Sister Jia said healthy.

What kind of woman will actively or passively become a mistress?

What kind of woman will intentionally or unintentionally destroy other people's feelings and family?

Beautiful? Lazy? moral degeneration ...

Recently, the drama that has been chasing for 30 years has a brand-new answer to this question.

Those women who are destined to be mistresses or will be chosen by love rat to be mistresses all have one thing in common: it is hard to fill their wants.

That is to say, when a woman's desire exceeds her ability, she will smell like a mistress everywhere, and love rat will come uninvited.

0 1, workplace disaster: Li Ke.

Li Ke, a female employee of Xu Huanshan Fireworks Company, has a short entry time and poor professional ability.

If she wants to gain a foothold in the highly competitive workplace and even surpass the performance of other colleagues, the shortcut she can think of is to be a mistress and win over the male boss Xu Huanshan through the advantages of women and age.

So, with a monthly income of 6,000 yuan, she was willing to spend all her money and bought a high-grade orange for her male boss, Xu Huanshan, with a warm reminder: supplement VC.

But her little mind was seen through by Xu Huanshan's wife Gu Jia.

Gu Jia immediately ran around and found the same orange and bought it for her husband. At the same time, she hinted to Li Ke that she should concentrate on her career.

But Li ke doesn't know convergence. When Xu Huanshan worked overtime, she took the initiative to deliver meals and had dinner alone with Xu Huanshan.

During the dinner, her words conveyed three important messages:

This meal is not called take-away, but I made it myself (I am very virtuous);

Poor health, often upset stomach, can not eat takeout (weak body, need protection);

I like the company very much, but I am always afraid to hold it back (I like you and know how to work hard);

It is not enough to express these three points. Li Ke also properly cried a pear flower with rain, and successfully won the favor and comfort of Xu Huanshan.

After returning home, Xu Huanshan praised Li Ke's sense of responsibility and self-improvement spirit to his wife Gu Jia.

This time, Gu Jia bought several boxes of the same oranges and sent them to the company. All the employees enjoyed it, and everyone had a share. He told everyone loudly that this orange was recommended by Li Ke.

In the response of "thank you boss" and "thank you sister Jia", I intentionally warned Li Ke's wife identity and asked Li Ke to stop.

However, Li Ke identified this shortcut and vowed not to stop until he reached his goal. He did it again.

At a dinner party between Xu Huanshan and his clients, Li Ke came uninvited.

The female subordinate at the dinner table is naturally the object of drinking by malicious men, so Li Ke, as a company employee, got as drunk as a fiddler for the benefit of the company, which successfully aroused Xu Huanshan's hero's heart to save the beauty.

At the entrance of the hotel, Li Ke praised the design talent of Magic Mountain and lamented that customers were ungrateful.

This suddenly touched the weakness of Xu Huanshan, who regards design, art and talent as his life, and aggravated Xu Huanshan's hatred of unreasonable demands from customers. As a result, Xu Huanshan began to fight with customers and lost 50% of the company's orders and interests.

At this point, Li Ke, who just wanted to take shortcuts as a mistress, thought that his heart and Xu Huanshan's heart were one step closer, and he had no idea that he had made a big disaster.

Finally, Gu Jia was fed up and fired him.

In the face of Gu Jia's practice, Xu Huanshan thinks that this is making a mountain out of a molehill, which is totally unnecessary. It can be seen that Li Ke's efforts to be a mistress have played a great role. If he is not fired, the consequences will be as Li Ke wishes.

02. Innocent poison: Lin Youyou

Lin Youyou, an employee at the bottom of a large amusement park in Beijing, is responsible for receiving the preparations for setting off fireworks in Xuhuanshan Park.

At this time, Lin Youyou, who just graduated from college, was in his twenties. He met Xu Huanshan, who was about 30 years old, had a successful career and was talented and handsome. He couldn't help thinking about it.

If she can succeed, then her life is over.

In the process of contact, she has always portrayed herself as a silly and sweet image, seemingly harmless, but has been using dark energy to provoke the relationship between Xu Huanshan and his wife.

She said that she chose to work in the park because she likes fireworks. The park is one of the few places where fireworks are allowed now, which has suddenly narrowed the distance between her and Xu Huanshan.

She took Xu Huanshan to eat ice cream and licked Xu Huanshan's ice cream without a sense of boundaries.

She and Xu Huanshan went to eat crayfish, ate and drank, and kept giggling;

She gave Xu Huanshan a small pendant gift and secretly promised it.

Even if Xu Huanshan returned to Shanghai, she has been using WeChat to send various pictures to Xu Huanshan to tease and interact;

When Xu Huanshan told her that his wife, Gu Jia, wouldn't let him eat sweets, dinner or develop healthy eating habits, Lin Youyou laughed at Xu Huanshan's listening to his wife and brainwashed Xu Huanshan with the story of "The Eighth Cicada":

Life is too short to be a cicada that sings endlessly and only lives for seven days; Don't be a solitary cicada who lives to the eighth day.

The emotional attitude conveyed by this story is clear: life is alive, enjoy the word, act willfully and live wonderfully.

When Xu Huanshan was impressed by Lin Youyou's worship and seemingly simplicity, and deeply felt that his wife was not easy, he designed a "UU" shaped fireworks for Lin Youyou as a farewell, claiming that he would never go to Beijing again, and deleted Lin Youyou's WeChat.

But Lin Youyou did not intend to give up this shortcut in life. She put all her eggs in one basket, resigned from Beijing and went to Shanghai to pursue Xu Huanshan to express her deep love and lingering thoughts.

Finally, Lin Youyou successfully captured Xu Huanshan, which directly led to the end of the marriage between Xu Huanshan and Gu Jia.

However, even without a screenwriter, we can guess the story behind it.

Without Xu Huan in Gu Jia, it is no longer Xu Huan that Lin Youyou likes.

Xu Huanshan's career was successful because of Gu Jia's sacrifice, encouragement and courage at a critical moment.

Xu Huanshan's family is happy because of her ability, wisdom and unreserved dedication.

Xu Huan is so beautiful and rich because of Gu Jia's sharing, help and meticulous care.

What Gu Jia did was not Lin's ability.

Therefore, even if Lin Youyou becomes a junior three or a superior, with Xu Huanshan, it is already different.

03. Innocent elite: Wang Manni

Unlike Li Ke and Lin You, Wang Manni passively became a mistress.

Why did Liang Zhengxian choose her as the third party?

Wang Manni, 30 years old, unmarried, born in a small city, works hard in Shanghai alone, and her only dream is to take root in Shanghai.

Her income is limited, but she still refuses to share, preferring to pay high rent and have a separate kitchen and bathroom. She rented herself in the city center and sat on the balcony of the rental house, feeling that she was also a member of Shanghai.

The company rewarded a trip to Europe. She would rather eat instant noodles for several months than buy high-end high heels, and borrowed two high-end skirts from Gu Jia to support her face.

On the cruise, she was dissatisfied with the poor environment in economy class and preferred to upgrade to executive class by credit card.

On the cruise, she gave up the free restaurant and went to a paid restaurant to enjoy it.

Of course, all this cannot escape the eyes of veteran Liang Zhengxian.

In Liang Zhengxian's eyes, Wang Manni is beautiful (obvious), mature (dressed up), dining alone, unable to sit in the best position (not often on business trips and unfamiliar with routines), wearing high-heeled shoes with soles (usually unable to afford high-grade high-heeled shoes), not knowing the quality of wine (not often drinking), and her best dish is scrambled eggs with tomatoes (virtuous, at home).

It can be said that Wang Manni's real embarrassment and pseudo-exquisiteness are seen through by Liang Zhengxian, and she is really the best person to be a mistress.

And getting Liang Zhengxian, who is handsome, rich, knowledgeable and tasteful, and interesting to perfection, can also solve all the problems in Wang Manni's real life, such as forced marriage, economic embarrassment, age dilemma and workplace bottleneck. ...

So Liang Zhengxian bought Wang Manni high-end shoes, luxury goods, cars and bank cards. ...

Although Wang Manni, who is independent and arrogant, refused the temptation of a lot of money, she refused to be imprisoned.

But Liang Zhengxian took her to Europe to travel, dive, watch dramas, watch private mileage exhibitions of famous designers, and go to high-end wine tasting, which enriched Wang Manni's life, improved her taste, increased her knowledge, and made her speak tough, straight and arrogant in front of colleagues and friends.

And these are beyond her ability.

Finally, Liang Zhengxian's fiancee came to the door and woke her up with a slap.

Liang Zhengxian advised her to accept an emotional "threesome". Of course, if she accepts this time, there will be a threesome in the future.

When Xiao San's crime was finally decided, Wang Manni realized that when her desire exceeded her ability, all the excitement was just drawing water with a sieve.

Therefore, whether Li Ke or Lin Youyou take the initiative to be a mistress or Wang Manni's mistress, the reason is that their inner desire exceeds their own ability, and they want to take shortcuts through men, and finally they end up miserable.

This also sounded the alarm for all the audience, the road should be taken step by step, and the rice should be eaten bite by bite.

There are no shortcuts in life. Only by letting ability walk in front of desire forever can we have a smooth road and stride forward.

I hope the above words can encourage my readers.

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