First of all, the common X problem
1, sexual behavior disorder
This is a slight psychological and behavioral problem, and it is an occasional and abnormal sexual emotional experience, which lasts for a short time. Due to a slight deviation, all individuals' learning, living and social functions are basically normal.
The emergence of this experience is influenced by time, environment and personal mood. Patients clearly know the reasons for this emotion, and can restrain and adjust it automatically. With the change of the above conditions, they can relieve themselves.
This sexual psychological deviation includes temporary homosexuality, fetishism, heterosexual aversion and occasional impotence.
2. Sexual behavior disorder
In a certain link in the process of sexual behavior, various factors cause persistent deviation or disorder of sexual behavior, and can affect the behavior at other stages. Because patients can't relieve themselves for a long time, they are in an anxious state, and even have fear of sexual behavior, thus losing their self-confidence and interest in sexual behavior and affecting their feelings and daily work life.
3. Sexual perversion
This is a group of sexual behavior disorders based on personality disorder, also known as sexual personality disorder, which can occur in any link of sexual behavior. Disordered links often replace the whole process of sexual behavior. Although the patient has self-knowledge, he is unable to extricate himself because of personality defects and weak willpower.
Second, what should I do if there is an X problem?
First of all, we can convince these people. Once they are found to have abnormal sexual orientation, we should do detailed ideological work in time to help them realize that sex is a natural phenomenon, which is determined by our human heredity and body structure and is the need of carrying on the family line. Sexual behavior, sexual physiology and sexual psychology have long been the objects of scientific research.
Some sexual deviance and sexual psychological weirdness do not necessarily mean the degeneration of personal conscience and morality, but are determined by childhood experiences or some genetic factors that have not yet been understood. It is a common phenomenon. Only by receiving psychological counseling as soon as possible can we alleviate psychological depression and pain and restore health as soon as possible.
Secondly, we should tell people who are psychologically unhealthy and communicate with psychological counselors boldly and openly. Only by thoroughly exposing their sexual troubles, including every detail, will the psychological counselor help you analyze the causes of the problem and find out the specific solutions to the problem.
Finally, when talking with consultants about their own problems, it is best to start with specific cases and start in chronological order to avoid vagueness, specious, awkward and vague generalities. We should analyze the problem in detail and in depth.
Because individual patients have a certain understanding of sexual knowledge, they should be clear about the genital structure and sexual intercourse process. This situation is not uncommon for young men. Although some of them do have organic diseases, most of them are caused by psychological factors (mostly tension, experience and skill problems) formed after the first failure.
Sexual pleasure is not only a mechanical stimulus, but also a subjective feeling. Therefore, if you are anxious, lack of self-confidence, blame yourself, fear of past failures, etc. Always occupy the mind, the brain will be inhibited by these factors, thus affecting the success of sexual life.
Try to control your emotions, encourage yourself, and don't accept negative psychological hints. Finally, after careful running-in, self-confidence, and endurance exercises of corresponding intensity, the husband and wife finally succeeded.