As parents, they are most concerned about the education of their children. Speaking of hot spots, parents and students are very interested in the college entrance examination and senior high school entrance examination in June every year. Whenever the scores are released, the champion of the college entrance examination will become a topic of discussion. Some schools even invite the champion and his parents to share some successful experiences. The major media are also keen to report the story behind "Xueba".
Some people may think that "learning hegemony is innate", but in fact, on the road of learning, persistence and seriousness are the key to becoming a tyrant.
Learning is a long-term accumulation process. Only by persisting in completing the learning tasks at each stage can we lay a solid foundation for the next stage of learning. Like a building, the foundation is not firm, and the ground shakes. The reason why the leaning tower of Pisa leans is not the designer's intention, but the cumulative effect of land subsidence: the leaning tower was originally a vertical building when it was originally designed, but it began to deviate from the correct position at the early stage of construction. In the first construction stage, when the third floor of the tower is completed, the bell tower leans about1/4 to the north; In the second stage, due to over-correction, the seventh floor tilted about 0.6 to the south when it was completed; It was not until 1360 that the top bell house was built and the inclination of the leaning tower increased to 1.6.
The same is true in learning. If the foundation of the previous stage is not solid, it will inevitably affect the learning of the later stage. Smart children will not only preview new knowledge, but also review old knowledge in the holiday system.
The reason why Xueba is Xueba is not only his own efforts, but also the environment provided by his parents.
Smart parents understand that "they can't bear to part with their children, but they can't catch wolves", and education also needs investment. Of course, this kind of investment is not only money investment, but also persistence and companionship throughout the year. If children are allowed to develop freely without parents' encouragement and support, their future will be full of more uncertainty.
The growth of the fairy tale king Zheng is a very typical example. His father is a teacher of Shijiazhuang Advanced Infantry College. It is said that there are all kinds of books on their desks forever. The scene of his father writing lesson plans at his desk has always been accompanied by his growth, which is also Zheng's earliest enlightenment education. He once joked that his father often took him to play mahjong. Maybe he is numb now. He once said, "I think a father's example is more useful than asking his children to get a hundred points."
No expert's golden rule has a more direct effect on children than parents' words and deeds. As parents, they should help children learn to enjoy the learning process. In the process of learning, they can get the pleasure of knowledge, let children realize the joy of learning and the power of knowledge, and children can have stronger motivation to explore and accept new knowledge.
At present, there are all kinds of tutorial and training schools in society, which can solve some problems existing in children's current knowledge learning, but it is particularly important to cultivate children's yearning for knowledge and interest in learning, because good habits make life shine. For example, sometimes parents directly ask their children to study, such as how many pages they are required to read a week. Maybe the children really read it. But is it a question to read, or a stopgap measure to deal with parents? There was once a parent who asked his child to do several pages of homework every day and bought a lot of English reference books for his child, but he finished the whole problem in one morning! It is conceivable that an exercise book has two or three hundred pages, and it is quite laborious to read it from beginning to end, not to mention the completion of quality and quantity. Children's answers are all written a, b, c and d, and only a, b and c are available. ..
Today's children are exposed to various cultures much earlier than when we were young, and the rebellious period comes earlier. Sometimes, the more parents ask, the less willing children are to do it. Just like reading, when parents ask their children how many pages they read a week, it is better to tell them the stories in the book and attract them to find the answers themselves.
With the continuous progress of the times and the constant renewal of knowledge, sometimes as parents, our knowledge may not be as good as that of children who are studying. Therefore, to educate children well, parents should also keep pace with the times, live and study, and constantly improve themselves. Behind the "schoolmaster", there are not necessarily wealthy families or highly educated parents, but there must be persuasive parents. We don't want to cultivate "schoolmasters", but to make children better than before and be able to wander in the ocean of knowledge. Therefore, we don't have to envy other people's excellent children, but we should cultivate our own children bit by bit. That's all that matters.