First: correctly treat the pursuit of the opposite sex.
Second: having a good impression doesn't mean liking it.
Third: Boys who profess to girls in public must refuse.
No matter how many boys there are, don't promise. First of all, it seems romantic to confess to girls in public, but it is actually very hard. If the girl refuses in public, the boy will lose face. If the girl agrees, then she is not ready at all, or in fact, she refuses. Most of the girls who agree are kind-hearted and easy to be soft-hearted, but they are also more likely to suffer losses. In fact, if you think about it, kissing directly or even doing other behaviors in public is no different from this kind of behavior. If you really love each other, it is a shame, and it is in front of the person you hug.
Fourth: boys who are handsome and have good language skills should pay attention.
In college, such boys are not worried about finding a girlfriend, but they are likely to break up. There are many boys who can talk, but they are all handsome. Of course, there is no shortage of girls around, but at this time, it should be noted that girls who have just entered the university have not experienced many things and met many people. When you meet such a boy, you will often agree, but it is easy to lose your agreement. But it doesn't mean that such a boy must be bad, just when you choose to fall in love with each other, don't promise each other too easily. If you think the other person is nice, say yes, but in the meantime, don't accept any gifts from the other person. Even if you go to eat, try to pay the bill equally. Otherwise, you will feel indebted. Even if you don't like each other, it's hard to refuse.
When love encounters setbacks, college students should learn to mediate and guide themselves and improve their endurance. So what should we do when love is frustrated or lovelorn? First, evaluate yourself correctly and reasonably, that is, calmly analyze the reasons for lovelorn, find out your own shortcomings and try to correct them, and constantly improve yourself. The second is positive self-suggestion, that is, you can't use "I am not as good as others" to imply yourself after falling out of love, so as not to fall into a negative psychological mode. The third is emotional sublimation, turning to rationality with an open-minded attitude, and turning the pain of lovelorn into the motivation of learning. From a rational point of view, losing love does not mean losing the meaning of life. Focus on your studies and turn negative emotions into positive behaviors.