What exactly is a man? Physically and psychologically, they are different from women. If it has a male reproductive system, it has masculinity and masculine beauty. Zoologically, men are men. See what a man really looks like.
What exactly is a man? Photo 1 After the frustration of love, women have a hazy understanding of men, an animal completely different from themselves, which is far from enough compared with the requirement of a happy marriage. Before formally entering the marriage hall, it is very necessary for women to thoroughly dissect men and see what "things" men are. It is often heard that injured women curse that men are not "good things", so why are men not "good things"? There are two main reasons: first, in the eyes of women, men don't talk about the rules of "love" and often "never leave" women;
Second, men are strong and women are weak, and it is natural for the weak to scold the strong. Women don't understand why the same man, when pursuing her, is condescending and passionate, but after pursuing her, he is as cold as ice, and soon moves on and likes the wild flowers outside. What kind of animal is man? In my opinion, men are not emotional animals at first. A normal man's first thought is not how to love, but how to conquer: first, conquer women (that is, sex and flirting); The second is to conquer the world (that is, to conquer the same kind and achieve the cause). If the real awakening of women's consciousness comes from menarche, then men's self-esteem and pride begin to realize that "penis" can make him pee standing up and often "fly into a rage".
In an adult man's subconscious, the first thing is not how to "love", but how to conquer. Men's enterprising spirit may come from this. Let's review the differences between men and women in love. When a woman meets the man she loves, her heart is always dark and shy. What did she start to do next? She began to imagine herself falling in love with the right person and spending her life together in various romantic scenes. Nietzsche said that women are often deceived not by men, but by their own imagination, as long as she has enough imagination and understanding to deceive herself.
People often say that a woman in love has zero IQ, which means "rational and logical thinking", but when it comes to "perceptual imagination", every woman in love can be called "artist". At this time, her inspiration and whimsy from generate are enough to eclipse the most outstanding writers, musicians, painters, directors and actors in the world. What about men? Men will imagine, be heartbroken and be crazy, but men are more concerned about how to get women into bed step by step. Men will rack their brains and create every opportunity to make it reasonable to hold hands, hug, kiss and go to bed. This rationality is not aimed at men, but to take care of a woman's self-esteem and ladylike mentality-even if she wants to, it seems to be due to "irresistible external reasons" (such as cold, danger, fear, etc. ) or "forced by men." The biggest difference between men and women in love is that men regard it as a task and want to shorten the time of conquest as much as possible.
Women are usually the opposite. Because of fear and uncertainty, she wants to prolong this process as much as possible (except for women with rich love experience) so that she can have enough time to enjoy this spiritual feast. Women's love is wholehearted, not only in spirit, but also in body, which makes the process of women entering and exiting the state of love much longer than that of men. Once a man completely conquers a woman physically and mentally, it often means the end of a process or task, but for a woman, everything has just begun. When the woman devoted herself to "I want to love this man all my life and treat him well", the man had lit a cigarette and began to ponder "how to earn more money".
This "ruthlessness" of a man stems from the "hunter" duty entrusted to him by God since ancient times. Whether a man loves a woman or not depends mainly on whether he is gentle or a gentleman, but on whether he is willing to end his "tramp" mentality when he is single and earn money for women in a down-to-earth manner. A man who has not solved the problem of food and clothing has a serious anxiety (if he is accidentally offended, he will often vent it in a furious way). It is not only inappropriate for a woman to talk to him about gentlemanly manners at this time, but it is a kind of harm to him. "A man never worries about the future until after he gets married; A woman has been worried about the future until she gets married. " Accurately speaking, a man's worry about the future begins not with marriage, but with his true love for women.
Why don't men who live together get married in such a hurry as women? Women often think that men don't love her enough and worry that they will be dumped by him sooner or later. Women's understanding of marriage is "eternal love", while men usually understand marriage as "eternal responsibility". The reason why a man agrees to marry a woman is not how much he "loves" the woman emotionally (his sensibility has almost been released in the love stage), but that he is willing to be responsible for the woman rationally, or in other words, the man's "love" is more manifested as a "deep responsibility". The reason why men who live together are unwilling to get married does not rule out that they are playful and dissatisfied with women. Another possibility is that he is not satisfied with his current economic situation and career status, or he is not completely sure whether he can bring happiness to this woman. Men's psychology of treating sex and love, emotion and responsibility is different, which determines that their attitude towards sex cannot be as serious as that of women.
Wife, concubine and prostitute, three kinds of women who often appear in men's field of vision in today's society (there were also "maids" in ancient times, which can now be translated into "female nannies"), have completely different concepts, images and status in men's minds. Men go to karaoke bars to find "ladies" or have extramarital affairs, which often only involve pure sex. His love with "miss" is only temporary, and his love with "lover" is often "fever" (of course, there are many overheating), which is as unreliable as a mirage. Whether a man loves his wife after marriage mainly depends on two important indicators. First, whether he is willing to be responsible for the happiness of his family and his wife and children; The second is whether he is willing to divorce. If the former is positive and the latter is negative, then according to the standards of the male world, this man can score at least 60 points.
However, women will never see it that way. Family is the most important thing in a woman's life. The unique physiological structure given by women to men and the heavy burden of raising offspring determine that they can't ignore the intimacy of the relationship between men and women.
If time goes back or technology advances to the point where men can get pregnant and have children, men will also value the degree to which women love them. At this time, men may feel insecure, jealous and xenophobic. From the animal level, the happiness and security that women naturally value are not so much for themselves as for the physical and mental health of their offspring (especially during pregnancy).
In this sense, women have indeed made great sacrifices for the continuation of the race. The great differences between men and women in physiology, psychology, thinking and action determine that anyone who stands from the perspective of women will think that men can't be "good things". However, if this lawsuit hits God, God may say to the woman, "You are right, son, men are really bad things. However, have you found that the suspected goods are buyers? "
What is a man? Picture 2 1. The differences between men and women in gene, physiology, social responsibility and status determine the differences between men and women.
The so-called face is not only a man's exclusive right, but men often publicize their advantages or strengths in social occasions and public places to win the favor of the opposite sex around them. It is the instinct of human evolution to gain a dominant position among men without the presence of the opposite sex. This is the case with biological mate selection. Face is worthless. Face is just what people say. In fact, it is a kind of male dignity. What many men can't tolerate is that their women yell at him and argue with him in public, so that men will feel embarrassed, and they will be looked at by the same sex or the opposite sex. He is too weak in the eyes of the same sex and unattractive in the eyes of the opposite sex. This is the essence of a man's good face. Face is worthless, but face is worth feeling.
2. It is said that men don't understand the problem of true love, and I also feel very suspicious that women know true love? Can women understand a man's heart? At least in love, if there is inequality between men and women, there will be no result, only pain. The so-called equality means mutual understanding, mutual understanding, mutual tolerance and mutual respect, so that the husband can sing with the woman. The problem you are talking about seems to be that you have problems and contradictions in your relationship. In modern society, men are actually facing greater pressure. He has to support his family, buy a house, work hard for his career, take care of his wife and children, and so on.
Therefore, he will inevitably have troubles, and when he is in a bad mood, if you blindly mess around at this time, he may be very upset or disgusted, and the relationship between husband and wife will inevitably have friction. If the double-opposition character is strong, it will be aggravated. On the other hand, if everyone can understand each other, the family will be harmonious sooner or later. At the same time, remember that many men are both hard and soft. Don't go against him, use a roundabout way. How to bypass? I don't know, because I'm a man and I can't say. You know better than I do.
Finally, I wish you happiness and harmony
What is a man? Figure 3 What animal is man?
One day, I heard a little girl say in kindergarten, "wolves, bears, mice, old snakes ... all bad and dirty animals are people." Small white flour, flowers, red, tadpoles, chickens ... all good and clean are women. " By the way, little girl, I have been begging for it for a long time.
I think: according to the biological classification of class, order, family and genus, men should also belong to the higher animals in mammals, but it seems that men should not be counted as mammals. Because men are no better than women and have no milk to feed!
However, it is somewhat unrealistic to regard men as advanced animals. Because men have too many "low-level" animal characteristics, the evidence is as follows:
-Men are sharks.
Everyone must have heard of the characteristics of sharks: sharks generally do not take the initiative to attack humans. In fact, they are not interested in people. They only attack when they smell human blood. That's because a special smell in the blood will stimulate the nerves of sharks and make them excited. In order to aggravate the nerve stimulation caused by this smell, sharks began to attack humans, biting people's skin, causing people to shed more blood to get more pleasure.
People and sharks have the same characteristics. As long as he sees a woman showing a little affection for him, he will embolden himself to pursue each other. If a woman is ordinary to him, even if he loves that woman again, he won't take any action, just like a shark will attack only when it smells blood, and will disdain it without blood.
Men can feel pleasure when imagining women's reactions, similar to the excitement of sharks after smelling blood. This is the fundamental reason why some men are like sharks. The woman's reaction determines the man's pleasure. The more you panic, the happier he will be. Because panic means that women have received this kind of "sexual" information, which is what men expect.
-Men are lions.
In nature, male animals fight to the death for power. This kind of struggle is even more tragic among lions. The defeated lion limped in the dim light, and could die somewhere at any time because of his injuries, and the defeated lion was also scarred. The purpose of this desperate struggle for power is to create a few little lions with their own genes and let their genes spread. As for defeating the opponent, letting him go is to ensure the purity of the genes he spreads. For the hero on the winning side, his rights are inviolable, so the loser must get out. As for the defeated opponent, that is, its genes cannot spread, and it is blocked by the winner, so it can only open another battlefield and fight for power again.
Men are better than lions. Men sometimes want to possess women not only to spread genes, but also to satisfy certain desires. On the one hand, they need to satisfy their desires, on the other hand, they prevent other men from satisfying their desires.
When expressing his possessiveness, he said with the appearance of a man: "I can't have too many women in the world." It's just a pity that a man's energy is not good, either because he doesn't have enough power and financial resources to buy women all over the world, or because he has the power and financial resources like an emperor and has no physical strength, otherwise a man won't do this.
Man is a synthesis of all animals.
Man is just an animal, but he is like a shark and a lion. Like many other animals, he may be as stupid as a pig, as disgusting as a dog, as lustful as a cat, and as prone as a bug.
A man has no milk to feed, and he is also given a license to "breastfeed" animals. Because there are so many characteristics of men, it is really difficult to classify men accurately.
Men are not high-level animals, but compared with other low-level animal populations in the animal kingdom, there are indeed many kinds, which makes women unprepared, and every man is different. According to the classification method of Cordyceps sinensis, it is also a "transitional" species between higher animals and lower animals. High is low. Forget "advanced animals"!