However, if a man really loves you, he won't do anything to you. He will control himself even if he is angry, because he doesn't want to touch you at all. He is afraid that you will get hurt and even more afraid that you will leave, so he will be a little reluctant to start work on you. Therefore, only men who really love you will not attack you or maliciously slander you.
Second, it is not easy for family members to be cold and violent, and it is not easy for your husband and wife to quarrel, even if he is angry, even if he feels heartless. He will not treat you coldly, nor will he easily impose cold domestic violence on you, let alone cold violence on you, leaving you at a loss. He won't say anything, slamming doors, pots and bowls, and not going home at night. He won't let you worry about his safety, and he also cares about you coming out to find him, so even if he is angry, he will say that he wants to go out to play alone. Until his inner anger subsides, try to remember your kindness to him. So when I came back from outside, I still remembered to go to the mall to let you buy your favorite snacks and then bribe you. I hope you can forgive me. Therefore, usually after the husband and wife quarrel, the husband has this embodiment, and he is really a lover, so we must cherish it.
Third, face your mistakes positively and frankly after quarreling. After every quarrel, no matter who is right or wrong, he will bow to you first to admit his mistake. After the quarrel, he will not be cold and violent to you, nor will he treat his mistakes as nothing. On the contrary, he will be positive and honest. After that, he will take the initiative to talk to you and ask for your tolerance. He will talk to you calmly and tell you honestly that he is not correct. Because he loves you, he wants to make up with you as soon as possible, and he can't help hurting you, so he can't wait to treat his mistakes positively and frankly. If your husband still treats you like that after the quarrel, you must cherish this relationship.
Fourth, I will humble your little temper, and I will choose to tolerate your husband and wife. No matter who is right or wrong, he won't argue with you. Even if you have a bad temper, even if it's your fault, he won't haggle with you. It is more difficult to tell you the truth when you need comfort, and it is your fault to tell you. But after he calms down, he will take the initiative to talk to you, bow to you, apologize to you, and don't forget to lie.
Let you buy your favorite dessert until you are happy. If a man will treat you like that, humble your little temper and choose to tolerate you, then you must have married the right person. If you really meet such a good husband, then people who care about you, tolerate you and tolerate you, then you must know how to cherish it.
I will diligently find the root of the problem, instead of obsessing about right and wrong. If a man quarrels with you, he is not obsessed with right and wrong, right and wrong, but diligently finds the root of the problem and remembers how to solve the difficulty quickly. In this case, he can only be a good person within a proper range. He knows that quarreling has no practical significance. The most important thing is not to quarrel unnecessarily, but to further solve the difficulties. If you meet such a man after a quarrel, your married life will be very happy, because the other person is very responsible for you and yourself.
In fact, in marriage, it is inevitable to bump into each other, and quarrels between husband and wife are frequent. Quarrel is a strong way of communication between husband and wife. Whether it can promote feelings usually depends on the man's mentality after the quarrel. If a woman meets a man who can treat you like this when quarreling, she must cherish it, so that she can have the blessing of past lives to meet such a good man.