast Street, is ingenious and works as a warehouse keeper in an enterprise, but she has been unhappy because she can't find a suitable object because of hemiplegia. Miao in Luting Township has been an orphan since childhood. Although she is healthy, because she has no culture and skills, she can only make a living by farming and doing short-term work in the mountains. She is still single in her thirties. Introduced by Aunt Wang, they got married and lived a sweet and beautiful life.
It is not easy to be a matchmaker for the disabled. Although Aunt Wang has studied sign language, it is not a problem to communicate with deaf people in daily life, but when it comes to specific details of mate selection, it often takes words and gestures to communicate, and sometimes it takes two or three hours to figure out the conditions for both parties to choose a spouse.
It is aunt Wang's happiest thing to see disabled people enjoy the happiness of marriage and family like normal people and eat the candy they sent. For more than three years, Aunt Wang has married over 10 couples. The first deaf-mute couple got married, and now their children are two years old. She said: "At present, there are thousands of disabled people in Yuyao who need to get married, but most of them are introverted because of their disabilities. They seldom participate in social activities, and they have fewer opportunities to meet the opposite sex. There is a lack of places for disabled people to make friends with each other. Their marriage has become a social problem, and I have the responsibility to help them find a happy harbor. "
Aunt Wang also has plans. In the future, if the conditions are met, she will hang a card for herself and be a "sweet career" for the disabled.