As the old saying goes, "stand at thirty", this sentence is used to describe men most of the time. In fact, this idea is narrow, because this sentence can also be applied to women.
30-year-old is an important watershed. No matter whether men or women cross this dividing line, life will begin another stage. Whether a man or a woman is over 30 years old, it basically means that you have passed the adolescence of your life, and you have officially entered adulthood both mentally and physically.
When you are depressed, you should become psychologically mature, slowly let go of those unrealistic dreams before, and begin to focus on the present life. Your life should be suddenly enlightened, just like finding a little light in a mold. You finally understand that your future life should be
How can I take off?
Unlike children, adults are always better at planning the present life, because there will be more realistic conjectures about the future in their world. If a child gets ten dollars of pocket money, his first choice must be how to spend the ten dollars. When adults suddenly get a sum of money, most of them consider how to save some money for a rainy day on the basis of satisfying their wishes.
As a smart woman, you should know what is the most important thing in life, especially what is worth pursuing after thirty. For example: money. It's hard for you to admit that you can lack a lot of things in your life, but if you have shortcomings, you will be unable to move.
Gu long once said in the prodigal son of the border town: there are many things more important than money, but these things are often only available with money. So, if you look closely, you will find that after the age of 30, really smart women begin to do this-save money.
After the age of 30, women's skin condition and physical condition naturally began to decline. ) metabolism is gradually becoming slow. If you want to make your body healthier, you have to spend more energy and money to maintain yourself than before. As can be seen from the above, although the world often says that physical health is more important than anything else, physical health is also based on economic prosperity to some extent. Before the competition, money is not everything, but it is absolutely impossible without money.
Physical condition and skin condition are only a part of a person's life, and women still have a lot to enjoy in this world. For example, a bunch of flowers every day, a movie once a week, and a trip once a month, such as an expensive set of jewelry, an expensive bottle of perfume, and an expensive bag ... These things sound unrealistic, but they are the lifelong dreams of many women, because they only represent one sentence "live beautifully". Probably no woman in this world can refuse this sentence.
A woman's life must be beautiful. This beauty can be used not only to describe her appearance, but also to describe her daily life. However, beauty needs a price, and the most basic price is money. Therefore, as a smart woman, what she must start to do after 30 years old is to save money.
So, how to save a sum of money for our own survival, so that the future will not be stretched? Please do this: "Moonlight clan" is the standard life of modern young people. With the development of the times, most people no longer just pursue food and clothing in life as before, but begin to pursue material enjoyment and emotional pleasure. They spend almost as much as they can, and even because of excesses, they have no money to spend at the end of the month. This kind of life is good, because arbitrary consumption will definitely make you happy, but there is a risk, that is, once you lose your income, your life will begin to become embarrassing.
In order to avoid this embarrassment, you should learn to keep a relative balance between income and expenditure and ensure your savings in this balance. To make ends meet, the first thing to do is to reduce unnecessary expenses. For example, if you go out for a walk after dinner and see a steaming baked red wedding cake on the roadside, you want to buy one. You can think about whether you need this food, instead of buying one at random.
If you just want to satisfy your desire, you can consider controlling your desire, so you can save money on buying baked sweet potatoes. Come on, there are many other examples. You can calm down for a minute before spending, and seriously think about whether you really need this thing. If this thing is only to satisfy your desire, then you can start to consider whether this desire must be satisfied, which can save a lot of unnecessary expenses.
Money is the material basis to maintain people's lives. If there is no money, it can be said that it is difficult to move. Once a woman is over 30, you should start to think about money. After all, you can't save much money by saving money, and you can't save much money by saving money.
Once you are over 30, you will no longer be that ignorant girl. Even if the mentality is still young, the age will not be "forever young", so we must return to reality and learn to increase our income steadily. Love and friendship are just a part of your life. Even without them, your life will not come to a standstill. If you are still obsessed with the love in front of you after 30 years old, then your future life is doomed to be a "tragedy".
A 30-year-old woman should be realistic, only pursue what she can catch, and don't always entangle those affairs. Sooner or later, you will understand that the only person in this life who will not betray you is yourself; What makes you confident is the money in your pocket.
As long as you are independent, you don't need to lower your personality to look at other people's faces at any time. Really, if you carefully observe the women around you, you will find that after 30 years old, really smart women have begun to learn to save money. Because they clearly know that only money can bring a sense of security, only money is the most solid backer, and only money can always give themselves roses, bags, jewelry and beautiful clothes.
Before the age of 30: You can still live willfully, but after the age of 30, you are responsible for your own life. No one is your eternal dependence, you can only rely on yourself, so from now on, cherish the beauty of the moment and start making money and saving money for your life. Sooner or later, you will thank yourself now.